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2007-05-09
Name: Editor What do you think is the best childcare option? Can you suggest better options than the ones mentioned above? How do you cope with being a working mother? Are you a stay-at-home mom? We would love you to share the special moments of your motherhood with us.
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2011-09-14
#1
Name: shweta
Subject:  maid vs creche delhi noida ncr
Star news 14-9-2011,maid kidnapped a child in rohini,try to keep child at safe place
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2008-06-30
#2
Name: sonal
Subject:  work from home
Hi,anybody working from home in the field of content writing or online tutoring..pls let me know how to kick off in these field..i am a stay at home mom who was working full time previously and i really want to do something from home..thanks
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2008-05-22
#3
Name: zabeen
Subject:  stay with your baby
Hi
its very tempting to want to have this persona of your own where you feel pride in yourself, your career, and are financially independent...
in the long run its substance that counts... you have a baby that will grow to know your face and learn to understand the world through your approval and disapproval of your environment. Small children are so watchful aware of what people are going through around them. If you have no need to work outside your home, then i would resist the temptation. Looking after yourself seems like an impossible task when youhave a baby that age and no family support. I' ve been thru the identical scenario and know the desperation. It helps to arrange regular playdates with other moms in similar situations so when they watch your child you are free and then you do the same for them. You can then schedule all your recreation or personal care appts accordingly.
Its imp to do your own thing at home also so your child knows when you' re playing with her or reading to her you will give her undivided attention (and do so .. dont answer phones etc). When you want time for excercise or whatever you could then tell her mom is going to do this stuff for half an hour and she' s welcome to play right there (or what ever works for you )... it would take a while sometimes or not at all depending on your child' s personality for her to understand.
Never over use it though ... be honest ... if you know you haven' t spent quality time with her don' t try to make her believe you have. She won' t trust you anymore.
I hope all this blabber helps...
:)
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2008-05-17
#4
Name: Geeta
Subject:  Confused
Hi,
I am a working mother working in IT of a 1 yr old boy. I joined work when my kid was arnd 3.5 mths old. My MIL and my parents are taking care of my kid alternately. Inspite of this, i feel guilty every morning when i go to office leaving my kid. I have to goto work because of the house loan taken in my name. Initially when i joined office i had requested my mgr for fixed work hrs i.e. 9-6 and had to report to people at my same level. BUt now its difficult tomaintain fixed work timings. Please guide me what to do. I am also looking for parttime or work from home s/w jobs in Pune..If anyone has any idea please send me a message.

Thanks,
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2008-07-09
#5
Name: Aradhana
Subject:  hi
You can try for job in company like TCS where people work till 5.30/6PM only. though compared to other companies the pay is little less but i think it would surely be sufficient
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2008-07-02
#6
Name: Rajitha
Subject:  re: work
Hi Geeta,
U can try out in IBM. this company supports ladies working from home.
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2008-04-28
#7
Name: Dipti Keskar
Subject:  How to seek a balance?
Hi all. Mine is a nuclear family and I am a stay at home mom who quit her career in the early stages to look after my child. I enjoy seeing her grow up, and did not wish to miss out on those everyday moments of joy. Now that my daughter year and a half, I am in a quandry. I don' t want to take up a job right away but would like some time for myself: to pursue my hobbies, to exercise...There is no economic necessity to take upa job either. But I definitely feel that some independant time would do both of us good. Whenever I think of leaving my daughter in a daycare, I' m unsure about my decision. Also, I' ve been unable to get any background info on daycares in my area (Pune:
1.Eurokids, Magarpatta/Kalyani Nagar, 2.Kiderbrooks, Kalyani Nagar and
3. Innovations, Naylor Road.)
Suggestions and recommendations are welcome.
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2008-01-24
#8
Name: Vatsala
Subject:  Creche in office
I completely agree with the fact that a child can be best taken care only by mothers but at the same time you can' t ignore the fact that in today' s life being a working couple is must in order to take care of your responsibility and give better future to the child.
I am lucky that way, I am working in a company which gives creche facility till your child is 8 yrs.The creche is in the office premises only and i can go and see my daughter when ever i want.I was facing some challenges in the office and was seriously thinking of switching my job. but just because of this facility i changed my mind, though i cmpromised on my job front, my level but i am happy that my child is with me and to a extent my responsibilities are also taken care of.
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2009-04-21
#9
Name: sm
Subject:  creche in office
Hi Vatsala,

