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2008-05-21
Name: supriya Actually my problem is that my hubby is not understood me? He is working & me as housemaker, living in singular family with our baby who is 3 yr old? when he is coming to home he is not talking with me & watching TV only as I want some time from him I understand that at that time he is very much tired but I loose my patience frequently whether i wants to stop that things
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2017-01-26
#1
Name: Ishita
Subject:  RE:how to make relations wth hubby better?
This is a common issue with many would suggest you to speak to him openly and try to impress him with your moves so that he regains interest in you.
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2017-01-26
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Name: Nisha
Subject:  RE:how to make relations wth hubby better?
Is there any issue between both so finish it off and make him understand that you want him personally and physically.
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2017-01-26
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Name: Monika
Subject:  RE:how to make relations wth hubby better?
Is he in some problem or is this going from a long period of time try to figure it out the problem or speak to him about your desires i am sure he will sort it out.
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2017-01-26
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Name: Ankita
Subject:  RE:how to make relations wth hubby better?
That's really frustrating life, why dont you speak to him upfront what you want from him and ask him why he is behaving like this with you.
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2016-03-08
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Name: Saloni
Subject:  RE:how to make relations wth hubby better?
I can understand what you go through. Why don't you try to talk to your husband. Try to explain what you want since you stay at home whole day long you do need some time from him to spend with and that is all logical. Iw ould suggest make an early dinner and then try going for a walk take your kid along. Make sure you husband pays equal attention to kid too. I know its hard but you will manage
all the best
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2013-07-08
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Name: Aruna
Subject:  
Hi Supriya,

It is said that men do lose interest soon. It is up to you to rekindle the interest! Do not take away his TV time but insist that you communicate at dinner. Cook his favorite stuff. Arrange the table with chinaware and go for the candle light experience. If you have gone out of shape, get back into shape and get more intimate with him. He will naturally start bonding! :)
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2016-03-08
#7
Name: Shona
Subject:  RE:
Yes Man do loose interest but i would suggest you to just take care of your health . stop troubling your self by thinking so much and go directly talk to your husband about what you feel. He will understand and then if not try to early dinner plan a surprise dinner party at home with candles and relax music . make your kid sleep early and enjoy the evening.
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2016-02-22
#8
Name: megha
Subject:  hi
yes men do lose interest soon. it is a wwomen who have to try new new things to keeep up the relationship. if he loves u he will come bacck to u soon.
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2008-06-27
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Name: Lakshmi
Subject:  Supriya
dont worry if you do not have interesting things to discuss. Just talk about the things u did and ask about the things he did during the day. when he reaches home, give him some time to relax and then ask him to accompany you for a walk. else ask your daughter to go and ask him to take her somewhere. Your daughter could bridge the gap between you both. Is he interested in having a physical relationship with you? if you do not mistake me can you tell me how would you look?(I mean over weight or normal)? If its overweight you can consider bringing your body back to shape. Some gents could have reasons like that
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2016-03-08
#10
Name: sapna
Subject:  RE:Supriya
Yes i would suggest you to just take care of your health . stop troubling your self by thinking so much and go directly talk to your husband about what you feel. He will understand and then if not try to early dinner plan a surprise dinner party at home with candles and relax music . make your kid sleep early and enjoy the evening with only 2 as company to each other . I hope you start enjoying your life. with your husband soon.
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2008-06-27
#11
Name: Lakshmi
Subject:  Supriya
Hi,

Your husband could be stressed out with his work at office. How was he when you both got married? Try explaining him politely that u need more time from him and need nothing else. Most of the gents are like this. When they start watching tv, they get deeply involved in it and dont realise the surrondings around them. That does not mean that he has not understood you. When he comes back home, prepare something he would like. sit next to him and start telling him all stories of what u did during the day. Also ask him how his day was at the office. First few days, he may not be that responsive. but when u start repeating the same questions, he will slowly start answering them. Do not lose hope or patience. Tell me one thing. Is he talking to ur daughter?
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2016-03-08
#12
Name: SS
Subject:  RE:Supriya
Yes i would suggest you to just take care of your health . stop troubling your self by thinking so much and go directly talk to your husband about what you feel. He will understand and then if not try to early dinner plan a surprise dinner party at home with candles and relax music . make your kid sleep early and enjoy the evening. Try to make some romantic gesture to impress your husband and get attention and then have nice night with you too. Enjoy guys you people are life partners after all
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2008-06-26
#13
Name: trav eler
Subject:  supriya
Hi! Perhaps the problem is actually that you think it is a ' problem' . You have been married for apprx 3 years or more. Why not provide some details of how you got married to him? What was life like before marriage with him or at your house? Status of physical relationship with him and vice versa? Kind of job he does and the stress factors involved? Discussions you have tried to have with him? Temparament : his? yours?
There are several factors and several answers. Most so-called problems in reality are just simple issues that need sorting out at a discussion level. It all depends on the level/frequency/type of communication you have with your spouse. It also depends on whether he was ever very talkative in the first place or not.

Regards
Traveler
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2008-06-02
#14
Name: supriya
Subject:  thanks
Thanks AB
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2008-05-29
#15
Name: AB
Subject:  keep urself busy
Believe me 50% of married women face the same problem but upsetting urself will complicate the matter.Keep urself busy.Pursue any hobby n enjoy life
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2008-05-22
#16
Name: jeey
Subject:  Ask for it
Yes dear
Its very natural that all husbands should left free for asome times after thr return from work ..
Latter slowly cares him and if u want your relation to be very nice do safe sex and that will regain happiness..
Ask him for that wonderful thuing...
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2008-05-26
#17
Name: supriya
Subject:  thanks for concern
I was follow the things as u said but for some days but the things were remain same & he didn´ t take interest in talking with me. He always compalso lianing me tht I´ m always talking him either abt some comp. or money matter. But tht is not truth he is hving some mis-conceptions & the oth thing is tht I also not find any interesting topic to discuss with him
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