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Hi friends,

Dont know which is the ryt topic to discuss this issue under nywayz I need ur help 2 show me the right way .I am confused and worried .My brother’s 1st marriage failed because she had an xtra marital affair and aftr an yr os so my brother remarried a divorcee just like him.Tho my sister in law acts good 2 us ,my parents and myself, she always fights with my brother like anything for evrything .He is a very easy going guy and so she takes advantage of it.and I hav a feeling that she is pretending 2 b nice 2 evryone to convince evryone that she is v.v.good but only we at home know she is driving my brother nuts directly and indirectly us and once she starts yelling she wont listen 2 anyone and we all keep quiet because we don’t want our interference to worsen the situation and hamper my brother’s marriage in anyway.Tho my parents keep their cool I can’t tho I also try my best 2 ignore but now its more dan enuf.Because my brother went thru a lot and so do all of us .it hurts 2 c him going through all dis.She abuses him like nything.It hurts me like hell and I feel like snapping her bak as evry1 else just keep their cool. I don’t know y I cant stop thinking abt all dis and my hatred 2wards my sister in law is increasing day by day.What should I do? Plssssssss throw some light,advise me ,help me if u can …I would really appreciate that.

Pls reply.

Thanx.
Nikita replied. See instead of getting mad at your sister in law you should talk to your brother about it and tell him to speak up when he is needed to so that at least his wife stops taking unnecessary advantage of him. malik replied. Hello Anamika,
So you had the problem then you need to solve it because you know what the problem is and you have to solve it on your own discuss about the problem with the people who will be very close then it will be cleared. Alok replied. Hello Anamika,
It would be better you need to discuss with your family and solve your problem so that there will not be any tension also.I wish your problem will come to an end so that you will be very peaceful also. Raj replied. record her behavior.. reshmita replied. Yes, give it a thought on why this fight actually happens. If you get answer, then things will be solved on its own. Otherwise, I would suggest you to go for yoga therapy. It helps when you are in a stressful condition. If you practice it regularly and wisely with proper guidance, then you would definitely see its benefits. Hope I could help you. ami replied. Did you ever think why she fights with him?what is the real reason??.it' s always easy to find fault with someone who is not your blood..send both of them to marriage counceling or meditation..it should help.Praticing meditation together will help in improving relationship!..hope this helps!!