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2001-10-03
Name: Editor It is very natural for parents to have different views on child rearing. Sometimes the mother may be too strict while the father is lenient. Other times the father may believe in spanking a child who misbehaves while the mother strongly opposes this. So how would two parents, with completely opposing points of view, come to an agreement?

Permission

Very often when children don't get permission from one parent, they rush to the other. In such a case it is important not to overrule a decision once made. If your partner has denied permission and your child comes wailing to you, ask your child to sit back and reflect on why she thinks she has not got permission, and what she can do in the future to ensure she gets it.

Similarly, with friends

If your child comes running to you because she has had a fight with her friends, don't rush in and fight her battles. If you feel the fight was very serious and warrants interfering, you could have a word with the parent of the other child in question.
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RE:Lessons From Children
hello editor,
sometimes its right, and sometimes its wrong also, children's mind is so pure, and they tell the truth only, they never feel jealous or anger on anyone, so we can learn some things from them.... - anudas [View Message]
RE:Lessons From Children
hello editor,
the adult definitely learn lots of things from kids, and nothing bad in that, and kids innocence and they are always tell truth to parents, so take it sportingly the things they say.... - ajinkya [View Message]
RE:Lessons From Children
hello editor,
kids are very innocent and they dont know who is smart person, they just know spread love and happiness in families, so they do that only, but yes we can learn from them.... - niraja [View Message]
RE:Lessons From Children
hello editor,
sometimes its right to say we adult learn from childrens also, but not many times, sometimes childrens do smart work to finish any task, but that thing we can learn from children.... - umesh [View Message]
RE:Lessons From Children
hello editor,
the adult view and kids view has so much difference, so if adult view is rarely wrong, but that time they can see by kids view there is so many things, which is done by kids only.... - mugdha [View Message]
RE:Lessons From Children
hello editor,
kids work is very smart, and they taken short time to finish work, so there is chances to learn from them somethings, so take it sportingly, and also take innocence from kids ... - umesh [View Message]
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Hey there this is something really weird i mean who can someone define a person based on his sleeping style, please stop making fun of yourself and grow up, this is not the place where you can crack jokes please stop.... - Anaida [View Message]

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