we are married since 3yrs and started trying since then but no luck till now had gone through all tests,
first two years of my marriage was fine , later on my husband stoped speaking with me he rarely interacts with me,
both of us are working and he goes early morning by 8am and reachs home at 11.30PM some times 12.30pm at mid night
even if there is no work he will stay in office, Now my in laws started cursing me for having married their son and spoiling his life....I am very much depressed in my life , often I feel to commit suicide killing my self, so that my husband can marry another girl and live happily.
Things are getting more worser with me every day I feel i am fit for nothing and only solution would be to kill myself. from past three years I tried with all tablets, injections, ayurvedic medicines, laproscopy, 2-IUI but seems like luck not with me fo rnow and ever .....evry time if I miss my periods by two days I use pregenacy tester to test every time it comes out negitive, now a days I feel there is no positive in my life , why God plays pranks with us. why can' t God gives single child to all those childless couples......... just help those childless couples from nagging people
all the best to all ...those who are trying ....I understand how the situation would be I pray to every one who are trying to have miracles in their lives, have a healthy baby soon.
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we are married since 3yrs and started trying since then but no luck till now had gone through all tests,
first two years of my marriage was fine , later on my husband stoped speaking with me he rarely interacts with me,
both of us are working and he goes early morning by 8am and reachs home at 11.30PM some times 12.30pm at mid night
even if there is no work he will stay in office, Now my in laws started cursing me for having married their son and spoiling his life....I am very much depressed in my life , often I feel to commit suicide killing my self, so that my husband can marry another girl and live happily.
Things are getting more worser with me every day I feel i am fit for nothing and only solution would be to kill myself. from past three years I tried with all tablets, injections, ayurvedic medicines, laproscopy, 2-IUI but seems like luck not with me fo rnow and ever .....evry time if I miss my periods by two days I use pregenacy tester to test every time it comes out negitive, now a days I feel there is no positive in my life , why God plays pranks with us. why can' t God gives single child to all those childless couples......... just help those childless couples from nagging people
all the best to all ...those who are trying ....I understand how the situation would be I pray to every one who are trying to have miracles in their lives, have a healthy baby soon.
Mathi replied. Hi,
Like you same problem happend for my wife also we tried english medicine first 2 years but there is no results happend. we tried IUI, two times that also failred. she has a PCOD so no medicine work out costly harmore injection also used but no relults :( finaly we went to siddha doctor her name is Sarala thiyagarajan working as a lecrurer in Govt College Arumbakkam. After we met with in 3 months my wife got preganent now 23/09/08 2 months 3 days. so dont waste ur time in english medicine. best is siddha but u have go proper doctor.
thanks
mathi
penguin replied. Try IVF. Trust me it works miracles. I live in US and have seen a lot of couples succeed in having a baby.
Rupali replied. Hi
I am also trying form 2 years but still no success. U should always think of such woman who have physicaly challanged child or something which will affect childs life. i can understand the pain those mothers who see their kid in such situation .And those mothers pain is much more than us.So will pray for everyone to have healty baby. so just have faith in god .
All the best
VS replied. Hi
I am also like u only, thought of suiciding so many times, but what we will get by that. See the people who are also suffering like u or more worse than u. Becoming mother is not the ultimate goal of a woman' s life.
Speak to ur husband, discuss with him about adopting a child.
Now just remove the thought of suiciding from ur mind. U r not alone, so many are there like u.
All the best
heartfelt replied. Dear friend
Pleae don' t not feel this much sad. I know it is hard to heal your pain and I can feel it too since I am in the same boat. I am married from last 10 yr. tried every single solution to achieve pregancy but no success. Me and my husband are perfectly nornal and healthy person but may be god did not want to give us a child. At the end we cannot change our destiny.You are still young and have chance to achieve a pregnency by advance treatment. Please see a good infertiltiy specialist who can tailor the treatment as per your problem. You also need to try ivf. Life is beautiful no matter what we get in life and worth of living. Please don' t think of this kind of thoughts. Try to please yourself by talking ot your mom, siblings, watching movie, tv, doing gardening, going for a long walk. talking to friends..Life is more than just having a child. Don' t tie your happiness with just having a child. Happiness is a attitude and not tied up with some pre conceived ideas or norms of this indian sociaty. If you MIL or anyone else says something.. just smile and say \" why not u pray for me. who knows god can listen to your prayer\" .. don' t pay much attention. take care .
