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Behavioural Problems:How not to spoil your child?
2008-10-06
Name: Editor How do you discipline your child? Do you spank or hit your child? What is the right way to introduce discipline to your child?
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2008-10-06
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Name: Jyoti
Subject:  do not spank
Spanking is not the way to discipline your child. There are much better ways to teach your child to be responsible. Instead you should give timeouts to your kids as per their age. When you spank your child they think that hitting someone is right. They start hitting their classmates, friends and siblings. They get filling that they are doing nothing wrong. I agree that you must discipline you child from beginning but spanking, beating, abusing or threatening are not right things to do. You should learn the rules of parenting. Adopting punishment and reward approach helps a lot. I never slapped or spanked my children.
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2008-10-06
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Name: Kavita
Subject:  parents should not act like boss
My sister and his husband are kind of authoritarian parents. My brother-in-law will used to beat his son if he will do any mischief. My sister will impose many rules at a time on her son. As my observation he does not have that much confidence in himself and he scares his parents a lot. Last time he tore off his mark sheet as he did not want to get beaten up by his dad. Later they came to know that results are out and they scolded him a lot. He kept crying for long. I talked with my sister about this but she is hard to understand. She says that she knows how to bring up children than me. Parents should not convey children from their actions that they are the boss.
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2008-10-06
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Name: Chitra
Subject:  important to set some boundaries
It is important to set some boundaries to discipline your children. It is easy to spoil child but it is hard to bring up a responsible child. It is very true that one should learn to say no. Parents should understand child’s psychology. My son is ten years old. Last Sunday he asked me if he could go on a cycling with friends somewhere far away. I strictly said ‘no’. I told him that he could not go as he is not old enough to take his own care. Like any other kid he too showed tantrums. He said that moms of his other friends are nice and I am not but I did not step back. Two days later he came to me and said sorry for his behavior. Every parent should keep in mind that their children will not stop loving them if they did not say yes to their demands.
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