Views on Article - Miscarriages, Abortions and Congenital Diseases
Name: suchitra
Country: India
Comment:
i have a abortion on 1st july 2008 i was in sixth month bcoz of baby heart problem it was done
Name: Lelo
Country: South Africa
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I had a D&C on monday the 7 of July. It was an incomplete miscarriage.I thought i'd be fine after that but i find myself crying now and then. I was 7wks pregnant and although it seemed short it was so important to me. I'm so scared that the D&C could have caused further damage i just pray that when i'm ready to try again there won't be any problems. I never thought that i would go through this, but i guess none us thought that it would happpen. We never expect losing a child when your told your pregnant i'm so sorry to all of you, but God has his own way and i think if we trust in him for healing and restoration in our bodies,minds and souls we will be able to survive. I hope everything goes well for you all and me too.
Name: Sony
Country: India
Comment:
I was pregnant but lost my baby just few weeks before my due date.My due date was on 11th Jan'2008 and my baby expired in my womb on 25th Dec'07 due to the cord hamoerrage.Doctors were unable to find any reason for the same.I am 27 years old and want to know what precautions should I take care of while planning for a baby and also when should I again plan for baby.
Name: mane
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
I had miscarriage last november at 19weeks+5days following early rupture of membrane.Very sad & painful moment. no cause was found. I was 9 weeks preg and last week I had missed abortion. D+C was done yesterday! I feel depressed, sad and empty! It is very painful!!!
Name: Piyalee
Country: India
Comment:
I had a missed abortion on 26th April,2008. I was then 8 weeks preagnant. Suddenly from 25th I has spotting and then USG report showed the foetal node has not grown after 4 weeks and there was no heart beat.Now my question why did the baby didn't grow? Is there any reason for it? What are the methods that could test the cause of this and could ensure that if its detected and treated I can have baby in future.Pls reply I need to know.
Name: Chitra sharma
Country: India
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I have had three missed abortion.After two abortion Dr asked for few test and found that Progestron Harmon was low and Prolactin was on higher side. So after medicine it got normal and upto 6 weeks everything was normal then suddenly Dr said heart beet is slow and later no heart beat. So Dr is also confused and advising to go for genetic test.Me too is confesed and don't have any answer. Pl suggest
Name: karthika
Country: India
Comment:
I am 26 ....first pregnancy...however not sure . i guess from my period stopped this time ..in this cycle i had intercourse but with twin precautions..including the emergency contraceptive pill ..i dont find a way what to do as i am not married yet...and fear social .....please suggeast what to do..
Name: ans
Country: India
Comment:
i am 11weeks pregnant according to the dates.but my ultrasound shows my baby is 8 weeks and 5 days.is it normal.
Name: ans
Country: India
Comment:
i am 11weeks pregnant according to the dates.but my ultrasound shows my baby is 8 weeks and 5 days.is it normal.
Name: KaviSri
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Hi,i had just gone through miscarriage when i was 11 weeks of preganat and this was my first pregnancy,and i am so upset now but doctors said that i have no problem and atlast i lost my baby.Really this was a worst and horrible experience i never had before in my life. Hope everything will be fine in my second concieve.i want ask you after how long i will try again.
Name: siobhan
Country: Ireland
Comment:
hi; i too had a miscarraige after 8weeks 5days. had gone through ivf for second time first a fresh cycle and then a frozen one.was devestated to loose the baby as we all know it does not matter how soon it was in your pregnancy it still hurts so much.i must say my partner was also the very same he too had a very hard time but we have each other and i think at a time like this it is so important. we wont give up though we still have 8 eggs frozen . best of luck to everyone and not forgetting the men they go through it too.aged 39 first pregnancy.
Name: rima
Country: India
Comment:
recently i had a miscarriage on 20th jan, hope everything goes on well in future. I believe its not in our hand.
