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Parenting Twins:please suggest........
2008-06-18
Name: minni we have twin babies of 3yrs old.
we both go for work. my mom looks after them.
now,the issue is i and my hubby we both got good opportunity to work abroad for the same company.good salary,good company,good career.but i cannot take my kids thier for schooling.Their a part from education is costly their we wont get visa for my mom and she is not willing to come with us.
now what i should do?? leave the kids ? or career.
i have taken a decison that i will stay back and look after kids while working and let my hubby go abroad.
But all my family members are forcing me to go along with him,leaving kids.
what should i do?? suggest someone.........i cannot saty without my kids.
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2008-06-25
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Name: sh
Subject:  hi
Please do not leave the children behind let your husband go settle down see how the rents are like ... hows the education like... and then accordingly you can decide to go along with the children.

Believe me i have grown up with my aunt and know what really the children go through
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2008-06-19
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Name: minni
Subject:  thanks ...........
Thanks very much for the good suggestion...........very thankful to u.
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2008-06-18
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Name: ABCD
Subject:  hi
hi Mimi,

Just write down the priorities of you life on a sheet of paper. See what is more important for you. If it' s kids then difinitely stay.

Also, you and only you has the right to take descisions abt your life and your kids future.

My point of view, you should stay with the kids in india and as of now let your husband travel alone.

Trust me I know how difficult it it to live without a mother. I was with my gradparents all thru my childhood. They did their best for me but I hated it and do that even now. Sometime back I even told my mother hte same.

Just think abt it..
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2008-07-15
#4
Name: asha
Subject:  Hi
If both of you are working education is not so expensive for kids. We are in US and kids education is free till college, ofcourse u would have paid the taxes for it.
Even if u decide to stay home with kids, its affordable for all 4 of u to go live abroad.I would have first tried to work abroad , else quit and stay with hubby and kids
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