my live-in boyfriend's friends are messy slobs
my boyfriend and i just moved in together. he invites his friends over at least 3 times a week either to watch a match, or do hookah or drink.
his friends are all nice people but they leave a mess every time they are here and never bother to offer to clean up. My boyfriend is anyways a slob, and doesn't care how messy and dirty the house is so I end up having to clean it all the time.
but i didn't want to tell him anything because we have just moved in together a month back. I don't want him to regret it and think that i am trying to stop him from meeting his friends.. what should i do? should i talk to him? what should i say?