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Getting Back to Work

Are you thinking of getting back to work after having a child? Sadhana Narendran shares ways to make the transition smoother.


Motherhood is undoubtedly the most important role that a woman plays. Having a baby and holding her in our arms has a way of changing our perspective of life. There has been many a dedicated career mom-to-be that swore nothing would diminish her fire to do well in her career. But when she held her precious baby in her arms, all promises were forgotten.

There are many of us who decide to take a break and savor our new role. But once children are a little older, some of us want to go back to work. Given below are ways that will help make this transition from home to workplace smoother.


Identify the need

First of all, it is important you understand why you want to go back to work. The reasons could be financial, intellectual or social. Understanding this will help you take up the job that is right for you. For example, if the reason you want to go back to work is social, i.e. you are getting bored at home but don't want something too heavy, then you could opt for a low-pressure/part-time job and not worry too much about pay.


Garner family support

No matter how independent you have been before the baby, things have definitely changed now. It is important you speak to your husband and garner his support for helping you restart your career. If your children are old enough to understand, explain the situation to them as well. A supportive hubby and kids are your best allies in your quest.


Update yourself on latest trends

It is possible that some time has elapsed since you last worked. In today's fast paced technological environment, changes happen every day. Make sure you are equipped with the latest and right knowledge in your field. Take a course to update yourself if required.


Identify suitable childcare options

Before you even think about a job, think about how you will provide a safe and happy environment for your children. The best option from the children's perspective would be to be left in their grandparents' loving care. But for those who don't have this option, there are other alternatives like a creche or live-in maid. If you decide on a creche, make sure you meet the owner/supervisor and set the expectations right.

Give yourself and your children a week to a fortnight's time to get used to the new environment. If you decide to get a maid, make sure you check her credentials before hiring her. Again, take a couple of weeks to gauge and train her on exactly how to take care of your child. Make surprise visits to see how she is faring. If possible, have a grandparent come and stay until you and your child are completely comfortable with the maid.


Have a support network

No matter how well organized you are, life will never be short of surprises. You may have this really important presentation and your maid takes a day off. Or you may have a deadline when your child is down with a cold and cannot be sent to day care. Enlist and create a support network for such situations. Speak to other moms in the neighborhood and create a network. Make sure you are prepared to help them out when you are free and they need support. It is always safest to have a back up plan when it comes to childcare.

Last but not the least, understand that life will be an exciting roller coaster ride of triumphs and disappointments, highs and lows, ecstasy and despair. Every day will be different and bring with it a fresh set of challenges to be conquered, problems to be overcome. But one thing life will never be, is boring. Remember that a cool head, strong shoulders and a sense of humor will go a long way in helping you. And in the midst of it all, enjoy your kids and be a role model for them. That, ultimately will be your greatest reward.

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Name: Sarasvat
Country: India

hi, i want to do computer related work from home. please mail me on sarasvat@live.in if any body has some idea about it
 
Name: mrs r
Country: India

hi that was a nice article. wud like to know are there any genuine work at home options available in bombay from where we women cud make a start and then when we are comfortable juggling office and home work and also have updated ourselves with the latest in the work place we cud start off a full time job.
 
Name: Reema
Country: India

its a good article but not practical. specially n cities like mumbai or delhi. for working woman things are very difficult. it is very difficult to get support of husband as he will also have equally high pressured job. in-laws or parents may be staying in different ciies. social networking may not be of any use in these cities where peple don't have time for themselves or there own kid nobody will come forward for your kid more than once. in these places it is so difficult to get relaible maids with whom one can laeve the kids. secondly there are no professionally managed creches in both these metros. if any body has any practical solution please let me know.
 
Name: Sashikumar
Country: India

hi, i am researching on how parent support helps kids to excel in academic. hence i come to this forum. your view points are good at a theoritical perspect. i wish you could have added some practical tips with it so that it would reach the community well. in this regard, i have also wrote an e-book on stress management exclusively for the working mothers. this will definietly helopful for the working indian mothers. because i know the difficulties faced by indian mothers. i am from chennai. thanks.
 
Name: Prajakta
Country: India

good sadhana! got the way how to manage the things at work and at home with kid.
 
Name: meena
Country: India

good one, sadhana
 
Name: Jey
Country: Malaysia

very nice article, yes it's nothing like being with your children at all time, and see them grow and join along with thier activities... career is important but nothing like being a great mom.thank you
 
Name: Sam
Country: Australia

i think every career aspiring mother should read this article once a day.felt nice after reading this article.thanks.
 
Name: Sujatha
Country: India

great article!!! it gives great advise and enthu to working moms like me.
 
Name: Sujatha Sivasankar
Country: Oman

good article!!!of course if u want to combine the best of both worlds try working from home.
 
Name: Leena
Country: India

hi sadhana. great article. felt so nice to read it and got motivated to go back to work too !!!!! hope u remember me. i am still waiting for u to call for all the bangalore moms to get together for some exciting actvities for the kids and for us too !!!!!
 
Name: Ramya
Country: U.S.A.

very nice article. reading your article is more like listening to you. makes it easy to read. thank you


 

 
 
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