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Hello everyone

I have been married for three months now I have a 5 year old son. He is a very lovable kid and I try to give me enough love and affection as I am not his biological mom. Lately he is being very restless and does not want to sleep on time (instead wants to watch cartoons) this in turn is effecting his school as he is not able to wake up early and sleeps in school (the teacher is complaining) my husband is very sensitive and does not want to tell him anything as he feels he is too young to be disciplined and says he will be alright with time. I am very confused and do not know what to do I loose my temper and this makes me feel guilty. He throws tantrums and cry if his wish is not fulfilled (e.g. He wants a new car). Can someone please help me and now I have found out that I am pregnant.
Girish replied. I have no response from you for a month now i hope things are getting better for you and the family as a whole you mentiopned of taking your son to a therapist so what happened did you go and does he know that you are pregnant . Dont get too stressed which might affect the baby,s growth i wrote to find out how you are and pray everything goes well Girish replied. Reading your tresponse to mmy advice i too was sadenned why should the child behave like this perhaps you might have heard of one god in hindu mythology had 2 mothers
You must take advice from a therapist and why not do this take the boy your son out for walks talk to him as much as you can take him in your lap convince him that mummy is there to care for you i need to take your son in confidence i feel rather too sad that my cousin divorced and re married now his second wife says no going to meet the kids he has 2 son,s its exactly opposite to your story those people stay in america I pray for you so everything gets well soon please let me know and dont loose confidence how can we contact by e mail Dont worry You Are Not Alone Girish replied. You are not alone in this wide world you must convince your husband that this is the right time you both sit together as the boy what is in his mind first and foremost you both ought to have confidence in each other tell your son we both love and care for you so tell us everything Even though your husband is sensitive show him my essage small children ought to be disciplined within a certain time do it now before its too late
May god bless you