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Hi friends,
I have been reading about all these behavior concerns that children are showing & I am sure you parents are really worked about this whole thing, so, I thought may be if I can share this technique with you, may it will help, this is called Emotional Freedom Techniques, you must be wondering what am i referring to, let me tell you, this a very new age technique which is a cobination of Energy Psychology & Chinese Acuporessure... sounds weird? be ready to do more crazy stuff but if you go along, i guarantee you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.
ok.. R u Ready?????
In this procedure you will need to tap on certain parts of your body with your fingers, u can use as amny fingers as you want & you can use any hand..
The first point is Karate Chop point, u must have seen Karate master breaking bricks with their hands that is the point... it is between your little finger & Wrist.
Now start the process, while tapping on the Karatee chop point read this lines
\" Even though, I am really frustrated with my child' s( use his/ her name) behaviour I Totally & completely love & accept myself\"
\" Even though I am really frustrated & do not know what to do with him/her I totally & completely love & accept myself\"
\" Even thogh I feel so lonely & anxious when he/ she behaves like that i love & accept myself any way\"
Now tap on the top of your head & say \" I am really frustrated\"
Tap between your eyebrows & say \" I do not konw what to do\"
Tap at the side of the eyes- both sides, \" I feel really helpless'
Tap under the eyes say \" I feel very frustrated\"
Tap under the nose & say \" I feel as if I am a Failure a parent\"
Tap on the chin & say \" I am frustrated & I do not know what to do\"
Tap on the collar bone & say \" I am really angry at my self for not able to find the solution to this problem\"
Tap under the arm about four inches down & say \" I am really frustrated & angry with this whole situation\"
NOw take a deep breath & check how you are feeling about this whole issue..... May be you are feeling little better. I suggest you continue repeating the above steps till you feel comfortable about whatever issue you r dealing with...
Now, I would like to introduce myself, I am counseling psychologist & I use this for my clients to help them deal with their own issues, hope u will this useful, let me know if you get success with this, please feel free to ask any questions related to this....
Warm regards
Neha Mehta henna replied. hey neha thanx alot it was helpful...