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2014-11-18
Name: Nadia My daughter is 9 years old and she is in a good public school. All the children in her school are from affluent families and we a middle class family. Her friends bring high end mobiles to school and now she also wants the same. I tried explaining to her but she says that her friends are forcing her to do so. They always show off and she feels sidelined.Peer pressure is really affecting me as well as my daughter.
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2016-09-29
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Name: naina
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hello nadia,
your post was so old it had posted long back, so now your dauter is 12 years old, is she in same school or you change her school, and the situation how you handle.
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2016-09-29
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Name: roma
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hi nadia,
you should knwo these things before taking admission in this school, its but obious that schools kids are from affluent familites, and these families provide kids all luxuries things.
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2016-09-29
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Name: harsha
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hello nadia,
try to talk with your daughter, and make her feel that she is your princess and princess no need any artificial things, and tell her all financial things in very polite way.
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2016-09-29
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Name: trunal
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hi nadia,
i must suggest you try to keep control on your daughter, becasue as you mentioned that her friends are forcing her to do so, and she force her parents so its not good for family. so keep control on her with your love.
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2016-09-29
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Name: tapsi
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hello nadia,
i face same problem like you, i m mother of 10 years daughter, and she also in good convent school, her friends bring so many branded things, and show her my daughter come at home and demand for same things.
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2016-09-29
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Name: aakansha
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hello nadia,
you had posted this long ago, so what is current situation of your daughter, is she still listen her friends and demand things to you or some change in her.
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2016-09-29
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Name: niyati
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hi nadia,
before choose school you think twice about future of your kid, you know very well how will she get friends in her school, so try to tell her, your situation in very polite way. she definately understand.
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2016-09-29
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Name: ronit
Subject:  RE:Under peer pressure
hello nadia,
she is just 9 years old, and you can tell her your family situation, if she understand peer pressure of friends, then definately she is able to understand your financial situation too.
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2016-02-12
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Name: sai
Subject:  hi
make her understand that it will doesn't matter even if she doesn't have mobile phones. for 9 yr old mobile phones are not at alll necessary. make her feel that she is unique and she is better than her friends it might help. try to talk to her again.
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hello karuna,
its not normal thing, you should take some serious action on that, now what is his age, you didnt mention here, but dont put pressure on him, take it in very nice way.... - aanadi [View Message]
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hello karuna,
if your son is enough matuared then you cant put pressure on him, or cant scold on him, because its useless things this time, better you try to keep more and more connectivity with him.... - dhruti [View Message]
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hello karuna,
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hello karuna,
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