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Extra-marital Affairs: Extra marital affair
2013-06-25
Name: Arun Bhatnagar This is regarding my wife , who is quiet sext age of 4o.

Her behaviors , since marriage was rude towards me and my children , from Dec-2012 onward , I have seen her highly inflated mobile bills of Rs 4000 to Rs 5000, which were never paid by me.

she kept her mobile in her safe custody and messaging to some one starts in morning , how ever I have manage to copy few numbers on calling back it was all males on being asking , she replied that all numbers are of Gyatri pariwar , which i doubt.

Messaging quality is erotic , which she replies even the messages received at odd hours and replied soon by my wife and delete from her mobile

confrontation releting to this has been increasing , i could not understand what should I do is she have any extra marital relation ship.

I have try to avoid keeping in view the carrer of m kids who are studing in career oriented classes .

Inspite of asking the name of persons , she decline of sending any messeges of erotic nature and blame me for having doubt on her

Kindly advice , what is to be done

Regards

Arun Bhatnagar


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2017-03-17
#1
Name: Deepali
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Please speak to your wife openly on this matter and ask her what she wants from the relationship and also tell her that if she wants a divorce you are fine with then see her reaction so according to that you can judge it.
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2017-03-17
#2
Name: Falak
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
I think this is something different as you are saying you cannot say anything to your wife in this matter as this is very strange i mean which man will be fine if he come to know that his wife is having an affair outside.
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2017-03-17
#3
Name: Gautam
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
HI Arun do not take this thin lightly as this is a big matter and you should have raise your voice against your wife and also one point is not clear that why the need of doing such things do you guys dont love each other.
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2017-03-17
#4
Name: Tanmay
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi dear please do not leave this issue as this is not done and you must be very serious about it, please act on it ask your wife to justify the steap mobile bill and why there so large amount of bill.
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2017-03-17
#5
Name: Tejas
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
This is cheating and you are allowing her to enjoy the way she wants just imagine if this case was vice versa would she been so calm and normal never then why are you being like that just make an issue of it and clear it off.
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2017-03-17
#6
Name: Vikram
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi dear the reason is you because you being so quite on the matter your wife is thinking that you cannot do anything and she is enjoying just act on it and show her your guts and she will be scared and stop behaving like this.
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2017-03-17
#7
Name: Vikas
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi there please do not panic and act smartly and also check her mobile when she is sleeping and take all the numbers and check what is the matter as this is not right and you should fight for it.
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2017-03-17
#8
Name: Vijay
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi Arun i think you are making a big mistake and you should not wait like as you should act on it immediately stop paying the bills and ask for the statements from the mobile co as you will come to know on which no the calling has been done.
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2017-03-17
#9
Name: Vicky
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Oh dear this is not right just tell your wife to be normal and if she is acting too smart then so her that you are not a kind of person who will let it go and make her feel that you will take an action on it.
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2017-03-17
#10
Name: Amaira
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi Arun please stop doubting your wife like and if she loves you she will not do such things and even if you feel that she is doing like this then just speak to her openly why to hide such things.
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2017-03-17
#11
Name: Anjali
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi Arun please do not panic and act in this situation very carefully as your wife is playing very safe so even you have to plan something different if you want to catch her red handed, please make a plan for it.
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2017-03-17
#12
Name: Anju
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi there if you have a doubt just take the cell phone in front of her and start calling all the numbers i am sure you will get the answer and if your wife is wrong then ask for a justification and please do not worry.
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2017-03-17
#13
Name: Anju
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
How much sure you are about it that your wife is having an extra marital affair so please stop doubting on her and start loving her the way she and also make sure you speak to her once things are normal she will say the issue.
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2017-03-17
#14
Name: Anaida
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
I think you have not gain confidence on your wife thats the this is the scene, so please gain her confidence and then speak to her about this and i am sure she will open and then you can solve the problem.
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2017-03-17
#15
Name: Aditi
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
Hi dear please do not doubt like this as there are chances that your wife must be true and you are just doubting on her, please speak to her on this on a lighter note and explain your issue and tell her if she shares anything you will not harm her.
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