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2003-07-15
Name: Hulo Nimu This is Hulo, am a person going through a process of divorce, presently. I had a love marraige. But could not continue with it, and its three years now, that we got married, and we are breaking up. But this is not my reason of writting, rather it is just related to me.
The person about whom I wish to write, is someone else, who now rules my heart and mind. I cant say exactly when I started to like him, even I dont know exactly when I fell in love with him, but I suddenly realised, that life has become tough when I am not in touch with him, and also that his thoughts keep lingering in my mind. And I started to communicate with him, and also told him \";I love you\";, he did not response at the very first time, but after sometime I got a possitive response from him. And he started to care for me, I felt that he too loves me. He also accepts his love for me now, but even before I proposed to him he told me that he was married and had a child, but its my heart that would not listen. And now that we both love each other, I get confused when I think over it all. I know he truly loves me, and will be there beside me ever. Still I sometimes feel insecure when ever I realise how much he loves his wife, or that he pays more attention to her or anything of the sort, and realy feel suicidal, and it then pains a lot.
Will I live with this pain for whole life?
Am I not cheating his wife (She is quite friendly to me, and can never even imagine about me and her husband)?
Is it right what I am doing (We share a good physical relation too)?
Am I not cheating my parrents (I am staying with them now, and they know that I love this person, but cannot imagine beyond that)?
Is this right for me(I wish to conceve a child through him)?
Is this normal(I feel affection for his child the way I would have felt had I had one)because I never had likeness towards children earlier?

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2004-08-31
#1
Name: Sanjay
Subject:  Relpy from a friend
Hulo Nimu ,
I read the message posted by u. I felt sorry not for u but for ur heart, who is not stable at one place. As per u, u had first love marriage which is down at present and after that again u r in love with some one and desperate to have child from him. First u r spoiling life of nearly 3 or more by doing so or u mite be spoiling ur life alone with the child ur despirately to have. If ur quarel starts, as u said he cares a lot for his wife, which at one stage has already started to pinch u. What if it becomes an issue, thing on this and decide on continuing or to stop. Because it is not ur alone life but 3 or more lifes
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2003-08-06
#2
Name: An Indian Wife
Subject:  Hulo, This is just for you
Hey,

I have read your (Hulo's) posting in this board and everyone's reply. What I got from that is:

1. You are confused about what you are doing and you are feeling guilty for sure
2. You are very rude and will never fit to any man in this world, since patience is the key to everything
3. You have to let that man live his life, because of that innocent wife not because of that vicarious man..
4. He has a child for gods sake! God will never ever forgive you if you hit on a family, beware!!!

This is all what I have to say. Sooner or later you will end up becoming a prostitute if you keep on doing all these stuffs. Preserve the chastity of indian marriages!!!!

Bye
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2003-08-06
#3
Name: Msg reader
Subject:  Whats the news
Read all the msgs with great interest. Would love to know what Hulo is upto these days? Having sex with Hero or dumped by him? Grow up lady, grow up!
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2003-07-21
#4
Name: Advisor
Subject:  Problem solved
It seems the problem has been taken care. do write Hulo whats happening? have spent so much time on writing big msgs, would be happy if any one of them helped you.
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2003-07-20
#5
Name: Hero of Hulo
Subject:  Enters the Hero of Hulo
Hi everybody, here enters the hero of Hulo, after seeing the messages for few days i could not resist myself to enter in such a hot topic and let u people know the whole fact.
Let u know something about Hulo. She acted the game of love with me for one month and fixed a date with her old boyfriend, when the matter came to my notice i gave her left and right, she admitted her fault and asked for a last chance. But as she told me that her Ex-BF called her over phone so she had gone but after few days i came to know that the matter was somethin diff, she had the intention to meet him. She asked her Ex-BF what feelings he has for her? just imagine ..she had gone with me for a outing just a day before. I was really shocked. Because i really loved her and was deeply hurt. while she is in love with me she also invited one of her net friend after exchanging only 5 mails with him. When i came to know this matter she had stopped mailing him. Let you know some more background of her which she confessed with tears to me. She got raped twice. She had kissed 7 persons intentionally before marriage, slept with 4 person(including present husband) before marriage. She was addicted to Drugs, Drinks, Smoking till she met me. When I told her to stop she left all those. Now as per my information is concerned she does not have any contact with any man except me. I love her but do not believe her. As she asked a last chance to me and regarding believing her she told me to wait and see whether she does any mistake again or not.
As I told earlier I love her, knowing this that our society does not support this type of relation. I will never leave my wife for her atleast, I am sure about it. I advised her many times to get married with a gentleman, she repeatedly said she can not accept anyone excpet me. But side by side did those above mentioned acts. Regarding the child I do not agree with her, I just listened to her proposal, but personally belive it was just a saying. I tried to change her, initialy i thought she was changing but after those two incident I am confused, Now she wants only time from me to prove whether she is changing or not. I have given her the last chance. NOW I AM ASKING REAL GOOD ADVICE FROM U PEOPLE WHETHER I AM WRONG OR RIGHT? PLS DO NOT JUDGE THE MATTER WITH THE EYES OF MY WIFE.
Thanks & Regrds to all of U.
Hero_Of_Hulo
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2003-07-20
#6
Name: Advisor
Subject:  Its Complex
Dear Hulo Hero,

To begin, I would say it would not be possible to make any comment without considering ur wife. She is the one who is getting cheated for NO reason.

