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    Aggressive Schoolgoer

    My school goer is very aggressive what to do?

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    Aggressiveness is a behavioural problem. Try to find out the reason of aggressiveness. Never deal aggressiveness with yelling or spanking. Try to divert his attention by keeping him engaged. Keep him engaged in different activities or more specifically in the activities he likes, then he will be less likely to be aggressive. Support him and shower him with love and affection.

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    Aggressiveness can be due to attention seeking nature. If your kid does not get the attention he craves for, then he will try to behave in a manner that will make you notice him. This may lead to aggressiveness. Bullying may also be a cause of aggressiveness. Have an open communication to find out the real cause

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    Hi, the most common thing seen in school going children is their aggression. Children become too stubborn and aggressive at a certain point when they want something or just out of habit. There can be several reasons for such behaviour. It is our duty as parents to understand our children and their behaviour so that we can let them know what behaviour is expected from them. When child shows aggression and anger especially in public place it might make your lose your patience. Remember that you do not lose your calm so that the child does not throw more tantrums and embarrass you more.

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    It is clearly known that children and tantrums go hand in hand. Children throw tantrums when short temper start clustering together and not stopped at the right age making your child short-tempered. Firstly stop blaming yourself for this kind of aggressive behaviour from your child. It is important that you don’t blame somebody else also for this behaviour of your child. Aggression in children can be a symptom which might be troubling your child or your child may be scared of it. It is important that you handle the child properly and if the situation is worse than take them to the doctor.

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    Children have a lot of mood issues, cognitive issues, behaviour or conduct issues and psychotic illness. When you think that your child is becoming too aggressive just try to ignore him and leave him alone, do not go after and talk back, this may cause a conflict between both of you. Try explaining things when your child is calm and relaxed, trying to teach him things when he is hyper will make things worse and out of control. During that time he will listen to nothing and it is better than you let him cool off and then talk.

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    Teaching children manners is quite important and necessary for them. It is necessary that he knows what kind of behaviour is expected from him at home and even outside. Tell him what people think of him when he cries and shouts on front of others so that he realises that creating tantrums in front of their makes him look bad. Majority of the parents do this mistake of not appreciating the children when they behave the way you want. This should not be done, every effort and input from the child should be appreciated and praised.

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    Appreciating children for their good behaviour is rarely seen from the parents, very few parents appreciate and praise their children for behaving properly. While appreciating you will notice that children are less aggressive now and more polite. Trying to slowly improve their habits and behaviour. Sometimes reward the child with something he likes so that this thing will boost his confidence to behave more properly and also help in socialising more. Along with appreciation it is necessary that you give your child his space and not go after him all the time so that he has time to think about himself.

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    A hug to the child can be a remedy for everything. Giving a hug can make the child feel secured and safe and also let him know that you are always there for him whenever he needs you so that he doesn’t feel you ignore him or feel lonely. Disciplining the child is other thing and should be implemented along with love and affection. The places you need to be strict you should and the places where you need to be lenient you should be. Also make sure that the children have a habit of hearing ‘no’ as well.

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    it is important and necessary to teach manners to children. It is very essential that he knows how he is supposed to behave and how he is expected to behave at home and even outside. Tell him what people think of him when he cries and shouts on front of others so that he realises that creating tantrums in front of their makes him look bad. Majority of the parents do this mistake of not appreciating the children when they behave the way you want. This should not be done, every effort and input from the child should be appreciated and praised.

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    you should make her to do meditation as this can free up her mind.or u should know what are the problems that makes her so aggressive.

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