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Signs that You are Raising Lazy and Irresponsible Kids


Signs that You are Raising Lazy and Irresponsible Kids

How do some kids grow-up to be lazy and irresponsible? Do you think that you are raising lazy and irresponsible kids? Have a quick look at the signs that you are raising lazy and irresponsible kids.

It is the responsibility of the parents to imbibe good disciplines in their kids from the beginning of their childhood days. Too much pampering may spoil your kids. So parents should know where to draw the line. Whenever you find signs that your child is going out of the track you should immediately try out ways to bring your children on the right track of life. Here are some signs to find out that you are raising lazy and irresponsible kids. Have a look at these.

Your Kids Do Not Know to Wait

When your kids get what they want without having to wait, it is a sign of spoiling your kids. This will make them think that they can get anything they want at any point of time whether their parents can afford it or not. This is very dangerous as this will make their want grow as a never ending process.

Your Kids Throw Tantrums Constantly

If you find your kids throwing tantrums every now and then with or without any reason, then be sure you are raising an irresponsible kid, who does not know where to stop.

Kids Are Always Dissatisfied

If you cannot satisfy your kids with anything then it is time to take care of them. Otherwise in future they will have to face a lot of problems in life. They will be never satisfied with anything and will lead towards a frustrating life.

They Do Not Value Their Possessions

If your kids do not take proper care of their possessions and put their things here and there thereby losing their things, they are irresponsible kids. This is to be rectified as soon as possible.

Kids Do Not Help Others

For toddlers it is ok not to clean up their own room or take proper care of their books, but when kids are a little grown up and still do not help you in smaller tasks like cleaning up their own room that means that they are lazy kids.

Kids Cannot Accept a “No”

When your kids react unnecessarily and cannot hear a “no” from anyone, this is a sign of irresponsible behaviour. Even if your kids rebel after hearing a “no”, learn to say “no”. Do not accept all the demands of the kids. Sometimes rejecting your kids’ unreasonable demands will be for their own good only.

Try to Control Everyone

Kids who are ill mannered and bossy often forget the difference between their peers and adults. They expect everyone to listen to them. They order adults to get those things that they want immediately, and if they do not get those things on time they start throwing tantrums that lead to unnecessary conflicts at home.

Embarrassments

If you find your kids embarrassing you in public and you are unable to control them then this is the sign that you are raising irresponsible kids at home. They do not know how to respect others, not even their parents. They are selfish and whenever their selfish ends are not met they become rebellious and do not even care for their parents.

You Need to Give In

Just because you want to pacify your child if you need to surrender to their needs or give in to them every time then it is a sign that you are raising irresponsible kids. This makes the kids think that a little whining can get things be in their favour and their parents will give in. This may become dangerous for the kids to deal in their future.

Parents should always remember that it is not their responsibility to clean up the mess for their kids or to make their bed before bedtime when they become a little older. Instead kids should be taught to be more responsible both for themselves as well as for others.

How to avoid raising lazy and irresponsible kids? What are the ways to deal with lazy and irresponsible kids? Is nagging and lecturing the right way to deal with lazy and irresponsible kids? Discuss here.


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Dev
Dev.8 years ago
Irresponsible and lazy parents raise irresponsible and lazy kids.
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Sumit
Sumit.8 years ago
We must teach children the importance of discipline so that they do not become lazy and irresponsible.
 
 
 
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Sarbani
Sarbani.8 years ago
If parents really love their children, they must discipline them.
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