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Miscarriage and Child Loss:advice me plz
2007-06-27
Name: raanu



i had a missed abortion at 6th week of my pregnancy.it was my first and after 4 years of our marriage.i had several complications,but with god' s grace i conceived.at the time of d&c my doctor sugessted a couple of tests as histopathology & pcr.
my pcr repot is possitive.doctor told me to have med4 8 month 2 so m i taking but i dont want to wait 4 that long time shall i try now. or what if i conceive plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz sugesst

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2007-06-30
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
Subject:  speak wit your dr



Hi Raanu,

I am not sure what PCR is and could not find any relevent information over the net. Can you explain what a positive PCR report is so that I can perhaps be of more help? Has your doc explained why he called for these tests to be done? I know that partial molar pregnancies often present as a missed abortion through my searches which might explain the need for histopathology for a proper diagnosis. Your doc would have very good reasons why he has prescribed for you to take meds for several months before conception and it could be very risky to contradict his instructions. If you feel a great need to try again now I can only insist you speak with your doc and get his opinion, the last thing you want to do is risk your long term fertility by falling pregnant or God forbid, risk a child you have conceived. I can' t say how sorry I am for your losses and send my sincerest good wishes to you. I know the wait after a loss is a long when when all you want to do is try again but you need to think of what is best! So many of us here have had very long delays and we do understand how strong your desire is to be a mother! Please go and see your doc and perhaps the two of you can come to an agreement that suits you both. Take care and forgive the lateness of this reply.
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2007-07-05
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Anonymous Name: rannu
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hi sudha
thanks 4 u reply.actually pcr is 4 tubercilsiss.i had in past.but i cunsulted the doc,she is saying its ok.but now i relax &really want to conceive as soon as possible.plz suggest me its been only 2 months of D&C and i didnt get my period too.i dont no what to do.plz help me
should i take follic acid tablets.plz reply
with love
rannu
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