Name: leena
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I had Complet molar pregnancy and i had taken a year blood work to make sure my HCG level is normal , of course it did the same, Could any one tell me when I can have baby again, I am still worried that I would get the molar again , I have 5 year old son, my first pregnancy idid not have any probs. plesae give me your comments , Please let me know if somebody had gone thru the same situation like me? Thank you all Leena
Name: wendy
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
I've had 6 miscarriages, why nobody knows. I believe my miscarriages happened through having an abortion. I've never tried any more, and I always feel grateful for what I have now.
Name: agpexsazti
Country: Denmark
Comment:
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Name: sote
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
October 11, 2007- Daniella, Your doctor is better suited to advise you on complications you may be having, however, I may suggest that your past abortion could play a factor in future pregnancies. Abortion is an unnatural procedure that requires trama to the cervix which can result in weakness and an inability to stay closed during pregnancy thus resulting in miscarriage. It may be wise to discuss first with your doctor your issues and concerns in connection to the past abortion BEFORE trying to conceive. Further, abortion increases breast cancer by 50%. This percentage along with genetics could almost guarentee a woman getting breast cancer by time she is 45. This is not to scare you but rather prepare you. You need to create a habit of monthy self exams and keep your yearly appointments with your obgyn. Never let anything talk you out of seeing your doctor if you feel uncertain about the results of any self exam. - meme, Doctors generally advise to wait 3 months after a natural miscarriage or D&C, but it's wise to seek the advice of your own doctor who knows you and is familiar with your circumstances. God Bless
Name: Daniella
Country: Portugal
Comment:
Hi I've had a miscarriage when i was 7 weeks and i had an abortion because i was too young and in an unstable relationship. I am now ready to have another child but i cant conceive, what is wrong with me please help???
Name: meme
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i had just gone through my missed miscarriage and this was my first pregnancy,and i am so upset now but doctors said that i have no problem. but i am so scared about my second concieve.i want ask you after how long i will try again.
Name: rajes
Country: Malaysia
Comment:
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Name: Dsuti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Santosh.....As you can tell the "withdrawal" method is false. You CAN still get pregnant. As far as an abortion, I personally don't believe in them. However, a close relative of mine had one. She said it was a horrible experience, she didn't know what to expect, and then afterwards she had to go back to her regular doctor to have him run tests to see if she could carry a baby in the future. She is fine, in ways. However to live and wonder the rest of your life on what could have been. I had a miscarriage about 4mo ago and it is still hard, it wasn't my choice, but, it was also not my fault. I believe it takes a bigger person to put a baby up for adoption than to have an abortion. There are many great faimilies who are unable to have kids.
Name: Dsuti
Country: U.S.A.
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I am pregnant again after my previous miscarriage, I am 13 wks. Everything seems to be fine and i will definitely keep everyone posted on progress.
Name: Santosh
Country: India
Comment:
I have a caesarian delivered daughter. She is now 11 months old. My wife is now 1 and 1/2 months pregnant though we used withdrawal birth control method. Now I want my wife to go for abortion. Is it safe. please suggest.
Name: anita
Country: India
Comment:
just on 9 th of august i had a missed abortion the doctor did D&C . I had one child of 8 years . we want one more child . my age is 32 years .Can i Concieve again till what time we should try . last year also I had a D&C pls suggest I need one more child . will it possible.
Name: bryony
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hiya im 17 yes very young and i feel pregnant i was in a sucure realationship i got to my ninth week and lost my baby i cant help thinking its my fault i went to the hospital and they did nothing its one off the hardest things i went though i just wonder if i will ever be able to carry full time
Name: sote
Country: India
Comment:
August 8, 2007
Name: sote 080307
Country: U.S.A.
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Here in USA, doctors advise to wait 3 mos before another attempt at conception following a miscarriage.
Name: NK
Country: India
Comment:
my wife leads to miscarriage due to bleeding in second trimester. Pl. tell me after how many months she will be ok with next pregnancy.
Name: MICHELLE
Country: Ireland
Comment:
I was the same i had three micarriages then i had a healhy baby girl, who,s now seven. now i am pregnant again and all thats going thru me head is dis goin 2 happen again. I gave up d smokes 2 c will tat help, but it dosent stop me from tinkin is dis goin 2 happen again, so i can understand y u feel like tat especialy wat u hve gone thru...
