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    Arushi Sahai's Avatar Member
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    Unhappy Can bad sex ruin our marriage?

    My husband and I are newly married and very happy in general but sex life has problems.

    During sex, my husband finishes very quickly and I don't get an orgasm or get satisfied. Even using his fingers or oral sex doesn't make me cum. Always it happens that he is just getting me to the brink of my climax and then suddenly he will change or stop what he is doing or just give up. I have tried telling him what I like and what turns me on but it hasnt helped. Poor guy tries so hard but he is feeling very bad about it.

    Another major problem with our sex life, is that his penis cannot stay hard enough to finish the job. He goes soft midway..We've tried different positions etc.

    He tries hard to satisfy me and I am supportive and tell him its okay but I worry that this will ruin our marriage which is so beautiful otherwise. Any ideas what to do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arushi Sahai
    My husband and I are newly married and very happy in general but sex life has problems.

    During sex, my husband finishes very quickly and I don't get an orgasm or get satisfied. Even using his fingers or oral sex doesn't make me cum. Always it happens that he is just getting me to the brink of my climax and then suddenly he will change or stop what he is doing or just give up. I have tried telling him what I like and what turns me on but it hasnt helped. Poor guy tries so hard but he is feeling very bad about it.

    Another major problem with our sex life, is that his penis cannot stay hard enough to finish the job. He goes soft midway..We've tried different positions etc.

    He tries hard to satisfy me and I am supportive and tell him its okay but I worry that this will ruin our marriage which is so beautiful otherwise. Any ideas what to do?

    hi
    try consulting a doctor or you search over the net and look for medicine or cure that will help him. most important is love try to bring that during sex it will work definitely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arushi Sahai
    My husband and I are newly married and very happy in general but sex life has problems.

    During sex, my husband finishes very quickly and I don't get an orgasm or get satisfied. Even using his fingers or oral sex doesn't make me cum. Always it happens that he is just getting me to the brink of my climax and then suddenly he will change or stop what he is doing or just give up. I have tried telling him what I like and what turns me on but it hasnt helped. Poor guy tries so hard but he is feeling very bad about it.

    Another major problem with our sex life, is that his penis cannot stay hard enough to finish the job. He goes soft midway..We've tried different positions etc.

    He tries hard to satisfy me and I am supportive and tell him its okay but I worry that this will ruin our marriage which is so beautiful otherwise. Any ideas what to do?
    First of all, you have to think that what u want in your life? it is true that sex in very important in life and there are lot of medicine which helps to overcome in such matters, but main thing in this matter that your hausband is ready to take medical treatment in such problems. you have to convice your husband for medical treatment nd make your life happier. I beleive that life is not so big so don;t waste it even singal moment, live life at full extent as these are golden days nd will never come again.

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    meet the doctor and for time being tell your hubby to lick your V without hasistation.I am sure it will give you unlimited pleasure. I have experiance of it . from my experiace i can tell even boys enjoys salty taste very much so have new try before actual penetration.

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    Every body learns after marriage. so dont worry. U take over the role. never discourage him. dont force him. I am telling this bcos he shd not fear abt sex. u by your own handle him. follow start n stop technique. also let him learn kegel exercise. Once he gains confidence, ur all probs will go away. Before that u know abt ur body. u try to reach orgasm by your own. this is useful when u r with him. Dont let him take a rhythm once he is in. tell him to stay for about 2 minutes so that his organ is accustomed to those walls. then take long deep breath. now strokes like 2 long strokes, 2 short or light strokes. ensure that Frequency n length of the strokes by him varies constantly and slowly. if u ppl practice doing this he will gain control in 3 months.

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    Hey dear,
    there are two options are available for you. One is seducing love in sex & second is medication on sex like Viagra. Take one capsule or as mentioned on sachets of pills before 1 hr. of romance & take satisfied enjoyment.

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    Give him vigra and energy tablets which leads to get successful sex.

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    I can see why you're frustrated. Sex is about two people's pleasure. And things are very one-sided right now. This can change.

    Step 1:

    Slow down in bed. Many guys finish quickly due to the fast pace of the sex act. Prolong pleasure by engaging in foreplay for a long time beforehand and then slowly working your way into having sex.

    Talk to him. Don't bring up the fact that you think he is finishing to fast, or that you would like for him to last longer. Instead, tell him some things he could do to really turn you on. Use your hands, mouth, and explore his body, and ask him to do the same to you. Lead him for the first few times, and tell him how much you like it.

    Step 2:

    Consider your mood as well as your partner's. If either of you are not into the sex, this can cause a man to lose an erection. Having sex while in a good mood will prolong the act.

    Step 3:

    Find out about different positions of sex. The sexual techniques involved in about different positions of sex prolong the orgasms of both the male and female.


    Step 4:

    Many men want to find a way to maintain an erection longer. Being able to keep an erection longer can prolong the enjoyment of having sex for both partners. Spice up your love life by trying some new ways to last longer in the sack.

    If you have a long term problem with keeping an erection, then you may wish to get Viagara from your doctor.

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    Wow, good advice

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