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Name: Kalyani
Country: India
 Aggressive kids have more disadvantages than the advantages whether it's a verbal or physical. To avoid them being aggressive, train them the self control, avoid losing your temper when they become aggressive, don't hit them just to punish them, train them to deal with their temper, don't encourage their toughness as it can lead them to be more aggressive. Use some positive parenting techniques to control your kid's aggressiveness.
Name: Ritesh
Country: India
 Aggressive kids are always an issue. But, we should try to make those kids perfect or calm by telling them by being aggressive no one will like them or else they will not consider them. For example, if they are aggressive in their schools then their friends will not like him/her and they might not include in any games and many more. So, telling them the truth clearly will help them to change their behavior but one should not threaten the child as it may bring any other side effects.
Name: rene
Country: Southafrica
 very helpful
Name: Lynn
Country: Canada
 great article, but what about verbal aggression towards a parent (step-parent)
Name: shirl
Country: India
 a refreshing look at parenting...i myself prefer some good hearty violence and fish fingers
Name: mitch
Country: England
 don't blame the kids mate if you cant handle your children
Name: puja
Country: India
 informative article.scared 4 my very aggressive child.how to handle him?myself am very aggressive and when he makes me mad i too hit him at times.sorry about it later but cant help at the time.
Name: haha
Country: India
 awful.....
Name: P-Man
Country: USA
 lock up all the children!
Name: Carol
Country: USA
 it's all about the kids of woe receiving a few light slams every now and again for woeful behaviour. i, myself, having been a parent for 18 years have found that my daughter has spells of giddiness and severe mood swings. to control this i have a nice chat with her and talk through her woeful actions. after this she turns back into my daughter of love. deary me.
Name: me
Country: usa
 i'm sorry, but we need to stop looking to blame someone else for the way some kids act. there are alot of kids out there who have issues all their own and they have nothing to do with parents, tv the dog or what ever else seem to be a great out. the fact is that if people would stop justifying a childs negative behavior on all of this textbook crap and at some point hold children accountable for their actions.
Name: Nicola
Country: united kingdom
 what about when the aggressive child comes from a stable, loving family with 2 supportive, caring parents who are definitely not poor and who consider themselves to be good role models?
Name: minny
Country: ireland
 agressive kids never thought i would have one but we do weve tried most things but never ever would i resort to violence it solves nothing yes you can help yourself show yourself and your child you can change your ways maybe your child will follow by example
Name: step mom
Country: canada
 what about children that have no rules at all when at their father's house. he feels sorry that they come from a broken family so he wants them to have a perfect happy place to be so they will come to him. while step mom cleans,cooks(never as good as their mom) drives them places, trys to please, but is put down and picked on for her appearance, cooking, everything she does by the child and not allowed to defend herself in anyway. what do i when i can't please these people and the child wants me gone. saying repeatedly i hate you, i hate this, i hate that, go away,i hate you.
Name: distressed mother
Country: Bahrain
 your article is quite interesting. but my 11 year child is very aggessive at home only since he wants to do the ways he likes. he likes watching t.v. more than 2-3 hours. since i don' allow this he is always wild at home and hates me. what shall i do ? i feel that the writer of this article is also a bahraini (as the family name indicates). in that case may i have your contact number ?
Name: roshni
Country: india
 well i think that aggressive kids need a lot of love and attention from their parents! along with that a little discipline and easy to follow set of rules. and most importantly never hit your child..it only teaches him/her to be more aggressive!
Name: Ray
Country: United Kingdom
 i have 2 active kids of 7 & 10. most occurrences of aggressive behaviour between my wife and son normally occur when i am not around. when i return, voices are raised, my wife has been hit or kicked and my son is shouting and hurling abuse. when the air clears it's my fault as i did not seem to do enough. i made him do a chore (cleaning floors) and apologise to his mum. but it's not good enough. when will my wife learn to be less volatile and more tolerant to their ways.
Name: RiRi
Country: U.S.A.
 dont ever hit your kids that is the number one rule
Name: RiRi
Country: U.S.A.
 yes i think that this piece of work was understandable. i should know about misbehaviable kids. i have a nephew of my own. but the think about it, i surely think that young kids just want attention. they learn it on their own and they shall know how to comtrol it!!!
Name: Ruthie
Country: U.S.A.
 i think this artle is a good teaching guide for parents with troubled children. i also feel like this can help first time mothers learn about different attitudes and chow to cope with them.
Name: asmita
Country: India
 very good article for parents who have aggressive kids.
Name: Harinder kaur
Country: India
 overexposure and lack of personal attentin of the parents make the child aggressive.some parents are of the view that their personal attentin can be compensated by provided their child all the comforts and money but the child feels neglected and takes to aggressiveness to overcome his frustration
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