How long can I continue
working after I am pregnant
Pregnant women who have no complications
can continue working until the ninth month. They must however, take certain
precautions such as avoiding strenuous activity, stair-climbing, extreme
temperatures and smoky areas. They must also take frequent breaks and leave
early if they are feeling exhausted. If they have been standing for a prolonged
period, they should sit down and put their feet up. Standing for extended
periods, lifting heavy objects, stooping and bending should be avoided
in the last three months. Pregnant women must eat regular meals. A sedentary
job that is not particularly stressful may be less of a strain than staying
at home.
I would prefer to be
a stay-at-home mother
Many women around the world feel
that having a baby is not just something you do and then move on. In fact,
a baby that depends on you for its most basic needs and in many ways is
completely helpless. Once you have a baby, you may find that it is not
so easy to just get on with your life as you used to know it. Not
only do you consider yourself solely responsible for the care of this child,
but also you do not want to miss out on the pleasures of parenting, for
which you feel you need to be a full-time mom. Experts in parenting
and childcare have now given the role a new level of significance by calling
it the stay-at-home mother, indicating that the decision of leaving your
full-time job and career was a conscious choice made by the mother.
Should I go back to
work
Resuming full-time work is not a
black and white issue. There are a lot of factors that need to be
considered while taking this decision, such as financial circumstances,
the financial and emotional support from your partner, the availability
of an alternate caretaker, etc.
All new mothers consider their babies
as the most precious thing in the world. This is not to say that women
should spend their entire lives looking after their children. Women
are having babies all over the world and their lives are obviously not
coming to an end. In fact, working mothers who are in the prime of
their careers should definitely not give up their jobs for full-time motherhood.
Although it may sound like a much-needed break for the first few months,
it may lead to disappointment and resentment at one's self, which in turn
may get transferred onto the baby.
How soon can I go back
to work
In most countries, women are granted
three months of paid maternity leave. Many companies have a more
liberal maternity policy where they even allow an extended leave of upto
six months or more.
What are the alternatives
to full-time work
Most women hesitate in asking their
employers for working schedules where they can manage both their personal
lives and professional lives. Women should take the initiative in
discussing options such as flexible hours, part-time work, telecommuting
or job-sharing. They may be surprised by the number of women who
opted for one of these alternatives and achieved a successful balance.
Name:
suvvy
Country: Angola
being a working woman is not easy especially during pregnancy. There is not much help from office. I am pregnant and worried about how i will cope with the demands of pregnancy.
Name:
Geetha
Country: India
yes it's true,walking is a good exercise,drinking water atleast 2 litres daily(from the beginning)during pregnancy.the main thing is that you should not get tensed be relaxed as you are.if you feel relaxed,the mouth part of the uterus would open freely.this is my story that i had been very distressed at the time of delivery.so i had a caesarian what i expect normal delivery a lot.
Name:
krishna
Country: India
i am 28 and m planning to conceive next yr..but i get goose bumps and start feeling nervous at the very thought of labour pain..i dont know how will i manage it..
Name:
nini
Country: Nigeria
i've had two kids and a third one on the way and i can say it will get easier, just take the pains as it comes and u can chicken out by taking epidural.
Name:
smita
Country: India
hi i am 25 yrs old and had a baby boy 6mths ago....contractions started at 4.30am and it was bad...but i continued with breathing exercises all throughout and there was no need to scream out...pain was very well tolerated..however still i asked for an epidural injection at about 1.00pm and after that wowww it was just too good and i was relaxing...i delivered a healthy baby at 3.25pm....i am also healthy with no back aches as commonly presumed..
Name:
Dr Rao
Country: Pakistan
now it is wonderful to have a baby in your arms without any labourpains.
"great epidural delivery"
Name:
Decisions
Country: U.S.A.
after two years of marriage and a successful career , i got pregnant. as my contract expired when i was 5 months pregnant , i quit my job and spent the next two and a half years at home- 4 months of pregnangy + till my son was two . reason i wanted to see him grow. i began flexi work when he was little ober 2 years . thanks to a suppourtive family and coorperative child , i have risen on the career lader . i have no regrets on the decisions that i made and my child is also doing well
Name:
sindhu
Country: india
hai iam sindu 25yrs old, i have a boy baby, who was born at the weight of 3.75 kgs. it was a outlet delivery.
one thing i want to tell for the conceived ladies, please dont be depressed, try to co-operate with deep breathe with full hope for the birth, that's it. nothing else. dont be annoyed. everything should be bearable, even this pain.life is also like that only.
thanks
Name:
Aananthi Rajah
Country: malaysia
i have 2 kids. my advice to reduce pain and to speed up the process is by walking a lot before delivery. too much walking will loose up the cervic muscles and help speed up delivery with less pain.
Name:
sunsun
Country: india
i think if you take epidural during labor, you don't feel much of pain. it is widely used in many countries , like us , canada, europe.it is pretty safe. in india some hospitals also use that.
Name:
Jov
Country: india
i had taken an epidural injection for painless delivery 5 years back (2000). i couldnt feel the labour pain only the contractions so delivery was normal and easy. my child was also born healthy. i havent faced any problems after that, i have no backache which generally is a misconception attached to epidural and i am back to my original slim form and fit as a feedle. i am planning to go for a second baby and will definitely go for an epidural again.
Name:
health detective 911
Country: zambia
to avoid painful labour pains take two dolomite tablets and two bone meal tablets six weeks before delivering. also drink red raspberry tea throughout your pregnancy available at health food stores.
Name:
Sharan
Country: england
having had 3 very different labours - the best advice on getting through the contractions is deep breaths' and focus on what you will be getting at the end of it - not on the pain.
Name:
Patricia
Country: other
i have begun to dread the thought of labour and i have five more weeks to go
Name:
PREETS
Country: india
the article gives you a pleasent feeling and removes tension of labour pain for to be mothers very effectively. it is a very good approach for preparing all to be mothers for that wonderful momemnt in her life.
Name:
arleen Hernandez
Country: usa
i'm a good mother
Name:
Radhika
Country: india
very informative article!