Name: sheela
Country: India
Comment:
i have misscariage on 1jan 2008.now again i am carring,doctor adivised me full rest.i am eagerly wating for my baby.may god bless my baby.
Name: Dusti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
When a loss of a child occurs, at any age or gestation it hurts. You will be forever reminded of the child you never knew. It's as simple as walking through a store and seeing baby clothes or some one with a baby. Or when you watch a movie showing a baby and you come to tears, even though it's been months. We all have something in common, a love lost, but never forgotten. With every tear there is a memory of the one lost. It doesn't get easier to deal with, you just learn how.
Name: sanju
Country: India
Comment:
i don't have any child. but i had to abort a child due to some unavoidable circumstances, this was 4 yrs back and now I had conceived again but there was a miscarriage in the 3rd week. and will i conceive after this and what I should do for that pl advice me. my age is 35 yrs.
Name: linda
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i have just gone through a miscarriage myself (this was my first pregnancy) i went to my 12 week routine scan on (31st may) where i was told the baby had stopped growing i was devastated and i went in to hospital on mon 4th june to have a d&c and its the worst experience of my life having to go thru all thati have cried and cried as i was really excited about the baby and now i have got nothing... i felt like i was slowly coming to terms with my loss after but after reading some entries here it just made me think of my loss and got me a bit upset so i am truely not over it although i like to think i am slowly getting over it i will always think what would the baby have looked like i just hope it wont be too long before i can concieve again....
Name: sote
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I had a miscarriage back in July of 2000. My first pregnancy. I could have gotten upset had I really wanted to and I felt like everyone expected me to. However, I suppose I didn't know what I had lost b/c I never had it. It is only now after I have had three children that I experience loss. I wonder a world of wonders of what that child would have been like. Though I have shed some tears at the sorrow of missing this person, I am comforted. God is in control and His Will allowed my loss. Since He knows all things and I trust him, I am certain I would not choose any other way outside His Will. God breathes life inside the womb and though it crushes our hearts, He may choose to not sustain that very same life. God bless all of you who mourn. I pray that you may be comforted.
Name: Michelle
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am a mother of two and recently lost my baby and it was so depressing, I really want to try again soon but am so scared that the same thing may happen.
Name: Dusti
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
I am a mother of four. I found out I was pregnant with my fifth child on April 20, 2007. I was excited!! I always wanted a big family so it was great. On May 8 2007, I started spotting, I was so scared but, waited until morning to go to the hospital. After running all the tests and an ultrasound, They said everything is fine. They released me told me to take it easy for a few days because I was "Threatened Miscarriage". I went to my Doctor the following day and they did an ultrasound, I knew it, they told me that the baby no longer had a heartbeat and they could see the bleeding. I was almost seven weeks. My Doctor told me it would most likely take care of itself, it did May 12 2007, the day before Mother's Day. I knew it when it happened. But, I guess you always hope for some divine itervention to make everything OK again. The crazier thing is, I didn't bleed or Cramp that much, so that made it even harder to understand. I believe that losing a baby is one of the hardest things that has ever happened to me, and my worst fear telling my other children. Your just attached from the day you know, it's your baby. So to remember our baby we went and bought a baby angel statue to put in my flower beds and put on the bottom "Our Little Angel" and the date. This was my way of remembering a once good thing, that sadly went bad. But all in all I know you have to keep going, and thank God for everything and everyone around you. because you never know when something will happen, even to someone you never got to know.
Name: Jitu
Country: India
Comment:
I had two missed abortion in 7th & 9th week.After 9months of second missed abortion I try to conceive for a baby but conception does not occure during privious three months though several test results are normal.Please suggest what can do.
Name: hollie
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
hi i recently had a miscarriage in jan o7 but to my suprise i fell pregnant again just 3weeks later so fingers crossed everything will be ok this time round im now 9 weeks.
