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Trying since long:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
2015-04-06
Name: sweety priya It' s being about 4 years that I and my husband are married and this low libido issue has always been with us. I have to admit before marriage, I had sexual relationships and I feel no shame in saying so. I am very open about these things and this was the first thing I discussed with my partner. While some of you might already start thinking THIS can be a problem, it' s not. My hubby appreciates me coming out about things like this and more and has no problem with my past. He does not even feel jealous if I speak to other men. He encourages it and think it' s best we be friends with people around rather than not. We trust each other and not to mention, love each other.Since the very first day, he has never shown any interest in sex and takes that for granted. I kept on sucking it up because I thought I will just give it time and that if I push it, it will only make it worse as it is such a sensitive topic.It never seems to get better. If ever I question him, he keeps very still..not a word out of his mouth. That frustrates me even more. I really never could get a solution to this. We both want a baby and I am 30 now, but as usual no sex drive. I have tried everything in my power to deal this with love,passion,understanding and what not for him. I was never so patient in my life, but I have shown so much strength. This still goes nowhere. I cant believe he would just see me suffer and do nothing to address it. It has come to a point that I badly want a baby, because of my depression, I even had false pregnancy, where a woman' s mind tells herself she is pregnant as she madly wants a child, but in reality she is not. It has been so long and my husband has no realization of any of this. I do not know what more I can do. I want a baby so badly, so I will have someone to love and care. Can anyone please help me. I am posting after I tried everything possible.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Laxmi
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear no need to beg so much just move and then see the reaction these mens are like this only they do not bother and they behave very weird so please stop this and just move on and then see the reaction, All the best dear for your future.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Vinayak
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hi dear this is really sad to know that you are going through so much pain and in this you are all alone, please do not mind but where is your husbands parents are they not staying with you guys at least share this with them so that they can help you in this.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Vikas
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello madam if i would be in your place i would have waited for my husband and speak to him in a very good manner and would have asked whether there is any problem in me or what is that suddenly there is a change in the behaviour. All the best dear.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Vviek
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear this is not a good sign and i can see that your relationship is going for a toss, please sit with your husband and please solve the problem as soon as possible as this way you will never be happy and you will not full fill your dream as well.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Vinita
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hi divya if you do not mind please share me your number so that i can understand few more things and would like to guide you in this matter as i know how to solve this problem. please feel free to share me your details and would definitely help you in this matter.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Vinay
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hi dear this is really sad to see what is going on in your life but then you are not alone according to me this everyone's life story and you should not take this that seriously and should ignore such things to some extend, rest is your wish and your call.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Vijay
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello madam this is really sad to see but then you are really lucky enough that your husband has accepted you as it is you are, so please sit with your husband and would be great if you guys try to solve this problem in within itself. All the best dear.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Priya
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Oh dear this is really not good for you and i can understand that you are looking for love which you are not getting in return but then its two way and i am sure that you must also be in some wrong way as suddenly your husband cannot stop loving you.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Preeti
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear this is really not acceptable and i think you should fight for your rights and should not leave this like this as if you will not fight now then you cannot in future as well so please take a bold step and fight for it as its your life.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Pooja
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear this is really saddening to see that you are suffering so much and why are you going through this, please visit a good orphanage and just try to adopt a child by this way you will be blessed with a beautiful child and all happiness around you.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Pari
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Oh my god this post is really shocking and i must say that you have guts to stay like this and you are really a hero in your life, please do not feel bad but then you are making life miserable for yourself as your husband will not love you anymore thats for sure.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Shreeja
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear this is really sad to see that you are suffering so much and for what just expecting some love from your husband that is really natural, please do not worry as god is great and i am sure everything will be back to normal very soon.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Sarita
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear if i would be in your place i would have definitely not stay with him and would file foe a divorce as this is not done and he has no rights to play with my life so please speak to some one elder in your family and just take the decision and move on.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Seema
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Oh my god this is insane and why are you suffering so much why cant you act on it, please speak to your husband and ask if you are really not looking for a future together then please take a decision and move on as its not worth staying together and suffering alone.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Shikha
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Oh dear this is really painful thing to see and i am sure you are really strong enough to go through all such issues, but please strong and fight for it as god is great and i am sure you will not left alone and you will be blessed with a child be positive.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Sujata
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear this really sad to see what is happening with you but then you should not leave your husband and you guys should sit together and understand that what is the actual reason behind it and you should not try just ignore things as it is.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Suman
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Hello dear this is really shocking to see but then why are living with your husband and i am sure he is must be having an affair outside that is the reason behind all this things as he will stop loving you and you will get separated so please go ahead.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Anushree
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
This is really very disturbing and according to me you should take this anymore and please speak to your parents about the same and should get divorced immediately as if you will stay like this you will harm your self even more so please get separated.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Aditi
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
Why are you staying with such a person according to me you should move on and should live with your husband as it is he not loving you and you are saying you guys are not having any relationship as well so please move and enjoy your life all alone.
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2017-09-09
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Name: Anaida
Subject:  RE:Really want a baby but husband has zero libido
According to me you should discuss this issue with your husband in front of his parents and let every know that what you are going through, in this way i think things will change for you and it would be better for you as well All the best dear for your future.
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