Miracle replied. Hi,
Pls. do not worry.
I will certainly help you to get pregnant as soon as possible.
Do let me know your contact phone
nos or personal e-mail id so that
we could discuss out the matter.
B/regards...Miracle
a replied. why dont u try siddha medicines
keerthana replied. I can understand ur situation,because i was also in the same situation we are married since 2 yrs then onwards we were trying but no luck for us also.I am a house wife before marriage i used to work but after that i quit the job.
but one thing i am lucky my husband is on my side.He is very understanding n very convincing,he used to say me dont worry if we r not having kids, why can´ t we adopt?There was no problem with him but as a women i want my own kid of our features.I keep on trying various doctors and various medicines but no use.Going forward like that i am facing new problems.Earlier my periods were irregular,then i consulted doctor for regularisation,now how my situation turned is without pills i am not getting my periods even its worse 4 months if i hvn´ t took any pills,and after that doctors confirmed that i am a diabetic patient they started treating for that after that treatment they confirmed that i am having thyroid,obesity,...What God what i have done?Why r u testing me?When ever i see a small baby in TV i feel crying.I used to cry everytime when that thought came into my mind.I am eagerly waiting for conceiving even i am trying to reduce my weight because whomever doctor i met they r suggesting to reduce weight.So i am sincerely trying for it.
One thing i want to say u i dont know ur name but please please dont come to a decision to kill urself bcos its very foolish.take examples of couples who had there kids after 10 yrs or at the age of 40yrs.How r they happy with their cute babies..By ur message i came to know that u love ur husband so much that´ s why by second marriage u want him to be happy...but why cant he understand u and why cant u talk with him about ur feelings...just convince him that u will be having kids but it may take time...let him understand ur grieve...did doctors confirm u that u r unfit to become a mother?No right? there will be a chance..just wait for it..Atleast u were working n some time u will be away with that feeling but for me everytime i will be seeing a mother with her child and the affection between them....because people around me all are having kids...but i have faith that god will bless all of us one day..because he is watching us....Dont worry everything will be alright...Dont take stupid decisions like killing urself..Life is very valuable...Praying god... to bless u...Take care ..good bye....
2008-09-23
#1
Name: Mathi Subject: reply
Hi,
Like you same problem happend for my wife also we tried english medicine first 2 years but there is no results happend. we tried IUI, two times that also failred. she has a PCOD so no medicine work out costly harmore injection also used but no relults :( finaly we went to siddha doctor her name is Sarala thiyagarajan working as a lecrurer in Govt College Arumbakkam. After we met with in 3 months my wife got preganent now 23/09/08 2 months 3 days. so dont waste ur time in english medicine. best is siddha but u have go proper doctor.
thanks
mathi
2008-08-27
#2
Name: penguin Subject: IVF
Try IVF. Trust me it works miracles. I live in US and have seen a lot of couples succeed in having a baby.
2008-08-27
#3
Name: Rupali Subject: have faith in god
Hi
I am also trying form 2 years but still no success. U should always think of such woman who have physicaly challanged child or something which will affect childs life. i can understand the pain those mothers who see their kid in such situation .And those mothers pain is much more than us.So will pray for everyone to have healty baby. so just have faith in god .
All the best
2008-04-04
#4
Name: VS Subject: Don´ t loose hope
Hi
I am also like u only, thought of suiciding so many times, but what we will get by that. See the people who are also suffering like u or more worse than u. Becoming mother is not the ultimate goal of a woman' s life.
Speak to ur husband, discuss with him about adopting a child.
Now just remove the thought of suiciding from ur mind. U r not alone, so many are there like u.
All the best
2008-03-28
#5
Name: heartfelt Subject: Hi there
Dear friend
Pleae don' t not feel this much sad. I know it is hard to heal your pain and I can feel it too since I am in the same boat. I am married from last 10 yr. tried every single solution to achieve pregancy but no success. Me and my husband are perfectly nornal and healthy person but may be god did not want to give us a child. At the end we cannot change our destiny.You are still young and have chance to achieve a pregnency by advance treatment. Please see a good infertiltiy specialist who can tailor the treatment as per your problem. You also need to try ivf. Life is beautiful no matter what we get in life and worth of living. Please don' t think of this kind of thoughts. Try to please yourself by talking ot your mom, siblings, watching movie, tv, doing gardening, going for a long walk. talking to friends..Life is more than just having a child. Don' t tie your happiness with just having a child. Happiness is a attitude and not tied up with some pre conceived ideas or norms of this indian sociaty. If you MIL or anyone else says something.. just smile and say \" why not u pray for me. who knows god can listen to your prayer\" .. don' t pay much attention. take care .
