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Extra-marital Affairs:Extra marital affair a solution ?
2006-07-21
Name: Realms Reality Been in marital bliss for five years now, blist, if you can call it that. My wife is a lazy bum hypocrite who feels females should have all the rights of a man and none of their responsiblities. I am compulsive about a clean house and she is just the opposite. She is interested in nothing but sleep and our son. Prolly the only bright spot is her affection to our son. She is too lazy to take care of herself or the house. She does the cooking part, which i share and the rest of the housework i have to do. I have absolutely no interest in her anymore. All we have is meaningless sex in bed. All this is driving me crazy.

I am beginning to think an extra marital affair would do me some good, but am ambivalent about it. I would love to give my wife a divorce and move on but for our kid. I am not sure what kind of a repurcursion that would have on him.

The feeling that i have failed miserably in life keeps daunting me all the time..i am confused.

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2016-07-27
#1
Name: Anand
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
There are 2 problems 1) House hold work 2)Emotional quotient with your wife. For the 1st problem if ur a well off you can employ a maid who can do the cleaning and cooking and washing part. She can also double up as your sex buddy. For 2nd problem u need to find a partner with the same frequency as yours. Divorce is bad for you and your kid also. You are already married and marrying again is foolish. Mistakes should not be repeated twice.
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2016-07-27
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Name: Anand
Subject:  RE:RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
May be if u employ a sexy Maid, ur wife might feel jealous and start reciprocating.
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2016-07-07
#3
Name: Poonam
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Person,
generally marital affairs will be take place for such reasons only and it would be better think on that more.
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2016-08-10
#4
Name: ganesh
Subject:  RE:RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
hi
As u said better to think on that more what exactly does it mean.
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2016-06-30
#5
Name: Manah
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Person,
You are facing such problems and do you think that for such reason you have to give divorce to your wife which is an major decision in you life and did you know how much you will suffer later.
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2016-06-22
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Name: Leela
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Person,
It have to be known before when you are trying to keep such relations so you have to decide what to be done at present to solve your issue.
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2016-06-15
#7
Name: Harini
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Person,
Any how you have decided to give divorce to your child so as a last chance you just try to change her.She might change but I wish do not take such decisions in anger.
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2016-06-08
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Name: Prachi
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Person,
You can do all your house works by appointing one maid.But what would you do for mother's love to your son.You just make her realize if you and your son was not there in her life.Then she will decide what to do.
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2016-08-10
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Name: ganesh
Subject:  RE:RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
hi,

superbly saaid there is lot of meaning he has to thnk about it.
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2016-06-02
#10
Name: Fareed
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Realms,
I can understand your concern try to explain your problem to your wife and then try to work out for solution of your problem even then it is not solved then you can go for your decision you have taken.
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2016-05-26
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Name: Keerthi
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Hi Person,
So can you say that what you have done also because you had posted this one some past years ago also and it would be useful for any other people who do think the same of this also and i wish you would suggest them good only.
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2016-05-18
#12
Name: James
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi Person,
So what do you think is it better to maintain such relations is good or not and it will not create any problems or not what would you comment on this can you say about that and will come to know about your opinion also.
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2016-05-16
#13
Name: Harini
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hi person,
Can you say what would be the better relation according to you because maintaining such relations is not so good and it would be giving you heavy problem for you also in future you just think about that.
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2016-05-14
#14
Name: Myntra
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hello Person,
before taking any decision you have to think about your kid and then only you decide what to do because kid future is very important also.So you just keep that proposal and if not try to change her slowly.
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2016-05-12
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Name: keerthi
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hey

I can totally understand your problem.It is very bad on her part to be so irresponsible in family chores.I wish she could change and help you out.Having an extra marital affair is always no good for a family man,it will completely vanish your happiness at home.You have to sit and talk to each other.That might help.try and let us know.
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2016-05-11
#16
Name: Avantika
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hello REalsms,
So we cannot solve such things because it must be done on their own only and need to solve themselves because no one would interfere in such matters also and i think the person who is suffering will resolve the issue.
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2016-05-09
#17
Name: Amity
Subject:  RE:Extra marital affair a solution ?
Hello Real,
So what would you think to do because after marriage keeping marital affairs is not so good and you need to be very careful about that what made you to keep the marital affair after marriage which is not good at all.
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2006-09-06
#18
Name: Angelina
Subject:  Reply to Realms
Make ur wife feel loved, treat her with some respect(stop calling her lazy bum, stop putting her down), Talk to her and then see the difference. She will do anything for you when u love her. I can see you dont love her u only need sex u can get it anywhere but u will never find true love and some one to care for you. When she dotes on her son, she loves u too but you cant see it because you are busy accusing her. Who knows she might have some emotional problem and u might be totally unapprochable and unfriendly. Make her feel happy then rest will fall on its way.Stop thinking about having an affair and start thinking about how you are going to make ur married life happier.Ur wife takes good care of ur son she does it because she loves ur son and he loves her in return.Why dont u do the same and u will get it back. What goes around comes around u keep accusing she will not do anything u try to be polite and loving she will do anything for you.

I can only say one think in my best interest start loving ur wife, talk to her politely, encourage her, ask her to socialize.

Dont hurt ur son by having an affair. U will loose ur respect forever he will never forgive u in his life. He will never forget it and everytime he thinks abt it he will hurt u . U will fall down in his eyes never do that.

Good Luck!


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2006-08-29
#19
Name: PS
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Your wife might be going through post partum depression...that's more common than you think..that might be making her listless and not interested in life etc..
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2006-08-14
#20
Name: ana
Subject:  EXTA MARITAL
IN MANY PROBLEMS ON THE BOARD YOU ARE SUPPORTING EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR SO I THINK YOU ARE BORED WITH YOUR WIFE ,AND NEED SOME FUN OR MAY BE YOU ALREADY HAVE SOME BODY ELSE IN YOUR LIFE OTHER THAN YOUR WIFE AND DO NOT WANT TO TELL ON THE BOARD,MY ?IS DID U ANYTIME THINK FROM HER SIDEAND ARE YOU OK IF SHE ALSO THINK LIKE YOU AND GO FOR EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR ?
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