I just got married. It was an arranged marriage. I loved someone else but my family said no so i agreed to meet other guys. I met my husband and agreed to get married to him. We just got married 3 months ago and I miss my ex a lot. i know it is wrong but i cant stop thinking about him. I think that if im back to being even just friends with him, i will be happy again. is that ok? can you be friends with your ex? or is it just a recipe for disaster?