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Second Time Around

Second Time Around

If you don't get pregnant after your IVF attempt, you'll be disappointed. Remember - this is not the end - it's just the beginning!
If you don't get pregnant after your IVF attempt, you are likely to be very disappointed and disheartened. However, remember that this is not the end of the road - it's just the beginning! At the end of the IVF cycle, you need to sit down with your doctor and analyse what you learnt from it. Was the ovarian response good? Was the endometrium receptive? Did fertilisation occur? Why didn't pregnancy occur? (Though this is a question we still can't answer!) Can you repeat the same treatment, or do you need to make changes before going in for your next attempt? When can you go in for your next IVF cycle? And even if you do not get pregnant, at least the fact that you attempted IVF should give you peace of mind that you tried your best , using the latest technology medical science has to offer.

The Second Time Around - the Next IVF Cycle

Most doctors would advise you to wait for a month before starting a new cycle. While it is medically possible to do the next cycle immediately, most patients need a break to marshall their emotional strength before starting again.

Your doctor may need to modify your treatment, depending upon an assessment of your previous cycle. For example, if the ovarian response was poor, the doctor may advise you to increase the dose of drugs used for superovulation. If fertilisation did not occur, you may need to go in for microinjection (ICSI). If the quality of the embryos was poor, you may be advised to consider a ZIFT rather than IVF.

When an IVF cycle fails, many patients want to do "something new" or "something different" in the next cycle. However, do remember that the commonest reason for a failed IVF cycle is the failure of the embryos to implant - and since this is still an area of profound ignorance, there is little we can do to increase the probability of successful implantation occurring the next time. Rather than look upon the cycle as a "failure", it's better to treat it as having provided valuable information - for example, evidence that the sperm can fertilise the egg, which proves that they are normal !

For patients who have had an embryo transfer, the odds are stacked in their favour that they will get pregnant sooner or later. Nevertheless, there is a lot of pressure to try the "newest or latest advance" the next time - which is why many clinics now offer expensive techniques such as immunologic testing and even immunotherapy - but these are still in the realm of "scientific witchcraft" and have not been proven to be helpful. In fact, if the IVF cycle was satisfactory, the doctor will often advise you to repeat exactly the same treatment again - and all that it may take to achieve your IVF success is time and another attempt.

When an IVF cycles fails, there is a lot of pressure on both patient and doctor. Many patients will change the doctor because they do not conceive - but this is not usually a good idea, unless you are unhappy with your medical care. Doing a second IVF cycle in the same clinic is usually better than changing doctors, because your doctor can now tailor his treatment based on his observations during your earlier treatment cycle. Interestingly, we often find that couples going through a second IVF cycle are much more relaxed and in control. This may be because they are aware of all the medical and procedural minutiae, and are better prepared for these; and also because they have had a chance to establish a personal relationship with the medical team. Also, since they have already faced failure the first time around, many of them are much better able to cope with the stress of IVF, since they are prepared for the worst.

With today's IVF technology, we can confidently reassure any patient that we can help them to get pregnant, provided they have inexhaustible resources of time, money and energy!


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mou
mou.10 years ago
hi i have gone through all this for last 5 yrs with one failed ivf last year its traumatic,painful and expensive.Main thing is be positive dont stop your life just bcos u cant hve a baby as thats affects all your well being .As i was depressed and lost all hopes and became miserable.I have changed my way to look at life as there so many things around which we get deprieved and now feel more stonger.i have given my self an ultimatum i am going again for ivf this year fingers crossed but have kept all possible options open if nothing works i will go ahead with adoption and feel happy.
 
 
 
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veena
veena.11 years ago
this article has boost my confidence again..! i was very sad has my 1st attempt was failed bt thanx to this article
 
 
 
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.13 years ago
For those undergoing first or second IVF, even if egg is good & fertilizes,embryo may not develop after transfer if there is Semen DNA fragmantation. Hence husband may take vitamin E & C after consulting doctor, before giving semen for fertilization
 
 
 
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mini
mini.14 years ago
ivf
 
 
 
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anna
anna.14 years ago
we have just experienced our first failed ivf(icsi)attempt. problems lie on both sides - a low sperm count and high (but variable) fsh level.i am only 33. two embryos made it to transfer - one "excellent", the other "good" quality. my questions are:-
1. why did it fail (especially the "excellent" one)?

2. what are our chances of succeeding a second/third time (given my variable fsh)

3.the eggs harvested from me were "average" quality. is this linked to the failed attempt...and if successful, am i more likely to have a defective baby?
 
 
 
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EM
EM.14 years ago
just had a negative response from ivf 2 which went much better than the first and got 8 blastocysts from 16 eggs retrieved. cleary the blastos didn't implant as i am bleeding on day 15 post transfer. what are my chances of future success?
 
 
 
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deanna
deanna.14 years ago
i did my first ivf in may,
it was an etopic pregnancy.
what can really change trying
again
scared of going through another etopic.
 
 
 
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MAC
MAC.14 years ago
we have just failed our first ivf very sad. they told me it was because my embroys did not like the lab culture. did anyone here this before. they also said that they are going to make changes in the lab.
 
 
 
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jen
jen.14 years ago
very informative article. though obviously others did not read it properly as they still want to know why they didnt get pregnant on first attempt. even with perfect fertilty the odds of getting pregnant are at best 25%.
 
 
 
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Preti
Preti.14 years ago
hi, i have had theree failed iui's and three failed ivf's.
my second ivf resulted in an ectopic pregency. i am 33 years old. i have pain in my pelvic region if i stand for long hours, can you suggest any test i should go for. please respond. thank you.
 
 
 
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