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2011-01-03
Name: j va I met my husband 10 years ago. I was still in college and he was working. I took student loans to pay for my college and worked 2-3 part-time jobs because I did not want to burden my parents who had recently moved from India to us. When my husband and I got married I gave him my savings of $10,000 and took extra loans to make downpayment on the house we were building. Right after we got married my sister in law asked for $10,000 to start rental car business. I told my husband that it would be impossible for a 24 yo female to run it and he said that his uncle would help. My husband despite my saying no gave the money and within a year it was all lost. My husbands parents r separated, his father was abusive to mom and sister. Now mom and sister live
together. Mom has no say in anythiing because the brother and sister decide everything. Actually sister decides everything and brother who is 6 yo older pays. We got married 7 years ago. Sister has never been nice to me. We both do not like each other. She thinks I am not good for her brother. She was engaged twice not including other boyfriend who are not good enough for her. Last person she was engaged to wanted a car. So far we have sent 35000$ to her. Most got saved because this guy too was not good enough. This time all the money will be used because she found this guy who makes good money and she kinda likes him, but instead of car she will take $15000 in cash parents have contributed nothing ever. Dad refuses and mom has nothing. I wanted to set budget, my husband hit and still sent her what she asked for. I have absolutely no say. Mom just watches the show. I used to like her but after being very upfront with both mother and sister what I can afford everybody just ignores me, so now I hate them all and do not trust my husband. I am a Dr. My house runs on my Income, me husband lost lot of money in bad investment and his family. I am really upset at him, but do u guys think that I am wrong?
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2013-03-11
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Name: mah
Subject:  hi
me engineer from kerala . can we be friends. i like to know more about you . if yes please share your email id
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2013-01-02
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Name: Tara
Subject:  Reply to sister in law attitude.
What country to you live in? I would say put your paycheck into your own account without your husbands name on the account and give him an allowance. Your sister in law is not entitled to any of your money. Too bad for her, guess she will need to go to school or finally settle on a husband. If your husband doesn' t like this divorce him, you are an educated woman and can easily find a nice husband that will not waste your family money to support his crazy sister. If he threatens you go to the police. This all depends on what country you live in however.
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Name: mahesh
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me engineer from kerala . can we be friends. i like to know more about you . if yes please share your email id
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