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Extra-marital Affairs:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
2003-05-19
Name: MR Hi
I saw a post that was almost similar to the one i am facing...i hope that somebody here will help me overcome my problem...
I am married to a lovely woman and are so far, having a great married life. Her sister ( my sister-in-law SIL ) had a love marriage and they live nearby. Initially, things were the ususal self....however, some time later, i began noticing that my SIL started showing her cleavage - i thought it was by mistake...but, it kept repeating - usually she will let her kids near me and then bend just in front of me to pick them up...i resisted the temptation of looking at her stuff this for almost 3 years !!! Few months back, i started conversing with her on a light vein and then slowly asked her about her \";show\";..initially, she declined it saying it was by mistake..later, she relented and said that she likes to dress well and sometimes, that might lead to some \";show\"; which she considers NORMAL !! She swears that she is not trying to seduce me...she stopped this show for a while and has again started it now...nowadays, she gives me a knowing look and then smiles....my guess is, she is again upto her tricks...can anyone here advise me on what i should do ? I do find her attractive and i think she might not mind some small fun ( touching, kissing, etc. no sex !! ) I am now torn between my lovely wife and this bewitching SIL !!

Thanx
MR
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2016-07-05
#1
Name: Tina
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
Marital affair will be nice for people who are living single in their life because they will not face any issue and they will not be answerable to any one.Am speaking who will live only for them.
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2016-06-27
#2
Name: Pari
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
You are not kid and you were sure that your sister in law is seducing you and you have to think by what decision does all this will stop and you can't cheat your wife also.
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2016-06-19
#3
Name: Barbie
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
Though your sister in law seduces you and you must not get easily seduced to her because if you weren't strong and you would face many problems in your life.
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2016-06-12
#4
Name: Naik
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
If you really love your wife you would not get seduced to any persons if they are trying to do with you.So better do not get easily attracted to such things which is not good for you.
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2016-06-05
#5
Name: Jersey
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
It is looking kids playing.What would you think then you and she are married and have kids in your life.She has done love marriage it is really shocking how can she behave like that.
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2016-05-30
#6
Name: Charmi
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
So can you say what would be the better option you have chosed can you say that and it would be good to you only and it will not give any problem for you also and i hope you would not take any decision also about that.
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2016-05-23
#7
Name: Chandu
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi MR,
So you had the problem then what was the solution you had chosen and how much did it got worked on that can you say because many people may get some different solutions from you solution also.
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2016-05-15
#8
Name: Ria
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hi
Your wife is a lovely woman. Dont let other women divert your thoughts. Learn how to control yourself or this will lead you a problem in future.
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2016-05-09
#9
Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Your thoughts should never be out of your moral values.Make sure the way you think doesnt harm others.change your mind set so that everyone around u will be happy.
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2016-05-09
#10
Name: Kali
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hello MR,
So you are getting seduced to your sister in law and what made you to do like that because it breaks the relation and ruin you three members life also i wish not to do any stupid things and make your life into risk.
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2016-05-06
#11
Name: Preethi
Subject:  RE:Confused by sister-in-law seduction
Hello MR,
How could you seduce to your wife sister it is not so good to do and you will ruin her life or what because it is not good for her life only and i wish you would stop all type of thinking about her.
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2005-03-17
#12
Name: LA
Subject:  NO
Keep your hands off. First of all, this is your wife's sister - bad thing to do. Second if you want to sleep with another woman, tell your wife and if she agrees, go for it but why lie and cheat someone when the truth could set you free. Otherwise get a divorce and then sleep with whoever you want.

Also, sounds to me like maybe you are misinterpreting your sil behavior. Maybe she has nice breasts or she likes hers and wants to show them off - nothing wrong with that. The fact that you look is your problem, not hers. Why should women cover up, because men can't refuse to take a peek? Your problem. Anyway, I don't think showing is about you looking, I think it might be about attention from anyone or more so, she likes to feel sexy - to herself and those clothes make her feel sexy.

Either way - I think it would be a huge mistake to continue considering sexual play of any kind with your sil - its immoral.
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2003-09-17
#13
Name: CMP
Subject:  Be a man!!!
Dear MR,
Just ignore this bewitching female. You have a lovely and sincere wife with all her love, affection and 'shows' exclusively for you whenever u need it. This SIL can turn tables and complain to your wife that u made the moves and started wooing her....Just think how this can ruin and damage the beautiful love and trust relationship u have with your wife.....Just avoid long visits and company with her alone....the last step can be to reprimand her in front of everyone.....BE A MAN AND PROVE TO HER THAT THERE IS THIS THING CALLED CONTROL AND RESISTANCE TO SUCH CHEAP BEHAVIOUR AND THAT NOT ALL MALES ARE LIKE WHAT SHE THINKS!!! DO LET US KNOW HOW IT GOES...
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2003-07-17
#14
Name: kumar
Subject:  picture her when she grows old
looks pass with age. your wife has inner beauty and love for you.
this SIL will age into an ugly old whore. tell her to scram
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2003-06-11
#15
Name: aly
Subject:  ignore her
IGNORE her..such a cheap woman is not worth it.
Plus it will ruin your marraige.
Even a little \";fun\"; will eventualy get found out.
I wouldn't tell anyone about it as they might get the wrong idea.
Just confront the young woman and tell her that you are fed up with this \";show\"; she is putting on.
Then if she keeps doing it ignore her.
That is the only safe course to take.
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2003-06-10
#16
Name: nis
Subject:  for MR-about his sil
Okay MR, I just came upon your post-and I hope nothing has happened thus far. Now hear me out--What the hell is going on in your head?? You stated you have a wonderful wife. You tried for 3 yrs to ignore your sil/-sweetheart it's not working. Do you want yor marriage or have some fun with sil. Hey we have all been there and all is normal until you have thought about the next stage. Do you actually want a there a choice between your wife and sil?? Tell your wife about the situation or ask your sil in front of everyone to cover herself. Be a man--take charge of the situation. Unless you enjoy the attention and want some touch and feel with your sil.
use your head MR-nis
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2003-05-19
#17
Name: Pran
Subject:  Run away
dear MR,

Just run away from situation. It is not worth it. Because extra marital relations give only agony and trauma after wards. Read my own posting called \"; amazed\";. Nothing is worth it. It will ruin all four lives. If required change your house but just run away.

Pran
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