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Behavioural Problems:What to do if your child back answers you?
2008-09-24
Name: Editor Does your child back answer you? What do you do if your child behaves disrespectfully? Is it necessary to scold a child to discipline him?
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2009-02-20
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Name: vanshika
Subject:  answer back
my son is 5 yrs..and i am noticing that he has started to answer back me oten..when i scold him,he says sorry..but this is nt the rite way i am goin thru..advice me
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2008-09-24
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Name: aaditi
Subject:  rude teenagers
My daughter is teenager. She behaves somewhat rudely at time. She was kind of answering me back when I did not allow her to go to party with her friends as it was a late night party. I told her that I am not going to listen to her. She was still telling me that how unfair I am and how I am not like other moms and such things. I took away her laptop and I pod for two days. I was very particular about disciplining my children from beginning. I like the parenting tips in the article. Though I have tried most of the tricks, some are still remaining. I would discuss with other parents who have teenage children. I will ask my friends how they handle their teenage children.
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2008-09-24
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Name: rajan
Subject:  discipline is the key
You should teach your child to respect you, his teachers, his siblings, his friends, his peers and his elders. Discipline should be taught from early age. Make it clear if your child talks back or answers back to you. Tell him that you are not going to tolerate such behavior. You do not have to be too strict to let your child know what is not accepted. You just need to be firm so that he will understand that he should not use bad words or should not sound rude towards you or anyone else. Children learn quickly. They imitate their elders. They try to copy their peers. But if you tell them firmly what you expect from them, they will surely listen to you. But make it sure not to hurt your child’s feelings while teaching him discipline.
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2008-09-24
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Name: Shobha
Subject:  no spanking
I would say parents should not respond to their children unless they are using polite and respectful words. My daughter is 10 years old. Sometimes she uses bad words and even talks back. I do not think that we are setting a bad example in front of her. She must be learning it among her friends. I tried discussing with her that it is not good to use bad words. But still when she loses her temper she just starts using bad words. As I do not believe in spanking, I do not spank my children even if they go mad. I have tried several techniques to impose rules. I have tried using positive and negative reinforcement too. I think this article is quite useful. I will try some other tricks to impose discipline. I think it will work.
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