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2016-12-04
Name: Rahul Gupta Hi
We are married since 9 years. Initial years only wife is not willing to have sex. To her sex is just to have babies. She doesnt like oral she doesnt like different positions, she doesnt like sex at all. On the contrary my urge is huge. Now we have a baby of 4 years after the babys birth, my wife gained around 20 kgs and is now 75. She has completely stopped sex with me. I have explained everything she says she is 36 and that is how we have to live with. I explained her a lot that i am moving away, she says I am free to have sex with anyone but with condition that i cannot touch her after that. But she is not understanding it is breaking the marriage. She always fights with me and because of this i am getting more restless and picking up fight with every one. I am trying my level best to make her understand but she is head strong. I asked her to visit a doctor she doesnt go for visit also. Kindly let me know what i should do. Please be respectful.
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2017-01-15
#1
Name: Rahul
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
Guyz thanks a lot for opinions. I aint gonna divorce her. But the situation is detoriating. I am without sex for 4 years. And i m getting more frustrated. So i decided to go for a escort. Made my wife know that. Many will say about me being bad, but i am human too.
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2016-12-29
#2
Name: aniruddha
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
if your wife doesn't eveen take care of kids, and she is not able to take care of you also, before taking any decision think about your kids, and then only reach on any conclusion of your life.
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2016-12-29
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Name: jeevan
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
its so bad that hear about you all this, but if you carry your marriage from nine years so you can carry onwards also, before take any decision just think about your kids first.
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2016-12-29
#4
Name: kranit
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
why you put so much efforts since nine years, you tell all this things at your home, like in your family member and in her family member like her mom and dad, may be her mom can explain things in better way.
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2016-12-29
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Name: ishita
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
you try to understand her in her point of view also, if she really dont like all this things then its not her fault, right? as a husband you should understand her situation, and try to explain her whats going on in your mind too.
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2016-12-29
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Name: radha
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
can you able to handle your marriage life alone, also are you able to handle and take responsibilities of your kids, then you can give divorce to your wife, so you can go ahead.
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2016-12-29
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Name: ujawal
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
your wife is so weird nature person, as a wife she dont caring towards you, as a mother also she didnt caring towards kids also as you mentioned in post, so its not good for your marriage life.
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2016-12-29
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Name: krupa
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
can you visit wife to good physiologist so the problem in her mind, will be clear, and you are also feel good after all this situation, so try to understand her in her point of view.
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2016-12-29
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Name: jyoti
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,,
from your post its clearly shown that you are fed up from your wife behavior,so in this case you have two options in your hand, try to understand her, and live your life in her way, as now.
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2016-12-29
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Name: ganesh
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
your wife dont like all this things, so why you push her and ask her about all this things, you can choose your other option too, like she gave you that much freedom to you, so use it.
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2016-12-29
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Name: pranali
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
your wife is so much irresponsible lady its look like only, if she is really interested in you, then she will be definitely put some efforts to save her marriage life, so if she dont want you in her life, leave her
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2016-12-29
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Name: ramya
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
your wife interest shows only in ashram and sleeping, so if she dont like to spend life with you, so leave her, give divorce to her and move on from her life, but think about kid too.
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2016-12-29
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Name: naresh
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
if your wife didnt care towards you and she dont like you at all, so why you both carry this relationship, you just decide to take divorce from her, and go in your way and try to conviencee her.
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2016-12-29
#14
Name: harish
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
your situation is so stressful, because your wife not get ready to understand you ever, if she care for you and love you then she never give treatment like this way, i suggest you that leave her.
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2016-12-29
#15
Name: jhanvai
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
your wife is so strong in mind and in his thinking too, because if she is ready to break your marriage too, so what can we say her, she didnt understand what she is going to loose.
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2016-12-29
#16
Name: kanchan
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
i must tell you you stop her going to ashram, because of ashram she done all this things, she has to understand she is just 36 years lady, and she behave like old women and react in this way only.
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2016-12-29
#17
Name: jigar
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
after read your post, it clear that from initial level your wife doesnt like to get intimate with you from starting, not with you only, she didnt have and show initial level interest in you.
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2016-12-29
#18
Name: prachi
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
you are married since 9 years, and now you understand your wife nature, was she behave same way before your baby, and ask her what is her problem, and try to take consultation from doctor.
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2016-12-29
#19
Name: sandhya
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
its really strange to read your situation and life like that way only, in many cases it was happened and if she dont like to do x with you then ask her directely, whats going on in her mind.
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2016-12-29
#20
Name: indira
Subject:  RE:Wife not at all interested in Sex
hello rahul,
you are keep so much patience till now, but try to understand her problem too and ask her what she feel and what exactly she wanted to do with your relationships. best of luck.
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