2008-04-02
#6
Name: buttha Subject: thank u
thank u for the support u r giving to all the of us even i belong to the same category. marital life 7yrs two abortions but still have the hope i´ ll have my own child.but one thing to every one who donot have their child god has given this wonderful life not only to give birth to a child ,please know urself dont waste time as long as ur waiting ur child will not come to u just leave it and see u have a wonderful life more than having a child.
2008-03-29
#7
Name: karishma Subject: for childless, heartfelt and others
hi friends,
I am with u ´ heartfelt´ u have spoken the right words to each one. hope God listens to us and hears our cries. I was with regular member of this board, but as of now i just read the msgs and dont write back. today with these touching words of ´ heartfelf´ a mother in me has made me speak to all v people who r yet to be blessed with a bundle of joy!!! i keep crying to God and keep telling him to bless all the childless people with a bundle of joy!! i am also married for more than 7 years and i am rather i have become child crazy. all my cousins etc have all becum proud parents. i can only say that we have to keep a strong heart. I too end up crying at each and everything. but wat to do??? we have to keep praying to God.. Dear friends, i am with all of u sharing your grief. Loads of baby dust to all of you and to me too!!!
Just try to ward urself off from this board, it will not benefit you much but it will help u to concentrate on many other things in life............take care!!!
2008-03-27
#8
Name: Miracle Subject: Childless
Hi,
Pls. do not worry.
I will certainly help you to get pregnant as soon as possible.
Do let me know your contact phone
nos or personal e-mail id so that
we could discuss out the matter.
B/regards...Miracle
2010-04-22
#9
Name: Sweets Subject: Having a baby
U have mentioned that you will help the childless couple having baby.
I m also with the similar case. both me and my husband is healthy but its more than an year now and we r still trying. But if u can give some guidance it will be appreciated.
2008-03-27
#10
Name: a Subject: why dont u try siddha medicines
why dont u try siddha medicines
2008-03-27
#11
Name: keerthana Subject: i can understand u
I can understand ur situation,because i was also in the same situation we are married since 2 yrs then onwards we were trying but no luck for us also.I am a house wife before marriage i used to work but after that i quit the job.
but one thing i am lucky my husband is on my side.He is very understanding n very convincing,he used to say me dont worry if we r not having kids, why can´ t we adopt?There was no problem with him but as a women i want my own kid of our features.I keep on trying various doctors and various medicines but no use.Going forward like that i am facing new problems.Earlier my periods were irregular,then i consulted doctor for regularisation,now how my situation turned is without pills i am not getting my periods even its worse 4 months if i hvn´ t took any pills,and after that doctors confirmed that i am a diabetic patient they started treating for that after that treatment they confirmed that i am having thyroid,obesity,...What God what i have done?Why r u testing me?When ever i see a small baby in TV i feel crying.I used to cry everytime when that thought came into my mind.I am eagerly waiting for conceiving even i am trying to reduce my weight because whomever doctor i met they r suggesting to reduce weight.So i am sincerely trying for it.
One thing i want to say u i dont know ur name but please please dont come to a decision to kill urself bcos its very foolish.take examples of couples who had there kids after 10 yrs or at the age of 40yrs.How r they happy with their cute babies..By ur message i came to know that u love ur husband so much that´ s why by second marriage u want him to be happy...but why cant he understand u and why cant u talk with him about ur feelings...just convince him that u will be having kids but it may take time...let him understand ur grieve...did doctors confirm u that u r unfit to become a mother?No right? there will be a chance..just wait for it..Atleast u were working n some time u will be away with that feeling but for me everytime i will be seeing a mother with her child and the affection between them....because people around me all are having kids...but i have faith that god will bless all of us one day..because he is watching us....Dont worry everything will be alright...Dont take stupid decisions like killing urself..Life is very valuable...Praying god... to bless u...Take care ..good bye....
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