Can u pls tell me the name of the company u r wrking with. I am also looking for a company having creche facility.
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2008-06-17
#10
Name: Ruchiqa
Subject:  Please help
Please tell me the name of your compnay which has a creche in it and also location.... please am very depressed since I am unable to find names of compnaies with day care in them. Where are you located
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2008-03-31
#11
Name: barkha chhabra
Subject:  creche in ofice premises
Can u please let me know of the name of your company and even other companies which u know who provide the creche facility in the office premises,as we are proposing for the same in our office.
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2008-01-03
#12
Name: Geetanjali
Subject:  Moms shud pursue a hobby or do some part time jobs
I definately agree that moms are the best caretakers of kids, but what about her aspirations, once when the kids are grown they are busy in schools,TV,video games,friends and various activities classes....What about the mothers then, are they only to take care of others needs.I strongly recommend that all the moms should atleast pursue one of hobbies.And if possible do some part time jobs, where they can use their brains and intellectual powers.The question is not of earning money but the feeling that they are doing something in life for themselves too.This makes them a satisfied human being, who can further nurture the kids and family in a much better way.
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2007-12-17
#13
Name: swati
Subject:  psychological impact of leaving child in a creche
son, not very happy at the creche. gets disturbed by the noise other children make, unable to sleep for long. He is 6 months. He is generally irritable afterwards. Is it still advisable to leave him at the creche. I am working and that is the only option. Is the adjustment issue cause a long term problem in his personality and temperament. Otherwise he is a happy child. please discuss.
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2007-11-30
#14
Name: Neeth
Subject:  Cheches can be a good second home
For working parents, it is best that the child is kept in the close by crèches or crèches facility given by the office so that the mothers or fathers can monitor by making a casual visit. This way the child as well as the parents specially the mother can feel comforting with hectic schedule back in office and not worry too much.

Another advantage in keeping a child in crèche is helping the child become more independent and learn to be social so that they mingle children, share, learn together and this way when the child is prepared to go to school, he or she is happily willing to go and what more than a mother want to see such nice days!!

Stay at home mother is the ideal choice but how long can one keep the child at home, the child also needs to explore and crèches and play homes become a good choice for also over all development!!
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2007-11-15
#15
Name: tina
Subject:  research before sending your kid
i think before sending your kids to a creche or leaving them with maids or babysitters you need to thoruoghly research about their backgrounds. after being fully satisfied by the information, then only go for these options. an extra step in case of maids, i.e. giving their details to the nearest police authorities is not a bad idea. you cannot take any chances these days.
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2007-10-11
#16
Name: juhi
Subject:  A simple solution for everyone
I think the best idea is to leave a maid of yours in the day care center. Thay way, your maid will take good care of the child in the presence of the people in the day care, and similarly the the day care folks will take good care owing to the presence of the maid! A little more costly, but worth it, don' t you think? That' s what I did! All the best.
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2007-09-03
#17
Name: Hema
Subject:  nothing like seeing your kid growing
Hi,

I am a working women. I work for one of the leading companies in quite a good position. But i have resigned my job recently and am in my notice period. I took this decision, as me and my husband were of the opinion that nothing like personally caring for your child. I was on leave for a week' s time and spent full time with my little son who is just 9 months old. Nothing like seeing your little one learning to play. He was also overjoyed to have both of us with him as we usually leave home in the morning and come back only by 8 pm.

It was after this short leave that we decided he needed either of us by his side. What' s more important that spending time with your little one.

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2008-01-25
#18
Name: Harsha
Subject:  Working mother-Raising twins?
Hi
My MIL is looking after the kids during day while i ma at office. I feel v guilty..dont now wht to do? Finance is not a big problem for me. Should I leave my job for my kids. Pls help twin moms who were working?
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2007-08-29
#19
Name: Priya
Subject:  creche in and around basavangudi,v.v.puram
hi iam looking for a creche fron 9 - 6 in and around basavangudi and v.v.puram....for my 1 yr 8 month old son.....pls help urgent....
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2007-06-18
#20
Name: shivani
Subject:  looking for creche
I am looking for a creche in and around benson town for my son.Kindly adice a good creche.
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RE:Creche in Old Gurgaon
hello anvita,
you dont think that your baby is so much small and at this age you should not keep her in creche, its not good for her, because in this time, she need you every moment, so dont do this.... - kiyara [View Message]
RE:Creche in Old Gurgaon
hello anvita,
its not right age of your daughter to keep her in creache, its not good idea now, you can give her to your parents, till you need to go out, or you can take leave from job, for some months.... - praful [View Message]
RE:Creche in Old Gurgaon
hello anvita,
you both are working parents and thats why you asking for creche for your 4 month daughter, so its not good at all, she need you in this period, also she need your breast feeding too.... - giri [View Message]
RE:Creche in Old Gurgaon
hello anvita,
in delhi noida, you can easily get creche in sector 9 or 10 but think again, its so much risky to keep our daughter handle to unknown people how you can keep trust on them.... - rupali [View Message]
RE:Creche in Old Gurgaon
hello archita,
are you recently shifted to noida or what you can take help of google to find out good creche in noida, it will definitely give you answer about this, so think on that again.... - durga [View Message]
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