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Role of in-laws:Interfering Grandparents?
2009-08-20
Name: Editor Are interfering grandparents a part of every Indian home? Are your child’s grandparents annoying you? How have you handled this?
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2013-09-25
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Name: Rabia
Subject:  annoying
Grandparents are annoying. In my case when I want to discipline my kid, they take his sides and thus he does not listen to me. I tried to make them understand but they say that he is just a kid so no need to discipline now. When I argue with them, they blame me for everything. It is tough dealing with interfering grandparents. It seems that I have no right over my child.
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2016-02-27
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Name: sanjana
Subject:  RE:annoying
u should get separated with them if this is the case. ur kid will not respect if it continue and u will be bad in his eyes. so be kind to the kid and love him as much as u can
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2009-09-15
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Name: prada
Subject:  yeah.....
It really irks when we try teach the kid something,and somebody interferes giving advises.Specially as a mother when I try to be stubborn about certain things ,which my child usually takes for granted,my in-laws intrude and take him aside diverting him from the whole topic .All the pain I take to make him understand what to do and what not to do,goes in vain.Doing this ,grandparents only spoil the kids and in return what we see is lot of indiscipline and never ending temper tantrums by the end of the day.I feel when teaching a kid about good nd bad everyone in the house including the father should stand for the same cause.Then only one can give the best for their kids.
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2013-09-25
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Name: Kaya
Subject:  interfering grandparents
Grandparents can be sometimes very interfering especially when they shower too much love and affection. They do not realize that too much love and affection in the wrong way can harm the child. Giving in to demands is the wrong way of showering love. Similarly giving junk foods is also not a good idea. I think that there should be harmony between the parents and grandparents for the relation to flourish.
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RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
if you are rudely talking with her, then this is not way to talking with your mother in law, you tell her in polite way, your son is her grand son, so she never think about his bad effects.... - ruchita [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
stop your negative thinking towards your mother in law, she is your son grand mother too, so if she gave some sweet like sugar to him its just because of her love towards him.... - reshma [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
if you are dont like your mother in law behaviour then tell her on face, that you dont whenever she gave sugar to her son, so she may be stop giving sugar to him, and your porblem will be sort out.... - kamna [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
you think that excess sugar given to him by your mother in law, and thats why you are worried about your son, so dont take stress of this thing, your son is little now, after some years, he will stop eating sugar by selfly.... - nandita [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
dont take your mother in law in wrong sense, if you are mother of your son, then she is also grand mother of your son, she also has all right to pampering him, and love him.... - rajni [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
dont worry about this small issue, and also dont stress any topic between you and your mother in law, after some years, your son will stop eating sugar self only, so dont take tension.... - rasika [View Message]
RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child
hello kajal,
you and your mother in law, sit calmely, you try to tell her advantage and disadvantage of sugar for our body, and convience her not to give sugar to her son now onwards.... - rahcita [View Message]

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