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Extra-marital Affairs:Need advise!
2010-01-10
Name: Sakshi Khanna Hi, I am Sakshi.
I was sitting very confused, caught in thoughts for right or wrong. I am married for almost a decade now with a son of 6 year. My husband, though very loyal, has not been able to keep my happy. I feel the compatibility and time lacks. He is in such industry (hospitality) that he is failed to devote any time at home. Further, the physcial relations are really drowning as he is always under so much of stress that he can' t keep me happy. Ours was arranged marraige but, since my son was born, I was always caught in my thoughts of wrong and right. I have been seeing a guy offlate (for past 1 year) with whom I have developed physical relations. I enjoy his company not merely coz of physcial relations but, cause of his emotions towards me. This guy is also married but since he also has problems in his marriage, we both got attracted to each other and starting sharing a good chemistry. I always wanted to be a loving and loyal wife and mother but, since i was always feeling very lonely, thought a new relation will keep me happy which did not happen. Somewhere in my heart, i am not completely happy with this new relation due to guilt feeling to ditching a loyal husband. I am trying to end this relationship with a guy but get very afraid that I will lose someone who loves me, who i can communicate openly with (which is not the case with me and my husband). Please suggest what do I do.

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2017-01-12
#1
Name: kausik
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ask your mind whether it is mok or not and follow. you should make sure that you will not regret what you do, at later stage in life.
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2016-08-21
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Name: sonu
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hello sakshi as u said ur loyal loving hubby all and on other side ur lust chosing one in this s very diff but see the point of ur child wat it needs ur physical relation and if u satisfy wid that contin as it depend on ur wish and see don go by other her urs ok if u lik my advice ping me
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2016-07-27
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Name: Anand
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You should be brutal in your thoughts to enjoy extra marital relationship. Its the need of your body. So keep ur love for ur husband and child seperate from the need of ur body.
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2016-07-07
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Name: Elizabeth
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Hi Sakshi,
You are not kid and you can judge which is good or bad you can decide what ever on you own.So decide what to be done.
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2016-06-29
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Name: kajal
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Hi Sakshi,
Marital affiar would be very hurting for people who will be get suffered from that and it will cause most pain for them and it cannot be so digestible also.
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2016-06-20
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Name: Hari
Subject:  RE:Need advise!
Hi Sakshi,
All these extra marital affairs would create sweet at the moment and later it would be head ache for you in future only.
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2016-06-14
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Name: Hayaathi
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Hi Sakshi,
You just question your self how much love you have got from the guy you have kept affair.Is it so valuable then your husband.You will get answer for your problem.
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2016-06-08
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Name: Sariyu
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Hi Sakshi,
You had very bad situation that you cannot share this to any one.Once you got habituated to new relation and it would be very hard to break that.According to me it would be better break the relation.
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2016-05-31
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Name: kali
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Hi Sakshi,
So can you say what would be better for all the people also and then it would be very glad on you also and i hope it will be useful for all the people who are going to suggest also.
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2016-05-25
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Name: Megha
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Hi Sakshi,
So what would you say that you have done and it would be better you had taken good decision only which would not put you in any trouble also and i hope you would do that also and i wish you would do that.
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2016-05-18
#11
Name: Rosy
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Hi Sakshi,
I can understand your problem but the solution you are approaching is not good and it will look as that you have cheated your husband also.So think about that once again and they you take good decision only.
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2016-05-17
#12
Name: Pankaj.
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Discuss with your hubby about your needs and how u need to have it regularly ...if too late than you are not in a position to control it and how there will be a risk of falling for it
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2016-05-17
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Name: Dia
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Hi Sakshi
I appreciate your thought to a loyal wife and mother. But you are ditching your own thoughts. How could you think so selfish? Your husband is working hard for your own family and meanwhile you are doing this with him.
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2016-05-16
#14
Name: Kaira
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Hi Sakshi,
So you decide which would be the best also then it would be better then you take the decision also then it would be better you would take that accordingly to that it can be done also.
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2016-05-13
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Name: Mishra
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Hello Sakshi,
So you are in confusion about the marital affair do you think it is good to maintain that because it would ruin your life and you will put your life into risk or what can you say regarding this.
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2016-05-12
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Name: keerthi
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Hey Sakshi
I appreciate your thought to be a loyal wife and mother.But can you see that you are not respecting your own thoughts.Your mind is completely diverted.How could you think so selfish.Your husband is such a loyal guy and working hard for your own family,meanwhile you are doing this to him.If he comes to know about this you will never have a complete family again.you will be shattered.Please chaneg your mind.all the best
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2016-05-11
#17
Name: Kaira
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Hello Sakshi,
According to me marital affairs is not so good and you need to avoid all such things because it will put the person life in to risk and it is not so good for the rest of life also.So i wish you would not maintain it.
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2016-05-09
#18
Name: Sana
Subject:  RE:Need advise!
Hello Sakshi,
So you are very well known about the work you have done and you know that you have done mistake also then it would be better to forget about that because you have cheated your loyal husband and said that you were not happy at all.
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2016-05-08
#19
Name: aniket
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you should talk to ur husband in a soft and in a friendly manner.
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2016-05-07
#20
Name: tanay
Subject:  RE:Need advise!
you should think more about it and should talk to the person in a soft manner as he will know ur feelings.
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