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2007-02-20
Name: vishakha Hi everyone

Today i was surfing that forum n found it really good. Hope if i get some guidance from here from all generations.
My hubby n me are having cold war frequently and hot arguements also..I stay at home to take care of kids. Kids are in nursery n KG .Now because of family disputes i am depressed .I dont wanna my kids suffering my emotions alongwith me .Infact i am also facing problem in playing with them and all.
Firstly i am thinking to put them up in day care till i again regain my emotional strength .It may take time . But atleast kids will not become target of my negativity .
Secondly i need a change .I cant change me or hubbys or our disputes but i wanna a change in my life style. I need to occupied myself to keep negative thoughts away from my mind . So while keeping kids in daycare i can join a job also ..

Am i thinking on right directions or i am becoming hyper/selfish in my thoughts towards kids n me .

Thanks

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2007-04-27
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These ups and downs are a part of life, no am not being diplomatic here but honestly fights/arguments/depression happens in any marriage after a certain time. I think with you its more because you have two kids to take care and all that adds up to you frustration but believe me running away from a situation will not help you or ur family. However, this does not mean that you should not give time to urself u should but DO NOT IGNORE YOUR KIDS.....they need you and ur husband believe me all these day cares they just cant take ur place....be practical ...and about u being busy and then getting out of this depression will only make it worse...give time to yourself start some excercise in the morning and also do something creative....U know what...the best is stop expecting and then you would see how things will turn around ..Unless the better half is not looking for reasons to get into an argument...hope u understand what am saying ..so be cool and take care of yourself and ur beautiful childrens which have been gifted to u..

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