Hulo's life is already messed, be it situations or her own deeds and desire. By helping her(sexually and emotionally) you would only be inviting trouble only. Knowing her past and her acts, it should be clear that she has got trouble. You have simply done 'AA BEL MUJHE MAAR'.But since u love her,u could let her meet some specialist (medical advice), suggest her to adopt a child and carry on with her life in a different city as she wants. I hope your wife never comes to know about all this, if she does, she will be in PAIN.

Child adoption is the best choice..she would be doing good to one life and would get support and aim for her life. Hulo I hope you are reading this too. She seems to be financially well settled and so she would be able to give good life to a child...

Rest all yours and her wish.
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2003-07-19
#7
Name: Psychiatrist
Subject:  May I ask?
I myself am a psychiatrist. I charge 5000rs for an hour.but will give u free advice.

May we know, why are you divorcing ur husband? And how did you end up having sex with somebody else's husband?Whats your opinion about this GENTLEMAN, who's enjoying sex with you?

Once u answer all this, I may suggest u something.
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2003-07-19
#8
Name: Advisor
Subject:  No more cursing
OK Gargi,I agree with you.

Dear Hulo,

You don't need to forgive me for what I wrote earlier.We have been brought up as social beings and are bound by society,so even though your problem is genuine,its not easy for us to digest it and so the anger.But to be really frank,I would personally feel that what u are trying to do is not the right choice.You are a loving person and love a person to an extent u are loving this gentleman,and may be someone else in this world exist who deserves your true love,who can not only give you child,but also be JUST you partner for your entire life. Time is magic and will heal everything and u will forget this gentleman. I know it will be difficult,but i am suggesting u this for sake of ur baby and even urself.U think u can act both as mother n father,but child will definately feel the need of a father(its like giving birth to a child without eyes and say that you can be his/her eyes).Please do not bring a child without a FATHER.

Now if you think of this Gentleman..he has cheated his wife for extra sex.. i have no idea how it all started with u guys..but IT IS WRONG...i hope u agree with this..Try to put yourself in his wife's position and then view ur act.You are using her HUSBAND for your selfishness..

I wish you best of luck.. I know personal desires are difficult to overcome and you might take your own way,inspite of whatever we all say. But just remember one thing.. what is wrong is always wrong, u know it and others too..its just your personal weakness that let you do WRONG and then u try to justify it bu 1000 reasons..If you do what you want,you may end up justiying it for your whole life and still your child may ask you in the end 'MOM why did you spoilt my life for your own sake'

urs sincerely ADVISOR..

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2003-07-18
#9
Name: Handsome Guy
Subject:  Bitch get yourself f****d
What on earth do you think you are trying to prove. Love.... love is very pure and devine feeling.....love is all about sacrifice..keep that in mind...

What you think is short term affair,handsome guys like me are always after women like you who wants change after some time, you know what I mean...u need to eat differnt food u know,ghar ka khaana khaake bore ho jaata hai.U know we do act very gentle and caring(otherwise pategi kaise) and then enjoy them. So women like you are just prey to men like me. But I am human and have heart and as \";Surprised\"; said DO NOT BRING AN INNOCENT CHILD without a father.

U can contact me if u want, i'll give u money pleasure everything u want, but u have to be beautiful and gorgeous for that, are you??
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2003-07-19
#10
Name: Handsome GUY
Subject:  Are you HULO?
hey gargi darling, ae you HULO with a different name...

have some decency in this forum,u gals just think that u can curse us man with name of mother and sister... common grow up.. india parentng gave u freedom of speech and u started utilizing it to show your background, common ho many bad words.. what she is doing is WRONG.. you know it, SHE KNOWS IT(unless u both are same) and anybody reading this would know it, soo what sympathy.. murderer will always be jailed and hanged till death..no sympathy..
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2003-07-18
#11
Name: Gargi
Subject:  You are e real bastard
What do you think of yourself?Bloody Bastard, Son of a bitch, giving dirty offers to ladies. How dare you form the notion that a lady who loves someone can ever expect or accept, your dirty offer.
Better go and ask your mother wether she is interested. Go and sleep with your sister. Men like you can do that too, because you lack common sense, civic sense, moral, actually you are not a human being at all.
A human being will never reply some one who possesses such a pure feeling, in this filthy language. Go to hell.
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2003-07-18
#12
Name: Surprised
Subject:  Have been in same position
Hey Hulo,

I am really sorry to hear what you are going through. I have been in the same position myself and was not able to decide on anything. Though in my case, I was sure that I was wrong in what I was doing.Even though I had very strong emotions for that nice guy,I knew that he was cheating with his wife by having relations with me and I knew that I was at fault by breaking his marriage. There is very rare chance that his wife would be happy if she would have come to know about our relation.Same would be true even with your partner's wife.

