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2015-09-25
Name: Sameer Singh Hi,
I got engaged 2 months back. Found a match through one of the matrimonial sites. We met for the first time 6 moths back and got attached to each other, atleast i'm. Afer engagement she told me about a GUY who use to pursue her for marriage. She said she always use to refuse her but she use to talk to her for hours on phone. This is a very old story almost 5 years back, and she said she have given all this many years back. After engagement I found she was still talking to that guy till this year. I was angry on her lie and reacted furiously and asked not to talk to him ever again. She said she won't. But again I found she had talked to him till this month. She kept on lying until she was caught. Should I go ahead with marriage ?
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2017-09-11
#1
Name: sneha
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
i think you are madely love with her, and thats why you dont want to see fact story of her, you knew everything but then also you avoid this things.
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2017-09-11
#2
Name: anmol
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
i thought your wife had an affair with this guy, and they both are in love, but she dont want to loose you thats why she hide everything from you, and she dont want to loose this guy also.
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2016-11-04
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Name: lopa
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
you had posted this post long back ago , so what is status of your now, you married with her or not, or you marry with other girl.
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2016-11-04
#4
Name: lokesh
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
if she accept that this boy is her friend then why dont you trust on her, so just keep trust on her words, and go ahead with her, she was good girl that's why she told you everything.
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2016-11-04
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Name: jyoti
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
i think you are madely in love with this girl, and she was make you fool, and you know that she make you fool but then also you are ready for that, so be strong and take good decision.
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2016-11-04
#6
Name: mohit
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
hows your marriage life going on think about it, if this girl lie with you now what is surarity that she will not lie with you in future, so dont trust on her, and change your decision to marry with her.
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2016-11-04
#7
Name: babu
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
there clearely shown that she cheat on you, and then also you are ready to marry with her. so dont take wrong decision and dont go ahead with her, she is not right person for you.
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2016-11-04
#8
Name: damyanti
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
try to create good friendship with her, first make her good friend, and then you go ahead, because she is already in relationship with that guy, and she was hide from you all this.
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2016-11-04
#9
Name: kiran
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
i think this girl not at all interested in you, she will be cheat on you, and she will be cheat on this other boy too, and may be in her mind keep relation with this guy, and marry with you.
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2016-11-04
#10
Name: harpreet
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
my friend suffer from same incidence so i tell you please dont take any wrong decision on this stage of life, first think on that from all sides and then only you continue with this girl.
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2016-11-04
#11
Name: billu
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hi sameer,
dont take wrong decision in hurry, so take your own time and then only take any decision, may be this girl cheat on you, and she tried to make you feel, so just watch her for few months and then only take decision.
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2016-10-10
#12
Name: Babu
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
Hi Sameer, gud that you have not yet married her you cannot trust these kind of girls as they will not change even after marriage. So its good if you can break the marriage now itself.
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2016-09-29
#13
Name: reshma
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hi sameer,
my friend go through same incidence and he taken decision not to marry with that girl who has already relationship with his school friend. so ask her directely that she want to marry with fool loyality or not.
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2016-09-17
#14
Name: pramil
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hi sameer,
try to create best friendship with her then she will discuss all things, like whats going in her mind will share with you, and there is no space for doubt.
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2016-09-17
#15
Name: bacchi
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hi sameer, hows your marriage life going on, and what progress in your marrige life, is there any third person enter or not yet, and what is your wife mind say now, is she stop talking with her ex.
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2016-09-17
#16
Name: seema
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
i thought you must talk with her on serious note, and ask her is she realy want to do get marry with you or not, if yes then she stop all this lieing and all from you.
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2016-09-17
#17
Name: kalpana
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
sameer think 100 times before marriage her, because trust in important factor in every relationship, and as per you mentioned you never keep trust on her in future, so how you maintain your relationship with her now onwards.
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2016-09-17
#18
Name: malti
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello,
sameer try to keep trust on her words, may be he is her real friend as you think nothing like this, so just relax, and if there is any relationship why she is ready to get marry with you. think on it.
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2016-09-17
#19
Name: tamnaa
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hi,
sameer what decision you taken before one year, because you had posted long back, did you marry with same girl or not? and share your feelings and experience here.
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2016-09-17
#20
Name: rajesh
Subject:  RE:Seeking Advice
hello sameer,
i also go through same story, my soul mate also have affair with his ex boyfriend till now, and she is talk with him casualy, and when i asked her about this, she simply ignore things, and avoid topic.
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