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2009-07-01
Name: dipti sharma I' m 29, married for 3 yrs, had a miscarriage 2yrs b4. My social circle and in-laws pass comments on us for not bearing child. Me and my husband don' t want to start a family till we are in a better financial condition. But acc. to Indian mentality even a beggar manages to upbring a child in a poorest condition n we are far better to have one.
My husband can get a tranfer in that condition my in-laws wants to me stay with them, I' m scared of that also coz if I get pregnant it will b mandatory to stay with them,away from my husband, and I can' t discuss dis issue wth my husband.
How to answer people on all their comments. Plz suggest. Can' t ask them to mind thre own business.
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2010-04-20
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Name: Naval Verma
Subject:  Telecom Advisor
Hi Dipti,

Hope all well !! Greetings of the day !! Actually I was searching something else, seen your Problem and thought to give you advise.I dont know you personally but try to admit the fact that this is very common problem with all. Saina advised you well.. But I would like to advise you to stay with your In Laws since at pregnancy.
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2009-08-17
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Name: saina
Subject:  i am psycholosist
hi deepti,
acc to my suggession do baby wen u and ur husband is prepared and listen wat u say abut poor is rite but main thing is that they are not aware of family planning,u are well educated that u knw that giving birth to a child needs mind preparation n not only economicaaly u have to be srtong but prepare urself to become parents.and i want to tell u that indian mentality requires baby n all that just after marriage dont get carried awy by thier tonts and all as u n ur husband wants child not they let them say wat so ever be cool.ye kahani ghar ghar ki hoti hai.u just need to handle these kind of in-laws...bas acc.to me u n ur husband must go for parental counselling if ur husband is comfortable to prepare urself to concive a child it will really help u peolp to grow ur child very nicely and skillfully.my dear wen u are pregnant b with ur husband wre ever he is as during pregnance it is emotional very imp tht u must hav ur husband around.and staying with ur in-laws will be very lonely and they will pass tonts and wat so ever...so i hope my suggesion will help u all the best
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