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2009-08-27
Name: swapna suresh hai .. i have got married reccently i.e 3months .. my problem s my husband uses condoms as i vl not use any pills cos i m feared of it.now i need a solution that i do not want to have a baby so soon untill 3yrs so s that okay if v try to use condoms.. but some times v do not use condoms also v just intercouse diretly as soon as he feels fluid out he removes ..so does this make any problem..now i m in confusion wat to do//?? pls suggest me some thing ..thank uu

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2011-02-11
#1
Name: michael
Subject:  pills
just take the morning after pill just to make sure.
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2009-11-26
#2
Name: paramaguru
Subject:  miss jugdement
if u really want postoned your child barring u need to use condom regularly.For first one week from your mensus or period you enjoy directly without comdoms ok because ur eggs formsafter 15 days only. after one week of mensus or period you need to enjoy with condoms ok .one miss erection can also forms a baby ok.
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2009-09-29
#3
Name: swapna
Subject:  hai
hai friends thanks for all of ur suggetions ... n i have another doubt also which position s best to avoid prengecy?

and thank u all again
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2009-09-30
#4
Name: rony
Subject:  sex position
Dear Swapna,
your sexual position can prevent you from getting pregnant (i.e., you can’t get pregnant if you have sex while standing up). A recommendation when trying to get pregnant is for a woman to stay lying down for about 30 minutes, after sex, with a pillow under her buttocks to elevate the pelvis. This allows for gravity to help their destination. When one stands up after sex, gravity may help to pull some of the sperm away from the egg. This being said, simply being in an upright position is not enough to prevent pregnancy. Sperm are tough swimmers and can work against gravity. They are also quick, so by the time a woman would get up after having horizontal sex, millions of sperm will have already made great strides towards their search for an egg.

The moral of the story: remaining in a horizontal position after sex may aid in becoming pregnant, yet this does not then imply that being in a vertical (upright) position will prevent a pregnancy. A woman can become pregnant regardless to sexual position and immediate “bathroom runs” after sex.

there is one more style which works ( not completely) that is doing sex in doggy style and after ejeculation immediate bathroom run and pee however if penis size is long , sperm may find eggs .
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2009-09-25
#5
Name: Rishi
Subject:  to swapna
Dont do that it might sometimes be risky, ask ur hubyy to wear two or more condoms then there are very less changes to leak. So pulling is the best but be safe in it.
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2009-09-14
#6
Name: rearist
Subject:  pulling out
thanks creator, nice detailed information.
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2009-09-14
#7
Name: Kreator
Subject:  pulling out .....
Pulling out is certainly the best option but it might be risky , one of my friend gave this chart so u may follow ..

day1: periods started
d2:periods goes on
d3:priods goes on
d4:periods goes on
d5:periods
d6:periods stops
d7:periods stops
d8: no cervical mucus (dry state) = start screwing
d9: dry state = keep screwing
d10: cervical mucus =whitish liquid = continue screwing...its safe
d11:cervical mucus starts becoming creamy, thick liquid = little fertile state .....its still safe but risky
d12: cervical mucus starts becoming little transparent= stop screwing..because ur sperms can stay there for 3 days inside
d13: mucus becomes more transparent = no screwing
d14: mucus become transparent like egg white..if u touch , it becomes sticky like egg white ....most fertile stage ...this is ovulation day ......no screwing...during this day, the egg come gets released trhru the fallopian tubes and waits for the sperms to unite....
d15: egg still waits ... the egss wait for 1 to 2 days
d16:mucus turns whitish creamy =dont take risk
d17: mucus = creamy=start screwing
d18:mucus creamy- continue continue
d19:mucus creamy= continue continue
d20:mucus = whitish= continue screwing...enjoy
d21:mucus = whitish= enjoy, enjoy ...bang bang bang
d22:mucud whitish ==enjoy ..
d23:musuc starts drying...u can still screw
d24:musuc starts drying...u can still screw
d25:musus gets dried ---u can still screw..its safe
d26:musus gets dried ---u can still screw..its safe
d27:musus gets dried ---u can still screw..its safe
d28:musus gets dried ---u can still screw..its safe
d29: periods starts .....if u want u can screw, if u like to do so so
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2009-09-12
#8
Name: Gurpreet Chatwal
Subject:  Pulling out
pulling out is th best option...........we did the same for 3 yrs and planned baby after 3 yrs......still if you have any doubts...drink a lot of water immediately and go the washroom.
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2009-09-11
#9
Name: rearist
Subject:  b-side
also doing b-side is quite safe and you do not have to worry about getting pregnant.
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2009-09-11
#10
Name: rearist
Subject:  pulling out
actually pulling out is good technique if your partner is experienced, but the issue is sometimes he will just leak in the heat of the moment and that will create problem.
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2009-08-29
#11
Name: Pete
Subject:  Copper T or Loop
Hi Swapna,

There is a very simple solution to your problem. Visit a gynac and ask her to put a 3 years valid copperT for you. The advantage is:

1. You can plan for 3 years
2. You dont have to worry or wait for condoms
3. Since you wont be using the condom, your pleasure also will be good.

Withdrawing when the semen comes is a risky senario. So if you are serious about planning choose the above method and its safe.

Take Care and enjoy your marriage

Pete
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