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Aggressive Kids:help i am lost
2005-07-01
Name: lubna shariff Hello everyone

I have been married for three months now I have a 5 year old son. He is a very lovable kid and I try to give me enough love and affection as I am not his biological mom. Lately he is being very restless and does not want to sleep on time (instead wants to watch cartoons) this in turn is effecting his school as he is not able to wake up early and sleeps in school (the teacher is complaining) my husband is very sensitive and does not want to tell him anything as he feels he is too young to be disciplined and says he will be alright with time. I am very confused and do not know what to do I loose my temper and this makes me feel guilty. He throws tantrums and crys if his wish is not fulfilled (e.g. He wants a new car). Can someone please help me and now I have found out that I am pregnant.

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2005-08-18
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Name: Girish
Subject:  No Word from You
I have no response from you for a month now i hope things are getting better for you and the family as a whole you mentiopned of taking your son to a therapist so what happened did you go and does he know that you are pregnant . Dont get too stressed which might affect the baby,s growth i wrote to find out how you are and pray everything goes well
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2005-07-08
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Name: Girish
Subject:  Try It
Reading your tresponse to mmy advice i too was sadenned why should the child behave like this perhaps you might have heard of one god in hindu mythology had 2 mothers
You must take advice from a therapist and why not do this take the boy your son out for walks talk to him as much as you can take him in your lap convince him that mummy is there to care for you i need to take your son in confidence i feel rather too sad that my cousin divorced and re married now his second wife says no going to meet the kids he has 2 son,s its exactly opposite to your story those people stay in america I pray for you so everything gets well soon please let me know and dont loose confidence how can we contact by e mail Dont worry You Are Not Alone
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2005-07-03
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Name: Girish
Subject:  Dont feel Lost
You are not alone in this wide world you must convince your husband that this is the right time you both sit together as the boy what is in his mind first and foremost you both ought to have confidence in each other tell your son we both love and care for you so tell us everything Even though your husband is sensitive show him my essage small children ought to be disciplined within a certain time do it now before its too late
May god bless you
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2005-07-12
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Name: Girish
Subject:  DONT WORRY
Dear Sister
Your story is unusual, as your husband isnt cooperating with you understanding you are carrying his child he must treat you with dignity and tell the 5 year old boy that this is a fact now dont trouble your mother she is going to have a baby and you as elder bother take care of the baby and you need to keep your temper under control or else that will lead to complications I view the whole story if I had to marry again the child I had I would tell him/her this is your mum love her and welcome your new sibling there is a real life event that occurred in our neighborhood one family married their son his wife gave birth to a girl and no wonder the boys mother beat up her daughter in law she left the house then there was a 2nd marriage this girl looked after the girl who said this is my 2nd mummy maybe 6 months ago the 2nd mummy also went now the teen girl about 11or 12 says she has a 3rd mummy who has kept her mother in law in control take your son to a good therapist i assure you everything will be fine my neice encouraged me to do this voluntary service
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2005-07-03
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Name: lubna
Subject:  thanks
I really appreciate your concern at times I really feel helpless. Its been just a few months since our wedding and I feel I am not being a good mother. I agreed to every wish of his in the beginning may be thats the reason he has become so stubborn now. I tried talking to my husband but he is not willing to listen. Do you think we should seek help from a therapist?
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