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2003-03-10
Name: Fischer Bobby Hi to All,
I am a 23 year old guy,my problem is that I get depressed very frequently.The reasons being:
I was 10 years old when I realised that I am an unwanted child in the family.I feel that there is no one for me in this world..My father used to frequently beat my mother in front of me when i was around 6 years old sometimes so badly that she used to bleed sometimes.I have no brother or sister,nor any good friend to share my thoughts.I have seen condoms in my father's pocket when I was 10 and I have even seen it when i am 23.My father is now 59 years old.I was a student who scored 95%+ in my younger years.I had an IQ which is proven to be way above normal children.However due to the factors mentioned above my educational performance has gone down into the 40's and 50 percent.I have even tried to commit suicide on three or more ocassions [once by consuming over half a bottle of tik-20] but has ended in failure.I have never talked about my father having an affair/sexual relationship to anyone in my family.Even my mother dosent know about it.Its inside me all these years.I just dont know what to do in life,nothing seems to work..Not even suicides.I have absolutely nothing in life now.please suggest..
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2003-09-13
#1
Name: Sneha
Subject:  hi
How you doing bobs? Do write
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2003-11-14
#2
Name: friend
Subject:  hi bobby
hey its been long time no posting from you.how are you doing and how did you do ur exams.keep posting when you have time.
all the best
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2003-07-31
#3
Name: amit
Subject:  Good Luck
Hey Bobby,

I just wanted to wish you good luck and all the very best for your CA exam in November.

By the way this is another amit diferent from Amit - Keep it up!
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2003-07-17
#4
Name: Amit
Subject:  Keep it up!
Hey Bobby,

I m delighted and moved my the way things have changed for you. The people in this forum are real GEMS, Sneha, Mrs friend and Kiran, salutes to them. I just want to repeat on what these ladies have stressed. Work hard on your education,your success in profession would get you out of negative mindset - it will give yor confidence and desire to move ahead.I myself am successful professional and believe me, the hard work you do in your young age is worth every single bit.Be systematic in your approach and strive for your goal.

Also always remember - Try and Try till you succeed, success is bound to come..I myself has experienced in my personal life where I had lost everything,but I didnot loose hope and came out with flying colors.Do watch some good movies and start playing some sport regularly.

You surely are good in expressing yourself; be proud of your qualities and work to improve on them.This world is really beautiful and gets better when u get a loving partner.

