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2008-06-03
Name: Editor Have you ever experienced a situation where things simply went beyond your control? Did you try fixing the problem? Have you ever let go?
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2008-06-03
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Name: Sweety20
Subject:  Its so difficult
I lost my distinction by 2 percent. It is so difficult to let go. Imagine I was so near yet I am so far off my goal. I was feeling so bad. There were just some places that I lacked. Now for a lifetime I will never get that distinction. It was years of hard work that' s gone for a toss. I find it really difficult to let go. It is really feeling awful. My fiends have scored about 80 – 85%. Why did it happen to me? I had studied as hard and long. I am finding it really difficult to get over my results. I do not know if I will ever be able to let go of this incident.
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2008-06-03
#2
Name: Ravi
Subject:  Much better
I had a break-up with my girl friend two years back. I kept on pursuing her even after that. I kept calling, messaging. I would keep dreaming of us back together. I was so crazy I just would not let her go. But it was draining me out. I gave empty thinking so much of my time. I had lost focus on life. I don’t know why I was just going round in circles. I had stop living. I think I was just thinking about her and me throughout the week, 24x7. Once I was just deep in thought and I was questioning myself and I realised my life was not working because I was not giving it a chance to. I was busy trying to control and fix things that were beyond my capacities. I was treating my girl friend like a trophy I would win. It was ego more than love. And I was scared of being alone. But sometimes we have to be brave and let go. Believe me my life is much better once I let go. I started living once again on my own. Now, I am married, have a career that I love and I have a beautiful baby girl. Letting go really helps. It can change your life.
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2008-06-14
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Name: spark76
Subject:  break up
I had break up with someone and another person luved me truely the most and gave me courage to face obstacles and come out of the fears of lonely and blues with positive attitude and confidence and live life again. Although at that time I was so much engrossed and thought I love the person who ditched me so much that I did not care for this person.I was only thinking of the 1t person and hurt this positive person and went back to him in my past.
i really did not realse his dedicated love and affection and true intention and hurted him and he went away and never contacted.
the day after he left and I got lonely slowly started realising his integrity and undrstood him when I was all alone and his importance in my life and I now realise that I really love only him from within and intend him back.
but i really dont know whether he is married or no as he beleved that I have gone to my old beau and I have realised that i from within intent him and only him when I started thinking from my own mind. Although its 6.5 months passed now I realise its late, but should I give this a chance and contact him with true apology and forgiveness. If not anything else atleast for me to move ahead of this guilt.

As I was innocent and disturbed at that time and helplessly could not think from my mind what is right for me and what is wrong and in this course badly hurted the person who loved me and who is actually right for my life.

I guess he must have cursed me and let go and settled but that is not true at my end.
Shall I contact him once as he always believed that i was the best for him.
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2008-06-03
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Name: Sandhya
Subject:  Relief
I was always having problems with my mother in law. All the time. At times I really felt helpless. She would be so unreasonable at times. I could not retaliate since my husband really cares and does not want to hurt her. I was at my wit' s end with her tantrums. She would taunt, complain to my husband regarding small things and make me feel like an outsider. Sometimes I felt like zipping up her lips and thought I am so cruel. I could feel an evil side of me rising out from somewhere. I was growing very irritable. And once while reading an article in the newspaper it just dawned upon me that I should just throw this problem out. I had tried my level best to make her happy but things did not change. Finally I decide whatever she does I will let go and focus myself on something else. Since then I feel much better. Every time she says something bad I let go and think she is aging up. I am silent and I replace my negative thought with a positive one. Believe me it helps. I read more, I am calmer and my mind is at peace. I am not running behind my tail anymore. And my mother in law is wondering what is wrong with me. Now it' s a challenge for me to let go every time she does something I do not like.
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