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Aggressive Kids: MOMs only You

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Name: SAHHEAL HEALING CENTRE
Date: 2009-09-24
MOM is an essence of the work that you were part of through the workshop - celebrate your being. It is an essence to help a being get in touch with their own compassionate centres and act from it in their lives to bring about a transformation.

In this regard Celebrate your Being was the first step. It is like an evolving spiral as you must have gathered by now and we are at different points in the spiral every time we make progress.

The first step begins by becoming aware of "Who we are?". That's what the workshop focused on. We are made of many many personalities that keep coming to the surface to express each time we respond and sometimes, these responses are so deeply engraved in our personality, that we may recognise it, become aware of it but then find it difficult to change.

This is exactly where the turning point is. When we reach this level of recognising and becoming aware but are still feeling helpless about our old patterns, just hold on ...and persist.

Here is something that inspires me the most from Raj Bhowmik's compilations -
"I have learned....
That everyone wants to be like the tallest skyscraper, but what they forget is, -that the higher the structure, the deeper you will have to dig inside yourself."

Congratulations because at least you have made the first step to this journey. There are many who are still where they are at their pace. This is our journey, of becoming aware of all aspects of our personalities. Only when we acknowledge them we can accept them to finally choose to change.

The choice is ours and believe me when we decide to make that powerful choice after accepting our parts, the help comes in the right way - so powerful and intense. it depends on your intention and passion.
In this context I am acknowledging that what I learnt from each of your presence in my Universe has been amazing and rewarding for my own understanding of Life. I believe we are a group that shares our processes of growth.

Ever since my childhood, I have been inspired by this piece from the UNDP report for HIV transmission in women -
"women bring to daily life different qualities from men. Women tend to be the guardians of compassion rather than ambition, of connectedness rather than control, of healing rather than harming, of closeness rather than conquest, of mercy rather than judgement. They make possible the circle of the dance as an alternative to the ladder.
Women are the creators of new life, the caretakers of daily life and the custodians and transmitters of community norms and social values."

Truly when one individual brings about a transformation in consciousness that first begins with awareness in oneself, a family changes, slowly the people around that includes community, a nation awakens and finally the Earth.

We are truly the guardians of compassion and evolve each in our own way through this circle of dance - each in its unique way affecting the other but the change that is brought about is universal.

I am attaching an inspirational experience of my client with her permission that has tremendously moved me as a therpiast with the conviction and belief that one can have.

"I take this as a wonderful opportunity to share some of the wonderful experience that I have had in the past three months . I came up in a very depressed and helpless state. I had lots of issues from my childhood which eventually had a lot of negative impact on my habits and personality. I had tried all best medicines all sorts of allopathic, homeopathy and ayurvedic treatments and doctors, but nobody was able to neither detect nor help me with my problems. I am 28 year old girl having headache since childhood which gradually grew more and more with my age resulting anger, frustrated behaviour, not socialising with people, very low self esteem, not trusting anyone, and abusing family members verbally and physically.

I also had a problem commonly known as pre menstrual depression which lots of women or girls have it in their own way. . I had an extreme level of this wherein I used to have a heavy load of frustration piled up within me, just a day prior to my cycle and I used to have a huge drama of throwing tantrums, being abusive both verbal and physically with family members.

I am not trying to exaggerate things but just want to tell to whomever is reading this, that it is not any magic but no where less than any magic. I am not telling that all my problems have been solved but yes there is a lot of improvement and changes which no body was able to bring about in me in spite of spending a lot of time, money and energy. Today my family sees a different person altogether in me. They are not scared of the tantrums and drama that used to happen every month before, I get my cycle. Now even I would not be scared about it because it happens in a very peaceful manner.
The very useful and tremendous magic is to become aware of things and situations and then does addresses the problems or the issues. Well today I am totally a new person filled with joy and positive ness within me."

We are all MOMs deep inside and create a miracle in our existence every single moment. It begins by becoming aware. Sharing of your experiences can help us all together. So do keep sending in your responses and we could share it with this group.

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