It is always better to avoid such relations,they not only could ruin a family,but also could be bad for your own self,your kid,which u r planning to get through your partner.Just imagine he will have to spend his/her life without father.Whats his mistake? I was born without father and I can understand the pain that child might get.PLEEASE DO NOT DO THIS.
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2003-07-18
#13
Name: Hulo
Subject:  Thanks for understanding.
Your reply is worth to be given a second thought. But I can act as mother and father both to my child, which I want to have. I am very sure of this capability of mine. Because I will concieve only once I am independent economically, and have also changed to another city, so that no one will ever know who the father to the child is, and nor will anybody ever meddel about it all. As my marital statuss will then say that I am divorced thus no problem about my childs being brought up without a father. I dont want to hurt his wife, at all, and I am sure I will never let her know anything about us. I have got my share of love from my partner, and what more I wish is a child, I will only go for that, and quiet from their life, and stay with my child, the rest of my life. Thats what I want to do.
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2003-07-16
#14
Name: Advisor once again
Subject:  Love
You want to know what love is: Love is all about sacrifice, its all about giving and never expecting anything in return. Whereas you bitch, not only want sex, but want the guy to break his family.Immoral Guys always love sex with 2 or more women and thats what your hero is doing. Just get blind or get you hand or leg broken(which GOD might be planning for you) and then see how your Hero treats you.He will kick your a** and then you will realize your true love. SORRY FOR BEING SO HARSH, never spoken so bad in my life, but feels like speaking for you.
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2003-07-18
#15
Name: Gargi
Subject:  Advisor why dont you give advices insteed.........
You call your self as advisor, while you never gave any advice to Hulo, insteed kept up with harsh words? What on earth do you thinki are you doing by cursing her? She is to be simpatised with insteed of cursed.
How do you call your self an advisor, while you never give out advices, insteed throw tantrums on a poor little creature like Hulo. Dont you see how confused and messed up she is? Poor stuff, has fallen in love, with someone whom she should have not. Common you people, stop thinking about her partners married life, because cant you see she is not up to harming it at all. She is harming her own self insteed. Try and give out use full advices to her, so that she should back out of this relation right now.
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2003-07-18
#16
Name: Hulo
Subject:  For cool guy................
When I said "wife", I never spoke of me, but of my partner's wife. Frist make your concepts clear about the whole thing then, try to speak out.
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2003-07-18
#17
Name: Cool Guy
Subject:  Wife?
(Just a small correction- Hope you don't mind)
Others wives? Makes me laugh. On this God's green earth, you are not his wife madam! You are his illegal mistress!
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2003-07-17
#18
Name: Hulo
Subject:  Love is purest feeling on this earth.
The damn advisor, do you know what is advice? Bloody hell, better reffer a dictionary. Nonsense, Rascal, what do you think of yourself? You love your wife, then what makes you to think about other's wives so deeply?
I am not breaking any house. Is that clear to you, I never will marry my lover. Did I ever say that I want to marry him? I only want a baby from him, when I am independent, and ready for it. Thats all. He is my love , thats true, but I cannot ruin two lives just to make mine happy, thus I am happy with as much of his love I get. And I dont think that love only needs marriage, because even marriage sometimes fail, while love remains forever. Love is eternal, and mine is too.
You are an unlucky person who knows not what love's eternity is, and who knows not how love id not bound to any social relation. Love is great, vast, deep and endless.
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2003-07-16
#19
Name: nina
Subject:  not love
this is not love. and u know very well what it is... dont u? so dont use such sacred word for all the bitching u r doing!!!!!!
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2003-07-18
#20
Name: Gargi
Subject:  Nina the rude..............................
Why are you so rude to Hulo? She is in real confusion, dont you understand? She loves someone so dearly, that she is unable to think even of her future. It seems like she is not even paying heed to what will happen to her, and her child, which seems she wants to concieve, in future. Why dont you try an understand, what a pathetic situation she is in?
She loves someone who also loves her, but she can never openly talk of it. She cannot even expect any help, or support from him, while she is ready to take up all the problems that may arise to her due to her child. Then how come no one is thinking about her? How come all of you people are going on cursing her? She is a fool, crazy stuff. What she have said till now, says that she is not going to ruin her lover's marriage, but ruin her own life insteed.
She is a poor little creature, who knows not what a foolery she is up with.
Dont keep on throwing tantrums on her, try and give her a sympathetic advice, try to stand beside her in this day of her crysis. I dont say to support her in her folly, but try to make her see reasons about why she should back out at once or what will happen to her in future, if she does not back out right now. Try to help her manage her mind insteed of giving her pain thorugh harsh words.
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