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Name: saina
Subject:  i am cousellor
Date: 2009-08-20
hi there,
listen to ur heart first if u like ur family very much n wont think abut consequenses n society,so go on n hold ur family's hand n if u find that ur parents are every thing to u n for u them u cant hold there hands..
i want to suggest u that i knw its will be very tough for u but if u go with ur parents n u remarriage ur wife by going for second marriage,n by searching good and happy partner for her..like there are remarriege institutes where u can make her profile n u can be nice frinz,....this is one way n the other way is that u can be n stay with ur only wife fighting for her position in family and hurting her and making ur child away from love of dada and dadi,this will be purely ur decision which can make or break the family...do ur best to make her happy and ur family....dont lost ur balance bw which is y conflicts r going on..child think abut ur parents they r not wrong at all..these r all in fantacy that u marry an elder wife who is divorced n having child...there is mentally , and experiancely gapes so do the right for u.get her some one else who is perfect for her,or else love the way time is going.....help urself
hope u will take my points seriously
all the best
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Name: Desi Girl
Subject:  Social change and we
Date: 2009-12-19
Mr. Srivastva I am sorry for your situation. You knew the situation very well before you made your choices.You knew your parents and their attitudes. You introduced your would be spouse as a sister and then changed the terms of the realtionship. They are angry about it. I commend you for taking such a bold step because you are assisting social change, change towars the attitude against divorced women and their children. Finding you partner another spouse and going back to your parents is really retrogrative idea. Stand by your partner, nobody forced you to marry her. It was your idea so take responsibility for your actions. It is your duty to protect her from the attacks of your parents. Even if she dated other men, her sexuality is not their business. About them facing the society, if there were more men like you who would marry divorced women with children then the society will change. At this moment you are an isolated case so every body is curious. But somebody has to be the first. So why not you. Bravo I commend you.
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Name: angela
Subject:  relationship with an indian guy
Date: 2009-12-03
Hi! I want to ask for some advice, I´ m on a relationship right now with an indian guy, we are 6 years in our relationship, I am a filipina, and obviously his parents don´ t want me to be married by their son, they keep on doing everythin to keep him away from me, my indian boyfriend was born and lived here in the philippines, he´ s 23years old now and I am 24 years old. Now his parents ask him to go to india to fix some stuff, and then suddenly they told him that he will not allow him to go back here in the philippines, so my boyfriend told me that I have to look for somebidy else as he won´ t come back here in the philippines anymore, he said he doesn´ t want me to suffer and to wait for him anymore as he can cess that our relationship would be impossible, I told him that I ccan wait until everything get in place, He´ s losing his hope for us to be together, he told me that his parents will disown him if he will marry me... he´ s now stuck in india he doesn´ t know where and how to get money just to go back here and live with me.. he doesn´ t know how to fix things because he´ s very afraid with his parents. what do you thing could we possibly do? do you think if i talk tohis parents and tell them that I am willing to change my religion, my culture etc. they wold accept me? I´ m willing to do everything just for them to accept me, I can also promise them that when we already have children I will promise that they will marry an indian so that their generation ill still continue.. please help me with this.. thanks!
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Name: Companionable
Subject:  Seems u in a bind ....
Date: 2009-07-08
well son .. uyou seem to put yourself i a corner... Your parents are right .. but then you cannot expect a woman with a son not have sex with anyoneelse before she met you ... ha dont joke ..
This happens when you are a poor manager of your emotions and now you shall have to go through the situation you have yourself created .
Remeber i am nto acastigating you for not listening to your parents .. but then they may be the only chaps on this earth who would be thinking good for you . As far as your new wife is concerned she will wait in the wings before her son grows up .. and you should deal with her on day to day basis ...
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Dear Lover,
Though I am late but I hope some one read this message and contemplate on it.
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Though I am late but I hope some one read this message and contemplate on it.
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