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Miscarriage and Child Loss:for megha or sweety
2003-10-30
Name: pari



hi megha/sweety,
wot did u say to the doc when u went for a chekup aft miscarriage. today is my first visit to my doc after a miscarriage of 9wks of preg. is there any chance of anything left inside after a D & C (diallation and currettage)? how did the doc chek if anything has been left behind? wot shd i say to her? i really do want to conceive again but im getting vvv apprehensive. in fact i have started getting afraid of my own body.
best wishes,
pari
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2003-10-30
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Anonymous Name: sweety
Subject:  It's ok



ok you have your clean up on 25th october...if you don't have any physical pain...then it's fine..but still ask your doctor if u have something in your mind.

Take Care
Sweety
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2003-10-30
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Anonymous Name: sweety
Subject:  Have Faith in God



Hello Pari,

Sorry for your loss. I read your message
..just have courage and have faith in God. It's really not in our hands. God will soon bless with u a baby.

When did u have D&C? What happenned
in my case was really bad. I had D&C on friday morning....until saturday night i was feeling ok & sleepy ..i think because of aneshthesia( wrongly spelled).

But sunday morning was horrible for me..i was screaming like anything...i cannot forget that pain...my husband called emergency room..but they told it's gng to be ok...but my condition was really-2 bad...it was more like labor pains...but when the nurse heard my screaming on the phone..she called me the hospital. They gave me some pain killers...injetcion..did u/s...x-ray...finally they found...doc left something inside..then another D&C...i was feeling so weak..i was unable to get out of bed...for 15 days...it was horrible experience.

that's why i am asking the day u had ur D&C...bos if everything is fine...then there are very less chances to have something in. But still you can ask doctor to clear your doubt. Ask her when can u start trying again...if some tests are needed now...& also ask about any tests needed before planning again.

Hope you will feel better.
Take Care
Sweety
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