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Extra-marital Affairs:Extra marital affair
2013-06-25
Name: Arun Bhatnagar This is regarding my wife , who is quiet sext age of 4o.

Her behaviors , since marriage was rude towards me and my children , from Dec-2012 onward , I have seen her highly inflated mobile bills of Rs 4000 to Rs 5000, which were never paid by me.

she kept her mobile in her safe custody and messaging to some one starts in morning , how ever I have manage to copy few numbers on calling back it was all males on being asking , she replied that all numbers are of Gyatri pariwar , which i doubt.

Messaging quality is erotic , which she replies even the messages received at odd hours and replied soon by my wife and delete from her mobile

confrontation releting to this has been increasing , i could not understand what should I do is she have any extra marital relation ship.

I have try to avoid keeping in view the carrer of m kids who are studing in career oriented classes .

Inspite of asking the name of persons , she decline of sending any messeges of erotic nature and blame me for having doubt on her

Kindly advice , what is to be done

Regards

Arun Bhatnagar


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2017-07-10
#1
Name: damyanti
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
dont take doubt on her may be someone try to blackmail her, and your wife may be true to give response him on call and phone, you give her security that you will not harm her, so she will be share everything with you.
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2017-07-10
#2
Name: sandesh
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you dont take doubt on her, may be as per your thinking there is nothing like that, and may be its just your assumption about her, so think on your decision again and again.
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2017-07-10
#3
Name: kimya
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
this is really very serious issue, you dont take it very lightly, if she dont love you, then you should give her divorce, and both will be live life as separated so it will good for both of you.
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2017-07-10
#4
Name: shantanu
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun
you are really very cool person as nature, you posted here and we can judge that she definitely had and extra affair, but because of your nature she is still at your home.
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2017-07-10
#5
Name: devanshi
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you are really very nice man, thats why you are behave in cool manner and you thought about kids future also, so if you want any legal help you can contact me i will be glad to help you.
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2017-07-10
#6
Name: namita
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
i feel so sad for you, she is your wife, or your second wife, because you said that she is rude towards kids also, so mother cant be rude towards her own kids, so clear this.
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2017-07-10
#7
Name: jamuna
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you had posted this post long time back, so what is your current status and now she is with you , or you was taken divorce from her, was she discuss everything with you.
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2017-07-10
#8
Name: pravartan
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
this same thing happen with me, after marriage, immediately after 5 days, my newly wed wife, massaging someone at night, and i m not aware that she had two phones.
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2017-07-10
#9
Name: omi
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
dont get panic, and keep control on your anger, she is women, if you try to hit her, may be she can put blame on you then it will be get complicated case, so keep calm yourself.
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2017-07-10
#10
Name: gautam
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you should take care of yourself and take care of your kids also, dont get panic and dont over react on that, handle this situation very carefully and take help of court.
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2017-07-10
#11
Name: tarun
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
this is cheating that your wife done with you, its clearly seen that she have an extra affair also, thats why she hide everything from you, so you should take divorce from her.
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2017-07-10
#12
Name: archana
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
may be its your imagination of yours, because your wife always show anger on you, thats why you assume this about her, in actual its not like that, so think twice before ask her anything.
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2017-07-10
#13
Name: mehul
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you do not take this situation and case in light way, may be there is very depth reason hide behind it, you directely ask her about all this, and take answer from her, and give divorce to her.
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2017-07-10
#14
Name: saurabh
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
if your wife had an extra affair, so somewhere you are also responsible for that situation, you are not able to give her time, and not able to fulfill her wishes, so she taken that decision.
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2017-07-10
#15
Name: rashmi
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you ask to your wife about all this things, so it will helpful to you that came to knew everything, dont go in negative way also, may be you are not able to give her time.
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2017-07-10
#16
Name: suchitra
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
whatever you post is something different in your case may be she is trape in some other matter, like someone blackmail her, and thats why she cant able to tell you anything about this.
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2017-07-10
#17
Name: nirmala
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
you should communicate your wife on that topic, if she try to neglect ask her clearly that is she have an affair, and if not then she give her mobile to check out, then you should come to know the actual situation.
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2017-07-10
#18
Name: devika
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
the situation is not in your favor, definitely from your wife gesture its seems like she had an extra affair, if she dont have then she may be sweet with you, and talk with you.
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2017-07-10
#19
Name: radhika
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
if you are very sure about your wife nature and character, so you try to give her notice of divorce then you can see her reaction on that, if she is easily ready to get divorced from you,
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2017-07-10
#20
Name: shreya
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair
hello arun,
its clearly seen that your wife have extra marital affair, and she want to hide it from you, thats why she used to delete all the massages and number of particular number.
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