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tired with my daughter(kiinjal' s ) behavior from everywhere complaints n i bit her for all those complaints.. shez just hyperactive.. what 2 do Sarita replied. Hi Vidya please do not panic as this is not a big issue and you should not worry so much and also be sure you treat your daughter very well and if there is any problem then please tell us so we can help you. Sarita replied. Hi dear there are many mothers who are facing the same issues so would ask all the mothers to please share the experience of what they did and also if you guys will share here there are other mothers also who can take things. Seema replied. Hi dear please do not panic as this is not a big deal the only thing you need to see that you make your daughter happy in all moments and make sure she is happy with what you are doing for her, please do not worry. Shivangi replied. Hi Vidya help me also in this matter as my son becomes wild very soon and starts beating family members and also when we try to stop him he becomes more wild please tell me what you did so even we can do the same thing to control. Amaira replied. Hi Vidya please visit a doctor as soon as possible as only doctor can suggest what is the problem and give proper medicine for this and you should not feel upset about it as this is very common issue. Anjali replied. Hi Vidya please tell me what you are doing for this as the same case is with me and even i am fed u with please, guide me of what should be done and have no idea and feeling very frustrated. Anamika replied. Hi dear please tell me what is the age of your daughter so i can suggest and also please tell me that is it always the same behavior or what, as this should to be taken care of and you should take this matter very seriously. Anaida replied. Hello Vidya i must say that you are not alone and this is the normal case nowadays and one must not feel bad about it and you should be calm and relax just focus on making her calm and make her feel happy. Anju replied. Hi there please tell us since when is the problem as this needs to be taken care and one should not let it go, please if you want any help of me let me know as myself a doctor can help you in this. Aditi replied. Hi there please tell me what is the age of your daughter and why are you so tensed and if you think that your daughter is getting so hyperactive try to make her calm by making her busy in some activities. sai replied. what complaints about her? you should talk to her and make her understand and support her for her good dids so she wiill be encouraged to behave in a good way. Kalash replied. Hi Vidya..

In most cases, it is normally because a child is trying to assert dominance over you and everyone around. That means that your child may have deep-seated insecurities that make her act hyperactive and annoy everyone around her. My suggestion would be to show her time and again that you love her. Show her, dont just tell her. Praise good behaviour...even little steps forward. If she sees how her small acts are also pleasing you, she will make more of an effort to please you. but dont go overboard in saying good girl..say something like It was very thoughtful of you to put away your teddy bear. Now it wont get spoilt lying outside. try making this a habit with all your toys, okay sweetie.

It could also mean that she has a lot of unspent energy in her. For that... you gotta be vindictive :P sign her up for a million classes. Gymnastics, aerobics, yoga for kids, dancing classes, badminton, swimming etc etc. Make it compulsory that she goes down to play. Invite one friend and her mom over to hang out with kinjal. warn her of some rules beforehand of what you consider good behaviour. encourage her to share and suggest energy spending games with the two of them. pull her to the side and remind her of the rules if she starts breaking things or annoying the other child..

Oh! read this article from indiaparenting..
just type hyperactive in the indiaparenting searchbox to reach the article called How to deal with a hyperactive child!

All the Best!
Kalash
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