Will my pregnancy affect
my relationship with my partner
You are worried that the coming of the baby is going to change your whole life. Your husband will cease to
look at you as a desirable life partner and will now see you merely as
the mother of his child. If marriage was a big change, involving a great
deal of compromise, the birth of the baby may signal the end of your freedom.
In the case of a father-to-be, he feels that the baby is not born yet and
already all the attention is focussed on preparing for its arrival.
Will my life change
after a baby
It is a definite that your lives
will change drastically with the birth of your child. It is important that
you accept this from the moment you decide to have a child and prepare
yourselves. Do not romanticize the experience in your minds. While the
birth of your baby will open the door on a wonderful new phase in your
lives, it comes with a lot of adjustments and compromises.
What if my partner
does not care for my pregnancy
When a woman finds out she is pregnant,
she tends to completely wrap herself up in her pregnancy, tending to forget
that there were two people who started on this journey together. It is
important that you make your partner feel a part of the pregnancy, instead
of making him feel that his part ended at the stage of conception. Similarly,
after the baby is born, work hard at making time for yourselves. You must
realize that the both of you share a relationship that is separate from
being merely parents of your baby. This was the basis of your marriage
and needs to be nurtured.
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- The Indiaparenting Team