Conceiving isn't always easy. Even very healthy couples have around a 25% chance of conceiving every month. Here are some tips.
Pre-Pregnancy Check Up
As soon as you decide to start a family, make it a point to have a complete health checkup. Your doctor will then advise you what changes you need to make in your lifestyle, if any, to increase your chances of not just becoming pregnant, but also of having a healthy pregnancy.
Remember, getting pregnant means that your body will be undergoing a lot of changes, and it needs to be in the best of health
to do this. It is important that you divulge your entire medical
history to your doctor. Also, let your doctor know if you are taking
any medication, including regular over-the-counter drugs.
Your doctor may recommend that you get a
few tests done, such as pap smear, blood test, blood pressure, urine
analysis etc. If you have not had rubella, your doctor may advise you
to get a vaccination, in which case you need to wait a couple of months
before conceiving. Also, if you have any STD, it may be advisable to
wait until the infection completely clears before trying to conceive.
Ovulation
Once you have the green signal from your doctor and all tests have been
clear, it is time to start working on getting pregnant. You are most
fertile when you are ovulating, but it is a little tricky to figure out
when exactly that is.
Although you are most likely to get pregnant around 14 days
after your period, this method is not always completely reliable,
especially if your periods are irregular.
Possibly the most accurate way to determine when you are ovulating is to take your basal body thermometer and check your cervical mucus.
A basal body thermometer will show you very minute changes in your body
temperature. Take your temperature at the same time everyday, as soon
as you wake up, before getting out of bed, and note it down in a chart.
The day your body
temperature is the highest in the month, is the day you are most
fertile. Also, check your cervical mucus regularly. The day your
cervical mucus is thick and a little transparent, almost the
consistency of raw egg white, should coincide with the day your
temperature is at its highest. This is when you should have
intercourse.
Folic Acid
Start taking folic acid or Vitamin B9 supplements.
This reduces the risk of neural tube birth defects. Around 400 mcg a
day should be appropriate when you are trying to conceive, and if you are pregnant, you may need around 600 to 800 mcg. In any case, this is a water soluble supplement, and so your body
flushes out the excess. The only problem is that taking excessive
Vitamin B9 supplements may conceal a Vitamin B-12 deficiency, often
found in vegetarians. B9 is also found in foods like green leafy
vegetables, lentils, wheatgerm, asparagus, broccoli, eggs, canned
salmon and papaya, amongst others.
Now you've seen what you should be eating, here's what you should avoid when you are trying to conceive.
Cigarettes, alcohol, drugs
Coffee
Black tea
Chocolates
Soft drinks containing caffeine Too much Vitamin A, C or D. Once again, do take folic acid supplements.
Undercooked meats and eggs. Avoid half boiled eggs.
Sex
Have sex in the morning, since the semen has the highest sperm
count then. Try to have sex in the missionary position, since it
deposits the sperm closest to the cervix. Also, after sex, raise your
hips to encourage the sperm to flow towards the egg.
Name:
scorpio
Country: usa
hi, i have been off the shot for 3 months and been trying to get pregnant since. what should i do?
Name:
Andie
Country: united kingdom
why do people want to get pregnant anyway yeah i know it's fun when your baby is first born. it gets everything it wants like it's own ways of doing things like crawling breaking things making a mess of the house but it will learn as it grows older than not to do things like that.
Name:
to Love and give she or he needs
Country: lebanon
i have joy
Name:
Jay
Country: india
hi angie,
u can tell your experience of getting conceived....or some tips from the book "miracles do happen"....becoz many may not have the facility to read from that book or for some many other reasons. it will be nice from ur part if u share a little bit of it...
Name:
Angie
Country: cyprus
hi everyone, i used to come to this site a while ago, my husband and i had been trying to concive for 3 and a half years and after i fell prenant i decided to come back and tell you what i did to make it happen! during my searching on the internet for someting to help me fall pregnant, i came acorss this e-book and i swear it is what helped me after so many years, it is called "miricles do happen", the author is carol andrews and she makes so much sence, her theory is simple and obviously effective, as i am 20 weeks pregnant and i thought that it would nevr happen. www.become-pregnant.com
stop worrying about feeling like you will never get pregnant really is so simple, just read her book, good luck.
Name:
Sonia
Country: india
how to get pregnant?
Name:
mody
Country: usa
hi i have been trying to conceive for about 6 to 8 mths nothing yet what should i do i am 30 and want to have a baby my sister has two i am healthy and my husband is too but i get so upset when i get my period please help with any comments
Name:
nana hawa
Country: japan
hi,i have one year nine months old girl,i started planing for another baby when she was three months,but am still not conceive.is there any problem with me?
