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Extra-marital Affairs:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
2013-08-03
Name: sg chetan Guys Remember me… on july 10th I posted about life story and I got many positive answer from people, today I face another strange fact ….. Please help me with your suggestions..

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Anonymous on July 10, 2013 at 6:04 pm

After reading this entire conversation, I really got tears in my eyes. Because exactly two days back I found my wife which whom I got married one month back, had sex before marriage. I felt inferior, very jealous, angry, thinking to go beyound divorce. etc.. And I was upset from last two days and she really does’t have any idea about it. (why all of a sudden I am not normal).

But, Later I spend one complete day reading this page and I sent a TEXT MESSAGE TO HER
Saying
” LOVe the way you are ..plz be the same way for rest of my life… ALl two days you are really nice to me..some times I would be Upset don’t leave me alone. .Thank for all your care and love.”

Nothing else I did after this and our conversation went well.
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In order to forget what happen in the past of her life, I started new life with lot of love and affection. I loved my lady girl like anything. which I never did to anybody in my life.. I used to send her gift/surprises every often (Currently we were in two diff states/she will be moving to my place in next one month)…

One day I got a chance to see her mail box and personal phone bill. Which really surprised me and I felt bad. I still see her sending 50/100 Text message daily to her ex-boy friend ( To whom she had sex before marriage)
And I got to know that they had 2 years long relationship and had a break up, as her parents not interested in match, because of diff in caste

But, I still see her love towards me and she really cares me alot and never say NO to me. I don’t understand what to do. it’s been just two months we got married.
she behaves likes she doesn’t know anything and shows lots of loves towards me. While having sex, she sometime compare with her EX_ saying that I don’t have wide shoulders and a great body (Her Ex was a muscular)

she is still thinking that I have no idea about her past and what she is doing now.

Right now, I am just acting to be nice with her..lost trust on her. Please help me with your suggestion should I move on? Some times I think of getting divorce,
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2017-03-11
#1
Name: Vikram
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear are you fine with your wife sleeping with her ex after marriage then why are you with her, i think your wife is just using you and you are letting her to do so. All the best dear for your future.
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2017-11-29
#2
Name: sorry
Subject:  RE:RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Exactly
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2017-03-11
#3
Name: Vikas
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear i think you need to talk to her parents and make them realize that what they have done is wrong and by not letting her settle with her ex was a wrong decision please help her out and give her divorce.
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2017-03-11
#4
Name: Vijaya
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi there are you normal as in which men will allow her partner to sleep with other guy and not act on it after knowing the fact also, please do not make such mistakes which will spoil your life forever.
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2017-03-11
#5
Name: Vijay
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi my friend you should have acted long back in this issue this is really weird you being correct also but not fighting for it, why i dont know but then you are at a loosing point please think over it.
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2017-03-11
#6
Name: Vicky
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Do you believe in your wife and are you willing to do the same mistake what all men do, please do not give a chance to your wife again as she will never love you and if she says she will stop doing this then she is lying,
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2017-03-11
#7
Name: Vibhuti
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear feeling the pain for you i can understand its just two months of your marriage and this worst thing is out, please have the courage to fight against it and choose the right way as sitting with it will not help you.
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2017-03-11
#8
Name: Utarkash
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear please apply for a divorce as nothing can be done and you cannot solve the issue as there is not surety that your wife will stop meeting her ex as you stay in another state and it is difficult to keep a track on your wife.
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2017-03-11
#9
Name: Jigisa
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear my concerns are with because after all such things you are being patience and thinking that everything will normal, please stop thinking like this for a while and act on it as it is very serious matter.
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2017-03-11
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Name: Jeetu
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear please make sure you act on this immediately as things will not wait for you and your wife will keep on enjoying and you will suffer the most so why to give pain yourself and why not act on it.
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2017-03-11
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Name: Jain
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi there what a fool you are after knowing the fact that your wife is playing with your feelings you are msg her that you love her the most and thinking that she is also feeling the same, i think you are totally wrong and correct yourself.
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2017-03-11
#12
Name: Jhavni
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear this is really bad what has happened to you but trust me please make sure you are going to take an action on this as if you not take any action things will keep on moving like this and your wife will not leave her ex.
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2017-03-11
#13
Name: Jaimin
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
I think nothing has gone bad as its just a beginning and think you are lucky enough to know the fact about your wife you can always leave her and start a new life for yourself as solving this issue is not a solution.
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2017-03-11
#14
Name: Kiran
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear after knowing also the fact then why are you not acting on what is keeping you quite in this as i dont feel that there is any solution to this and one must think that its good if you are separated as you will not suffer.
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2017-03-11
#15
Name: Tejender
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hello dear you are just fooling yourself and wasting time as your wife is enjoying out there and you are suffering and living in guilt why?? Please speak to her and give the divorce documents she will come to know that you are not a fool.
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2017-03-11
#16
Name: Tejas
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi my friend you are wrong here why are you not acting on it and what is left in this matter so please start speaking to your wife and get a solution for this immediately on it and get separated.
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2017-03-11
#17
Name: Tanmay
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Sometimes you think of giving her a divorce why?? I mean do you still want to live with her and spoil your life as you know the fact that your wife is cheating on you do you feel if the case was vice versa would she forgive you??
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2017-03-11
#18
Name: Tanvi
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear i cant understand for what are you waiting, is there anything else renaming in this matter as you are being to week and should not be in this case because your wife will not understand your love towards her.
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2017-03-11
#19
Name: Tanya
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
Hi dear please make sure you take an action immediately and give your wife a divorce and let her live and enjoy her life with her ex boyfriend and you should also start searching for a good soul mate.
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2017-03-11
#20
Name: Tina
Subject:  RE:2 months married and getting thought of divorce,
This is really shocking as you checked your wifes phone and you got these msgs, please ask for an explanation on this from your wife as this is not done and you should not wait in this matter as nothing can be done.
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