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My daughter who is 10 yrs old is good at studies, also excel well in writing, reciting poems, singing and dance. But she always hesitate to participate in Stage programmes. Neither does she go out and join her friends in the neighbourhood. She is too shy. Please help me in this. Shikha replied. Hi there please help me also as the same problem is with my daughter as well and even she is the same age, please guide us as what can be done and how to deal with the situation and also if anyone wants to get some solution out of it. Seema replied. Hello divya if you want i can help you in this as my kid was very shy and he used to never talk at all but then we finally found the solution for the same and dealt to the situation, please make sure you connect with me so that can help you in this. Suman replied. Hey dear you are not alone in this as there are many kids with the same issue and they tend to be shy, so please stop worrying so much and i am sure time will come when your daughter will be going out and will have the confidence in her so relaxed and chill. Sujata replied. Hey divya nice to see that you are so concerned abut your daughter and you should not panic so much as your daughter is too young and you have lots of time to identify the solution for the same, please relax and let your daughter also enjoy life. Ankita replied. Hello dear this is really sad to see that you are facing such issues and this is a matter of concern as this is the right age of your daughter to get the proper openings for the future, please consult a good doctor as this is really a big issue and must get solution for the same. Anushree replied. Hi divya i am doctor and can help in this matter i need to understand some things before that whether there were any issues in the past or any some wrong thing happen with her, please be comfortable and answer me so that can help in this issue. Anu replied. According to me you should make her feel comfortable and ask her to go out with her friends so that she can slowly remove her fearness and then you can start pushing her ahead in other activities as well, please do not worry as this not a big problem. Anita replied. Divya request you to please do not panic as this is really not a big issue and can taken easily, first please speak to your daughter on this and ask what is the exact problem and then try to get some solutions for the same. All the best dear for this. Anaida replied. hey divya this is very common issue and you should not worry at all as this can be dealt with ease and calmly, please make sure you encourage your daughter to go ahead as well make her feel relaxed as she must be afraid to go out alone,please do follow the suggestions. jitendra replied. hello divya,
as parents your care and worry shown here from your post, but you should keep some patience, and then see the magic give her some time, and see after some years she selfely do friendship with others. girija replied. hello divya,
your daughter is too small now so please dont force her to do anything, may be its her nature, so if she leave this nature, it will take time, and your should boost her in this case and keep patience. archita replied. hello divya,
i must tell you its not good ,but dont force her to do things as per your mind, just try to convince her in very sweetly, so she should understand your sentence, and dont force her. payal replied. hello divya,
try to make her to take in part some other activities, and keep boosting her in all things, like other hobbies, like dancing and singing, she would definitely come out from all this. divya replied. hello divya,
try to boost her to mingling with other friends, you should boost her to get mix up with her other friends, it will be improve her confidence and your support give her strength in front of other people. romy replied. hello divya,
there are so many ways to come out from this situation, and on this stage of life, encourage her to take part in different activities like dance drama and other school acitivities. nivedita replied. hello divya,
your daguhter is too small as age now, may be her nature is shy nature, and thats why she is behave shy in front of other friends, you should boost her in this case to mix up with other kids.
megha replied. hello divya,
as per my suggestion, you should give her time, she will be start mingling with other kids, she is now in fifth standard, so may be she dont like her school friends company. geeta replied. hello divya,
your daughter is now 10 years now, she is too young to understand this, give her time, time is best solution and medicine on anything, as per time goes, she will make new friends. rohit replied. hello divya,
i think you took unnecessary stress of your daughter, give her some personal space, and find out her hobby in which acitivity she take interest, just try to find out this, and give her time for that. radhika replied. hello divya,
as per my view you take unwanted stress of your daughter, you should put her some activities or some classes of activity, like dancing, singing so she will speak with other friends.