Name:
faith
Country: united kingdom
ive been trying for a baby for 11 months i get realy upset when i have a period,i have been marrid for 1 year 4 months and so want a baby,my sister in law has had 2 babys in the space of 14months.
is their something wrong with me?
Name:
Priya
Country: india
haii
im getting irregular periods..how to find out my pregancy?
Name:
Sara
Country: usa
this is our first month ttc...we had sex the last day of my period because i am so late. then we did every other day from there out, 27, 29, 31, jan 2, 4. i ov on the 5th so we had sex then and will today and then on the 8...i recommend that. i will see if it worked :)
Name:
Easy As Pie
Country: india
hello everyone,
i've been trying like you and discovered that the natural family planning methode is the best. sympto-thermal way. information is available online. best of luck!
Name:
Hope
Country: yemen
i have been married for 1 year and 4 months,and i had 2 miscarriages. and now er trying to get pregnant again !!
Name:
jais
Country: india
me n my husband are trying to have a baby from past 3months now. i normally have my periods on time but sometimes 2-3days before or after my last period date.i am devasted today as i my period date was 22nd and it's 25thoct today and i'm down again!!!...should we go to the doctor...please help!!!!!!!
Name:
ANGEL
Country: united kingdom
i am very touched by the pleas for help on this message board.
i would like to offer some comfort not advice.
miscarriages happen for many reasons and they are not the mother's fault.often a feeling of "was it something i did to cause it" takes a place in your grieving process.this is a normal human reaction.it is important to look after yourself when you are pregnant and to eat a healthy balanced diet. don't smoke or be in smokey atmospheres.these are good things to do for both you and your baby.attend regular check -ups at the midwife or doctors and dont be afraid to ask questions or ask for advice.
no matter how well we look after ourselves miscarriages do happen sometimes with no medical explanation.
to grieve for your unborn child is natural and will always be in your heart
but your life goes on.
when i lost my baby ,she was 1 month old and i was obsessed with wanting a child.
eventually i got myself a hobby to take my mind off babies and i fell pregnant.
take time to heal yourself, grieve for your baby,seek some counseling or talk to your partner or a close friend about your feelings. also try to occupy your mind with something light hearted and creative,painting or dough modelling,it can be therapeutic for body and mind.
i hope my few words have encouraged you to take heart and know that whatever will be, will be...god bless you all.
Name:
diamond
Country: usa
what are signs of a misscarriage?
Name:
Yvette
Country: usa
i am 28yrs old i have a 6yr old and a 3yr old. i only want to have one more child before i hit 30yrs old. i have been trying to get pregnant for about one and a half years and nothing. is there something wrong?
Name:
sashi
Country: malaysia
my ovulation is not regular,now i m married 1 year ready, no baby,now i want baby,so difcualt to get baby,pls help me doktor.
Name:
lookforlugo
Country: qatar
i have been married for six years and i have a two year old son and now i have been trying to conceive for the past 4 months and nothing has happened.
Name:
Preetha
Country: india
can anyone tell em about implanation bleeding?
Name:
Erica
Country: usa
i lost my first baby at 3 weeks and i am now trying to conceive again. i had intercourse during my ovulation window days what should i do if i don't see any results? what should i beware of while trying to conceive?
Name:
Sad lady
Country: usa
i lost three babies within my first 13 weeks of pregnacy. please help me
Name:
Munmun
Country: india
hi!
i have been married for 2 years and 4 months. we didn't try for child for 2 years. in fact none of us use anything. now we r trying for baby for last 3 months. we went to a doc for councelling all my tests r ok. doc told for a rubella vaccine but my husband is not interested. will it be harmful not to take it? another thing, for last 3 months i m not getting any result. iof someone has any advice please tell me
Name:
kim
Country: india
hi, i want to conceive but i have one heridity that is my yellow tooth.this is not with me only, it is with my all siblings. doctors told me that my blood is not containg that code which is responsible for making enamel(the white color of tooth) and its a heridity it can go to your child too.but i want to prevent my child from this heridity. kindly suggest me.
Name:
viji
Country: india
hi,
can any one help me the good fertility specialist in chennai.since i am above 35 year old woman and type 2 diabetic, i desperately need your help.since my husband is very normal i am planning to go for ivf.if any one give any info about the best fertility specialist in india it would be very helpful to me.thanks.please send a mail to me at sai_44@yahoo.com.
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