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2011-02-17
Name: Priya Surapaneni Hi Everyone...I am having trouble to understand the situation or even to discuss this topic with my husband. I hope you people will read this and guide me through the approach i have to take.

i am not sure if this is common with guys. I am married for 3 years now and my husband has a habbit to visit certain websites looking for escorts or for women who are interested in men. I happen to see some escorts phone numbers on his phone. becoz of the way he is i tend to check his phone activity from time to time and there where few times where i caught him trying to contact these gals and get in touch with them. my husband before marriage was a flirt. he used to hangout with several gals at one time. after marriage he did change a lot but i feel like somewhere in his mind he waits or looks for hte oppurtunitiy. i had these discussions with him before. i asked him straight that why do u visit these website he says he is timepassing. he even knows that i know about these things but still he visits these websites and save some phone numbers on his phone. i never caught him really going out with these gals. i am trying to understand if he is really time passing or he is just waiting for the time i am not in the town so he can hangout with these gals. everytime i try to talk to him abt this he doesnt like it and it turns into a big argument and finally there wont be any conclusion. if i let go these things we are a happy couple. he does take care of me and always supports me in everything i do. whenever i am around him he doesnt make me feel lonely. we had a love marriage and i know that he loves to soo much but i feel that this habit of his is not going. he tends to visit these websites whenever i am not around him.

i am not sure how to handle this situation. really confused but it bothers me soo much...as i said i know he loves me soo much. this is the only problem i have with my husband...if not for this problem we are a happy couple...please suggest me what i have to do and how i have to approach this...it is really bothering me...

I wonder sometimes are most of the guys like this??? guys no offense to you but i just want some clarification...
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2017-06-14
#1
Name: bharati
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
are you his choice or not, is he really want to spend life with you or not, first find out that and then try to find out solution on that, so its better to keep continuation with them.
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2017-06-14
#2
Name: babita
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
you know his habit, and then also you took doubt on him, so you keep control on your feelings, and your anger too, you change in your behavior and then show the magic in him.
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2017-06-14
#3
Name: niraj
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
there is lots of mens who keep extra marital affair, and they maintain this relationship, they want the affair and wife both in like and them terms and conditions, so its not right at all.
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2017-06-14
#4
Name: daya
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
all mens are expert in keep extra marital affair, and they know how to handle both relationship, but you should keep control on your anger, and keep trust on him.
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2017-05-25
#5
Name: kripa
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
mens are expert in keep extra marital affair, if anyone men who is not satisfied or not interested in her wife, then only they try to extra marital affairs, so its common thing now days.
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2017-05-25
#6
Name: rekha
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
if you know your husband habit, then why you take doubt on him, so you should keep control on your anger and keep trust on him, and give him his personal space too.
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2017-05-25
#7
Name: kshitija
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
may be you are not successful to satisfied your men, and thats why he find out such type of name and contact number, keep attention on yourself, try to attract him towards you only.
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2017-05-25
#8
Name: shobha
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
lots of mens are married but then also they try to keep extra marrital affari, just for x purpose nothing else, only 10 percent mens are loyal towards his family and wife.
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2017-05-11
#9
Name: sunanda
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
you are too good friend of him but try to make too good wife as well so dont take doubt and make your family happy family and try to make it complete family with lots of happiness.
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2017-05-11
#10
Name: amruta
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
you should give him his personal space, and give good and romantic time to him if you give him romantic time why he would look outside for romantic time, so try to understand him also.
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2017-05-11
#11
Name: anuradha
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
control on your anger as well as control on your doubt nature, it may be destroy everything and thats not right at all, if you love him try to keep changes in you, and make your family complete family.
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2017-05-11
#12
Name: piyush
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
there are lots of men who get married and keep extra marital affair for happiness only, they find happiness outside, i dont understand why mens keep extra marital affair.
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2017-05-11
#13
Name: sneha
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
i face some different problem like couple swapping, my husband take more interest in this things, and he try to convince me so many times but i love him very much i cant do that.
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2017-05-11
#14
Name: swapnil
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
rather than always fight with husband you should satisfy your husband till mariried age for 10 years, if girls control boys mind at initial stage i m sure boys dont look outside for x.
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2017-05-11
#15
Name: aanchal
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
you put yourself on his place, and then you can get answer of your behavior, so keep in mind that, dont do anything wrong in your anger, he loves you lot and he prove this to get married with you.
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2017-05-11
#16
Name: parul
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
my friend suffer from same situation like you, she always take doubt on husband and her husband daily convince her that he dont have and extra affair, one day he tired and notice her for divorce.
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2017-05-11
#17
Name: pradya
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
he is your husband and he also deserve his personal space, which is you didnt give him, so you should give him that space, and then you have right to tell all this things to him.
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2017-05-11
#18
Name: payal
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
you should keep control on your anger, are you caught him red handed then why on your misunderstanding you take doubt on him, and did fighting with him so keep control on your anger.
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2017-05-11
#19
Name: pragati
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya,
you know his habit and then also you took doubt on him, so you keep control on your anger and keep trust on him, and really see the magic after some time, he will be changed due to your love.
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2017-05-11
#20
Name: amol
Subject:  RE:Please Suggest
hello priya
in every marriage life husband and wife are one soul and two bodies, it doesnt mean they dont had there personal life, so you should keep in mind that, and give space to each other.
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