So keep up your spirit and pass your CA exams with flying colors. WISH YOU ALL THE VERY BEST...
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2003-07-28
#5
Name: fischer
Subject:  Thanks Amit
Thanks Amit for your support..You are right when you said that Sneha,Kiran and Friend are REAL GEMS..but you have forgotten to add yourself..Thanks for your advice..And I assure you that I will work hard and become a successful professional like you..Thanks for all your support.
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2003-05-29
#6
Name: friend
Subject:  hey bobby!
Glad to know that you are doing well and preparing for the exams.i wish you all the best.
take care
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2003-05-26
#7
Name: sameer
Subject:  HI booby how u doing
HI bobby this is sameer... Confused in Love story section(ssss pppp)... How u doing... I think bad child hood is some thing very difficult to come out...but u need hope.. for that... life takes twists and turns but it gives u chances also.... try n b as close as possible to ur mother cos she can help u a lot ... i can understand whats the feeling of not having a mother.. god bless u booby... u ll b happy... and here r some very good friends who really help thr their messages thanks angels
sameer
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2003-05-27
#8
Name: Fischer Bobby
Subject:  Thanks Sameer
Hi Sameer,
Thanks for the support.I am doing fine now.I do have a mother though.Not as you have erroneously said.I have always tried to maintain good relations with them..but they somehow seem to show dislike towards me.They have been trying to keeping realtions with me just because I am grown up now.
For the moment I am just concentrating in my education.I do tend to get a little bit negative sometimes but I am sure that I will win over that feeling .
I can only say that the world is a truly great place because of people like you all who are willing to help a person whom you have never met.A million thanks to all of you.
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2003-05-11
#9
Name: sneha
Subject:  hi
Hey Bobs,
How you doing? Whats happening? Long time no posting? Do write guy and take good care of yourself.
god bless
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2003-05-20
#10
Name: sneha
Subject:  take care
hey Bobs,
Take good care of yourself.Health is very essential.U must have heard that health is everything. so pay more attention to it. I am sure you will do well in your exams. Our good wishes are always with you. Do keep posting once in a while so that we know about your progress.
take care
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2003-05-19
#11
Name: Fischer Bobby
Subject:  Hi Sneha
Thanks for caring.I just dont know how to thank all of you.I wasnt well for the past month.All these incidents have resulted in High Blood Pressure.So I was undergoing treatment for the same.
I have recovered now though and am doing fine :).I have my CA exams in Nov 2003 ..and with the blessings of friends like you I will come out with flying colours.
I will never forget you all for all the support you have given to me.I will keep you all updated.
Thanks a lot.
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2003-03-22
#12
Name: Friend
Subject:  hey bobby
Hi dear,
I am very glad to see your reply.you seem to be more strong and determined.keep it up buddy.dont worry abt marrying a girl and blah blah.first you set up a goal and try to achieve it.dont worry dear you have lots of friends,sisters here in this site,you are not alone.keep up the good spirit.we(myself,sneha and kiran )will be much more happy when we come to know that you are well settled in ur life.
all the best baby.by the way what are you studying?can you share your thoughts?i mean what is your goal etc etc.ok buddy stay in touch.
keep smiling always.
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2003-03-24
#13
Name: firend
Subject:  hey bobby
woo CA.so do you live in delhi or mumbai?anyways i am from India but living abroad.by the way i am not MR.friend,i am Mrs.friend :) yeah1i will definitely keep checking your messages.I wish you all the best bob.
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2003-03-22
#14
Name: Bobby Fischer
Subject:  Hello
Hi,
Thanks for all the support you have given to me.I am studying for CA.My ambition is to be a successful professional.And please do keep an eye on this column God willing I will intimate you that I have settled down in life :)
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2003-03-14
#15
Name: sneha
Subject:   Keep it up
hey Bobs
Nice to see you changed.Now remain this way.And if u have anything on ur mind remember there will be lot ppl here to support you.Good to see you strong and keep us posted.
take care, God bless you
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2003-03-13
#16
Name: Kiran
Subject:  good boy
You sound happy & determined. Good for you. Now be happy all the time & think positively. Dont ever turn your back on such simple problems but just fight back!! Good Luck & take care
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2003-03-13
#17
Name: Kiran
Subject:  be firm
Dear Bobby, it should not necessarily be your wife to care about you. It could be a good friend or someone who is not related to you at all. If you are able to get replies here that implies you surely can impress people and make friends. So you are not an unwanted child in this world. You can make friends who really like you as a person and care about you. Friends are forever. As sneha said, stop thinking about girls. There is still time for that. First you have to get strong in your thinking. There is no use if you keep on pitying yourself like this. Be firm and stand up for yourself. Dont let your past ruin your future!!!! Once you are successful in life, people themselves come running to you.
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2003-03-13
#18
Name: Bobby Fischer
Subject:  Great replies...gives me a new life..
Hi Kiran,Sneha and Friend,
Thanks to all of you for replying to me.I do agree with you people,thanks a lot for clearing the cobwebs in my thinking.I shall surely make my move in the right direction.
The first time I wrote the message I was in tears and this time I am happy nothing else.Kiran is absolutely right in saying that nobody can take away my happiness.
The last few days were really difficult for me because this is the first time ever in life I have communicated my problem to any person (because I am an introvert by nature).I myself was thinking about this for the last few days ...thinking really hard...nothing else(not even proper food) ...and the conclusion I have reached is.."My parents tried to kill me before I was born but I am still here,eventhough against their wishes..So I have already won an battle in life..something which not many achieve..so my conclusion is I AM ON THIS EARTH TO WIN.It was really silly and foolish of me to make suicide attempts".
I really thank all those who repied and all those who will reply in future to this message.The replies have been really fast considering the urgency of this situation..and the change in my attitude will never have been possible without your support.Please believe me I feel as if I have got a new life.
Please do continue to support me..I still need people like you who though far away have been caring enough to offer me emotional support..
Thank You again for clearing my 13 year old problem in mere 3 days.Its not completely over(I probably need more time to completely recover from this feeling) but for the first time ever I felt that I can be of some use to this world.As friend said I can do something for those who are in a worse position than myself.
Also thanks to Indiaperenting for allowing me to express myself..without them it would never have been possible.
Thanks again to Friend(for being a true friend)Sneha(for being a loving freind) and Kiran (who threw light in my life).I am very emotional today..
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2003-03-12
#19
Name: sneha
Subject:  dont worry
Hey Bobby,
Dont worry about all that now.When u get the right girl and she loves u she will accept u as u are.
So just stop thinking about that now and concentrate on making ur future bright.U are good in studies so always try to top the class.U will get many friends.Dont think too much about the girl and her parents.
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2003-03-12
#20
Name: Kiran
Subject:  dont worry
I agree that you had a rough childhood. But now you are old enough to live your own life. Its now time to put everything behind and move one with your life. Good things are ahead. Dont miss them worrying about the past. Try to enjoy your present. Start building your future. There are definitely people who really care about you. Make good friends and keep yourself busy. Forget about your dads condoms. They dont worth your joy at all and always remember this in life:
Dont let anybody take away your happiness!!!
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