My wife isn't interested in sex

[Gaurav Chedda]

My wife isn't interested in sex only since my son was born last year.
I am extremely frustrated and annoyed. I don't want to push her but we have only had sex three times since a year. And all three times I felt like such a villain. I felt like I was forcing her.

She just keeps saying she isn't in the mood and cant help it. What do i do? I don't want to do something i will regret but I keep thinking of another women and wondering if they will be willing for a one night stand. I wont go through with it, but these thoughts just keep coming in my mind.

[Riya Jain]

May be your wife isn't ready physically. Taking care of the baby in itself is so tiring, that this may be the cause of lack of interest in sex. You can help her in taking care of the baby and also in other household chores. This will make her feel happy and relaxed. So my advbice would be to take it slow and steady.

[Sneha Rathod]

Hey give her some time. Try to understand her view point. She may be apprehensive of sex due to some reason. Instead of empathizing with her you are thinking of one night stand. How callous you are to your wife's feelings. You should change your attitude. Try to find out why she is not interested in sex.

[Arushi Sahai]

she may not be comfortable about her body and that may be preventing her from sex. Try to find out the reason. After delivery, the body is under a stress and has to undergo lot of hormonal changes. She may need your love and support to come out of the situation instead of your frustration. Try not to judge her but help her.

[Dhyaan Arora]

boss its a year she has given birth i think,may be she becomes tired at night after taking care of kid,house hold chores.

jus ask her wit care whether she s facing any problem with her health , and try to help her in some of the work speak nice words to her.

pl dnt think u can go out for sex, wen u have a wife at home.speak with her understand her problems.

[Abhishek Bhartiya]

This is a post pregnancy problem which is experienced by many women. They simply are so exhausted with the days activity with the KID, they simply loss the interest for any other thing. Look sex is 80% mental and 20% physical. You need to arouse her day in day out. Look forward to dirty talks (No abuse), foreplays (Tease, touch, smell, lick and do whatsoever possible) with her only till you find her interested in sex. I can share my experience only. It took me around 3 months of all these to get back my wife in action. It takes time but works. Check that out.

[Manthan Choksi]

She is probably behaving like this due to pregnancy. Make sure she does not have a arousal disorder. Best to consult a doctor. You can do a few things to spice up your sex life. Tell her sex stories. Women like sex stories. You can also try roleplaying. Add about 10 minute foreplay in your love making. Firstly kiss her whole body, press boobs .Make her think u are worshipping her . Stimulate her clitoris and g spot with your fingers for about 5 to 10 minutes. Details on how to stimulate these with fingers can be found on the internet. Women can have much stronger orgasms by such stimulation. When insert your manhood in her try long and slow strokes instead of fast ones. Women take about 10_20 min to reach orgasm. After ejaculating don't just leave her on the bed alone. Women hate this. Remain in bed touching her and making love for 15 min more. I hope u find these helpful. Reply if u like the suggestion and its effective in your case.

[Shailly Thomas]

Maybe it is post pregnancy problem, you have to communicate with him and ask for her problem, may be, there is some issue with her sex drive, try to motivate her by some sex stories and movies, you can consult with doctor for this, may be doctor suggest some medication. you can read reviews for lack of sex drive and such other sexual issues

[Dipak Hadawale]

Give her combination of shatavari plus noni juice plus two in one ganozhi or lingzhi coffee and cordyceps coffee as well as cereals. Be in touch

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[Missy Ellot]

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