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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Hi K.Radha,Sudha, TBP and all.....
2007-10-05
Name: abcd



Hi all

well hope all girls are doing fine.im still on TTC waiting for good news to come from all of us here.just logged in today so thought of sending mail.

i was just wondering time flies so fast..last year one of my friends child was delivered on 6th october and my due date was 29th october but i had to terminate my child soon.now im going for her child first birthday.i wept so much last night,time again brought tears in my eyes.

But im happy for her,she never said anything to me when she came to know about me..no words she had.But now after a year im going for her son b' day party.sad for myself wishing someday will come when i will also celebrate my child b' day but it seems god has been very unkindly till now.

Just thought of sharing this with you all...whom i havent even seen but have been a good support for me in this year.thanks girls
anyways hoping all are fine..and trying till WE ALL SUCCEED.

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2007-10-15
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
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Hey abcd,

Anniversaries, holidays and birthdays are always the hardest, over time you' ll cope better but these will be difficult times. We' re about to celebrate what would have been Ishani' s 2nd birthday and while I' ve been crying a little more lately I am coping much better than this time last year. I put a lot of faith in the old saying of \" time heals all woulds\" . Not completely but it does get easier. All the best with TTC abcd, I hope you' ll have good news soon.
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2007-10-13
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Anonymous Name: Tryingtobepositive
Subject:  Hi Siya and abcd!



I know how you girls are feeling right now.My baby would have been due on December 12th and I am hoping I will be pregnant by that time.But as days are passing,I am starting to lose hope.I had to take a break from my fertility cycle last month due to a leftover follicle and haven' t got my periods yet.I was supposed to get them on 7th.I took an HPT and it was negative ( I didnot expect it to be positive but took it anyway).Just hang in there girls.I am sure we all will have healthy and beautiful babies when the time is right.

Wish you both a very happy navratri.

Take care,

TBP
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2007-10-07
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Anonymous Name: mm
Subject:  hai



hai

I have not passed thr this situation but hope to share my thoughts with you both abcd and siya.

There is a reason for which God has done this. Think positive...(i know its hard but try).God knows the right time and he will not delay it on purpose.

I will definitely pray for you both.
best wishes.
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2007-10-05
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Anonymous Name: siya
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hi abcd,

u r really close to that day.....mine is yet far away but it worries me every day.....as what will i do on that day ??should stay at home or move to some other place....god knows what will i do if don' t conceive by then....i will get madd by that time...its in feb...i somehow cannot take the very thought of it...

i pray to god each day to take us out of this kind a hell...and bless us with babies... as every one of us deserve to have one if not more..
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