Name: Diane
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
Sheela I so relate to what you have said as this happened to me. I couldn't believe it when I fell pregnant aged 39 and took me a good couple of weeks to come to terms with it (also considering my options) only to have my baby taken away from me like you at my 12 week scan. I have read lots and come to the conclusion that there really is nothing I could have done and as the Nurse said to me at the hospital as you get older your eggs are not so good and it's natures way helping us by not giving us the burden of deciding if our child should live or die if they are very deformed. God this sounds horrid but I have taken this advice or I think I would have gone made. I have again found I am pregnant less shocked this time but not planned, but oh so scared it could happen again. I have to believe that what is meant to be will be or I just couldn't carry on. I do wish my husband had been brave enough to have a V when I asked him to!!!
Name: michelle
Country: United Kingdom
Comment:
i am 26 have had lost 3 now,firt in 2004 then i had a boy in 2005,he was prem and in hozy for 7weeks,had allsorts wrong with him,hes now 16month and fighting fit.then i lost june 06 and have just cum home from a&e and ive lost another,it always happens aronud 4-6 weeks.i dont know how much more of this i can take,whats wrong with me ? ?
Name: Rosa Martin
Country: Mexico
Comment:
I have 2 kids a boy and a girl we are a lovely family of 4...but then to my suprise i was prepnant after 15 years, at first everything was okay but then i got scared because a week after i started to bleed so my docter told me i had a miscarriged, and as most people i also was very depressed and what hurt me the most was that my kids and my husband wanted me to have the baby.
Name: shantae roberts
Country: Georgia
Comment:
i 2 was messin wit a boy named breon who i told i migth be pregant and he told his mom and she told him to tel me to drink vinger is that even good to my health i don't want to lose my child over sumin like dis and plus i wanted the babe im only 15 and i have always wanted a babe butwas dis to much i wonder and i cry every single nigth wonderin if i was ever pregant wit his babe in the first place
Name: Mohini
Country: India
Comment:
I had 4 miscarriages in the months of 2,4,3 & recently in 19th weeks. The doctors are telling that it may be because of some allergy, the reason for which is not known. But some days back I came to know that if minus sign is there in HSG test then we have to take some rubella (exactly not known)injection to make it + and then can try for pregnancy. Is it true ? will I be able to deliver a healthy baby after taking this injection ? please advise.
Name: kim
Country: Ireland
Comment:
well i dont have any children and i wasnt ever pregnant or had an abortion but i was just wondering about what happend to the fetiss' involved in the abortions? I was just wondering because i am writing a speech on abortion and i needed more facts and i was wondering if anyone knew (please dont give me false imformation.)
Name: sheela
Country: India
Comment:
yes I know how u feel.I also because pregnant after I had my tubes tied . But I lost it at 11/2 months pregnant . I do want another one .
Name: Tim
Country: U.S.A.
Comment:
Each of the children you have is precious and wonderful, and each of the children other parents have is wonderful, and each of the people in the world, who were all someone's children, is wonderful, too. You have two children of your own to love, and 6,500,000,000 other people to love also. So do your best to love us all, and each of us will benefit from your love, just as do your own two children. Best wishes!
Name: Sheela
Country: India
Comment:
Hi I already have two kids and all of a sudden I doscover that i am pregnant for the third time. at first i am nervous and think of abrtion ... then my husband says e wants to keep the baby so I also decide that it will be nice to have three kids ... and these days that is considered a large family considering some of my friends are having just one child. Then recently a very unfortunate thing happened. In my 12th week when I went to the doctor, she told me that the baby had stopped growing after 6 weeks. So I went threough a surgery to clean up after a miscarriage. But I cannot tell you how depressed I feel about the miscarriage. I keep wondering how life would have been with three kids ... and I hold myself responsible. It seems god almost heard me when I was thinking that I did not want to keep the third. I am already past 39 and don't really want to plan a baby ... becasue it is a high risk age. I sometimes wish I had been more careful then maybe I would not have miscarried. Do any of you feel the same way?
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