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Sex:to Ruchi Kumari frm neha on EMA
2009-02-12
Name: neha hi ruchi,

As i replied to your post that i m also in a EMA and sm hw in similar situation like you...

but now i m not enjoying in EMA i m feeling very low... it seems our relation is dieing...not from his side from my side..

i need to talk to you...feeling very alone..dont know whom to talk....with whom i share my views???

if you there pls revert..
neha
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2011-07-12
#1
Name: Franklin
Subject:  EMA-Help
you can let me know in detail so that I can help you. if you want you can write to my personal email id or call
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2011-06-03
#2
Name: well wisher
Subject:  dear ladies
seen all your posts but plz stop all your EMA. I understand i might be boring sometimes but i believe cheating your partners is really bad. try controlling your self or someday your better half finds out these you will end up in deep sit. I m surprised,wont you girlz feel guilty after all these and getting back to bed with your hubby. Why is your sex desire soo high, consult a dr. You should be an example to our own daughters....so kindly stop this. i know you might feel i m advising, no its not that. a husband will tolerate anything, except this. gudluck...
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2009-02-27
#3
Name: sonia
Subject:  Stories
Hey Neha and Ruchi,
I dont know exactly what ur stories r but just went through this posting & got to club certain things.. i strongly feel that if anyone is doing an EMA there should be no commitment in it & no possesivness & jealousy this shld be all done by mutual understanding.. as i m also in an EMA & my bf is unmarried but i really dnt have any issues with him talking to any other females & he also never tells me to stop doing anything.. i m infact surprised sometimes but i like this way independant & without restrictions though in a relationship
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2009-03-04
#4
Name: sonia
Subject:  Cool Down
Hey Ananya.. cool down that was a general comment to know if ur asking me only the quess dnt misunderstand me we r not here to argue but to have solutions & fund anyways the answer to ur quess is i m married since 5 yrs & my new bf is my collegue .. & dnt worry my hubby ll not come to know i m smartly handly my affair. Let me know abt urself
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2009-03-03
#5
Name: ananya
Subject:  hi
Hello Sonia,

Yes, I am using a fake name, and it is for obvious reasons. Your immaturity about such trivial thing surprises me. It is obvious that I made a mistake while writing a name, so what?????

A more matured approach would have been to point out the error, and then move on to the discussion.

Try to have a better perspective from next time.

Ananya
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2009-03-03
#6
Name: sonia
Subject:  Ananya
Hey Ananya... as ur using a fake name i think ur confused abt whom ur asking a quess as u have actually asked urself a quess.
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2009-02-28
#7
Name: ananya
Subject:  hi
Hello Ananya, it feels good to know that I am not the only one sailing in this boat. Can you tell us more about yourself, like how many years since you got married, how you know your new found love, how long have you known him, what if your hubby ever comes to know?

Thanks
Ananya
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2009-02-16
#8
Name: ruchi
Subject:  Hi Neha
Hello Neha, what you feel is absolutely natural. These relationships do not have any bindings, and hence the feeling of jealousy easily creeps in. It happens for me also, but I need to control it. The person I am involved with is a very serious person, and has his own business. He is very busy most of the time, and I get to spend very limited time with him. So, I feel that if I spend this little time in complaining or cribbing, I might just drive him away, gradually. he comes to me to unwind himself, at the end of the day. he wants to share his day with me, discuss his problems, and all that. I just try to focus on what I can give him. I can be a good listener, and involve him in some light discussion, share some jokes, and share my life as well. We, as human beings are capable of loving more than one person. His wife deserves his time, love and attention. She is the rightful owner.

So Neha, try to get rid of the jealousy. Just be glad whatever he is able to give you, else, it all may stop, sooner than you think. If you continue to have negative feelings, then you have to be prepared to lose him. If I were you, I would focus on enriching this relationship, and look for ways to be happy together.

Sorry for being rude, but I wrote what I felt. Please, be careful, else there are going to be heartbreaks
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2009-02-21
#9
Name: ruchi
Subject:  hi
hi neha, i sent you friends request on the messenger, but have not heard from you.

How are you feeling now. Hope, you are able to deal with the situation well. Do you have kids? Are you working?

I know, how it feels to be jealous, and I also know how it slowly creeps in the situation making it dull and dead. Hope you are able to control your emotions. If they are really bothering you, try to talk to your friend.

Have a good day
Ruchi
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2009-02-16
#10
Name: neha
Subject:  hi
can we talk on neha 7 5 75 7 no space yah hp u understand this otherwise it will be deleted
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2009-02-16
#11
Name: neha
Subject:  you are right
hi ruchi,

i completly agree with you....

but, we dont meet regurlary.... he never share any of his prob with me.... i use to share my prob with him and he alwys give his ear & shoulder.. now i hv stopped sharing my probs with him as he dont share his day to day things or prob with me.. ..if u say that this cd be his nature than i feel he shares his day to day and buss things with his wife
he alwys talk to me in happy mood and wants me to respond in same way which i find very plastic..
its not that he is not mature he is 36+ but still i dont know why he does like this...may be bec of his nature.. i dont know why he wants me in his life when he says he has no prob with his wife.... I ALWAYS FIND HIM VERY CARING FOR HIS WIFE!!
in whole day we talk for 15-20 mins over ph and few sms in a day and than he expect all lovy dovy talks which i m not able connect (i find that very plastic) as if i m some time pass or what...
i always expected a mature relationship but i think this is not what i was looking for bec HE DOESN´ T HAVE TIME!!

i tried many times in past to break this relationship ..stop talking to him ..switched off my mb.. but than sm times he approches me and sm times i agan start talking to him... he has just became a habit that ya he is there we are in touch thats it but... that emotional bonding is some where missing... may be bec he dosn´ t share anything with me...
what shd i do!!

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2009-02-14
#12
Name: ruchi
Subject:  hi
Hi Neha,

I am sorry for not being able to keep in touch.

I can understand you going through a low phase in your relationship. It happens. I would be happy if you could share it with me. It will be good if you could share your feelings in this forum as it will help other people going through the same phase, and feel that they are not alone.

If however, you feel that you dont want to do it here, do let me know.

Have faith in yourself. Things will be fine.

Ruchi
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2009-02-16
#13
Name: neha
Subject:  feeling low
hi ruchi,

i wanted to know do you also feel same as i do some times..

at times i feel so much love for my EMA partner that i feel very jealous abt his wife and wish to get married with him... i feel very possive for him and doesnt torlerate that he spend his tm with his wife... lot of similar feelings like this..

do u also feel so
what do i do...this really effects our EMA relationship as my love for him is reflecting in negative way..as every tm i sound frustated ...
neha
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